| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/24/2008 8:04:00 PM | | In my eyes, a player is someone who pretends he is interested in a girl, and at the same time is flirting with other women and tells each of them he is only interested in one girl at a time. A player is also someone who plays with someone's emotions. | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/24/2008 8:04:59 PM | I have been a player... I still could be....
To a woman, a player is frequently the scapegoat for her lack of caution. or a player is a man who gets the woman. By hook or by crook, as they say.
Partly true....
Real players enjoy the game, not the final score, although the scoring is a big part of it.
A player is supremely confident.
He can walk into a strange room and in seconds, own it, and know at a glance who in the room is available to him and who isn't.
A real player is very good at what he does. Be it dancing, kissing, sex, cooking, conversation, making her feel good about herself....
A real player can tell a woman he is a player, and still she will sleep with him that night...
A real player, haunts her dreams, and she cries in her pillow, and still longs for him long after he's gone...
Men who lie, or cheat or swindle to get sex, are not players, they're merely boys, playing at being men... | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/24/2008 11:32:53 PM | It is not instinct. In fact there are many fallacies on the theory of where a man's crazy sex drive comes from. if it were natural, if it had always been that way, the human popluation could not have carried on. The cavewoman could not raise her **stard child alone because it would have been eaten or worse while she was out tring to hunt.
Research that. Being a whore is not in genes, it's an excuse, and theories are not facts.
One fact that men dont believe is that women are ****es because of there periods. Guess what its a scientific fact. I am a raging **** because of my period. Men with those additudes are disease spreading mongrels simply because they have no self control or moral standards. Not genetics. The end. | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 12:15:21 AM | | omgwhatsleft... I LOVE YOUR RESPONSE!!! your right, just because he isnt man enough to have some discretion...he uses the excuse " i cant help it" yeah, so much for actually being a man!!! I really wish i could email you | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 12:17:06 AM |
if it were natural, if it had always been that way, the human popluation could not have carried on. The cavewoman could not raise her **stard child alone because it would have been eaten or worse while she was out tring to hunt.
...unless of course, the cavelady(and her body) figured out a way to mate with the dominate male(getting the best genes) and found a "nice guy"(sucker) to trick into helping her raise her kids... then her b*stard child would survive.
Our biological urges are selfish and our genes are experts at getting what they want. Genes have been around far longer than the human race... about 4 billion years longer. Men aren't the only ones that are biologically unethical. The end. | |
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~Kyn~
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 1:05:02 AM |
...unless of course, the cavelady(and her body) figured out a way to mate with the dominate male(getting the best genes) and found a "nice guy"(sucker) to trick into helping her raise her kids... then her b*stard child would survive
Like HUH? where did you pull this next non-existent theory from?
Did it ever occur to you Mr Kites...that the only reason women are behaving in the "same way" as men nowadays ie. unethical behavior....is because...
since women are no longer completely dependent on males to provide income...that we can throw their asses outta the house when they do cheat (60%) or behave in exactly the same way that some men have behaved (40%) and get away with it, cos it doesnt matter if they throw "us" out anymore.
Which is precisely why men got away with it before and women stayed; because men could do it without fear of repercussions and the women had nowhere to go and no means to leave.
In 70% of cases women file for divorce...you think they file just for the hell of it?
Most men partner up far sooner than women do when a breakup occurs...its not like these women are dumping one mate for another...its because in most cases the husband has failed in his duty as a provider, father, spouse & with his fidelity.
Whats the gripe...? Men finally realising its not particularly nice being on the receiving end rather than the giving...?
Is it because...what was good for the gander...is now good for the goose?
We still bear the brunt of housekeeping, childrearing, offer nearly 50% of the workforce...life is still "harder" for a woman than a man and we still[/] have the stigma of being called sluts etc if we choose to behave the way some men do.
People screw around and people cheat because they wanna & they think they can get away with it.
Nothing else to it than that. Its character...not genetics.
IF men wanna blame anyone for anything...blame yourselves for setting the example. | |
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~Kyn~
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Joined: 2/15/2008
Msg: 182 | |
| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 1:38:57 AM | ^^^ Apologies for digressing but was continuity of thread
BTW...
There’s a young lady that wants to make dinner for me and if it‘s good I may let her suck on my penis.
*smirk*...Hope that went well for ya.  | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 2:36:53 AM |
Like HUH? where did you pull this next non-existent theory from?
Lol... a group of scientists, 1000 women, their bodies, a calendar and some colored markers probably.
Kyn, how come your thought process always starts at "nowadays" ? Women haven't become more promiscuous in the last 50 years...hmm... Kings and queens and guillotines - women have always been cheaters, but they've had to be better at keeping secrets for obvious reasons. (40% - HA!)
Guys are direct and to the point, narrow-minded, physically superior... women have had to balance it. They're cunning, clever and *smart* ...they gossip and control social aspects, they're socially superior. A male cheater is just a big dumb a$$ with a tent in his pocket. A female cheater, is dangerously strategic. Evolutional strategy to near perfection... and THAT'S just plain spooky cuz it makes SO MUCH sense...
People screw around and people cheat because they wanna & they think they can get away with it. Nothing else to it than that. Its character...not genetics.
Okay, here's some stuff I found on this wonderful deal called the internet -
"Women More Likely to Cheat on Genetically Similar Men"
"Relationship quizzes in magazines are fun, but a test for genetic compatibility might be a better way to see if your wife or girlfriend will cheat on you... ...study reveals that a cluster of genes, involved in immune function among other things, could predict how sexually attracted a person is to a partner - and how likely a woman is to be faithful to her mate."
IF men wanna blame anyone for anything...blame yourselves for setting the example.
Hmm... I'll conclude by saying that, YES indeed, my cheating cavelady theory is a scientific possibility. It's very possible that *women* were the first NATURAL players, and *men* were NOT!
What makes a player (so that a guy's genes can ensure replication)? Women do!! And what makes a woman cheat? Genes do.
All of this is really your body's fault, you evil bunny. =p | |
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~Kyn~
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Joined: 2/15/2008
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 3:03:00 AM |
Kyn, how come your thought process always starts at "nowadays" ?
Well d'uh...cos we dont have the bloody figures from the last 50,000 years thats why.
Anything else is speculation. We know some things of our history as human beings but its not detailed.
All that crap spouted about cavewomen suckering nice cavemen into caring for other cavemen's babies is unfounded and stupendously ridiculous rubbish.
study reveals that a cluster of genes, involved in immune function among other things, could predict how sexually attracted a person is to a partner - and how likely a woman is to be faithful to her mate."
^^^Read that again could could COULD Mr Kites...not IS. Its speculation.
There's a thread running round this site about how women who smoke (statistically) are more promiscuous.
Sheesh...you're not that silly to believe and then run around parroting erroneous myths.
What makes a player (so that a guy's genes can ensure replication)? Women do!! And what makes a woman cheat? Genes do.
OMG...the chicken or the egg?
And since there is absolutely no scientific proof that is remotely considered accepted current theory regarding genetics & cheating...its all just bullsh!t and is neither the chicken nor the eggs fault.
IF anything...people emulate behavior around them as "normal"...so the best thing you can do when you have a spouse that is showing your child that cheating is normal and that its to be accepted...is dump their ass so that the cycle doesnt perpetuate.
And btw...thats Ms Evil Bunny to you...and you're buying the coffee  | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 3:11:26 AM | ^^^Yeah well, the female chicken holds all the eggs... go figure.
...Ms Evil Bunny. =) | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 8:03:34 AM | genes have been around since before the human race?? so, were there big gene parties just waiting for people to take them?
Since our genes are so selfish- I think I'll just start robbing banks and stealing cars. And don't let anyone piss me off- I might shoot them. | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 11:20:00 AM | Msg #177: You "may" let her? You fooleth us not Sir Scoundrel... Like you expect us to believe that there's a possibility that you wouldn't Let her??:... sure whatever!
The mere fact that you're in her company means you're going there for a one specific reason. Does your "Chef" know what you just wrote for the forum masses to see?
I have no issue with your lifestyle.. to each their own... but your last post showed that you are, if nothing else, disrespectful to your playthings. | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 11:24:49 AM |
The more arrogant I become, the more women chase me. I do not pretend to understand this. It doesn’t make any sense to me.
I have to trust you on that point that you are telling the truth! This makes no sense to me either, but as I said before, a Player is a good mimic of the one trait of sexual desire. I have no doubt that an accomplished Player is very good at seducing women, the act of physical love, sexually satisfying a partner. But this is only part of the game and if this is all you have then it quickly becomes hollow and unsatisfactory - maybe this is why a Player jumps from one partner to another. One might talk of food and sex (weiners spring to mind) in the same sentence when treating it casually, I hope the 'young lady' concerned is not sobbing into the dirty dishes today. | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 11:43:15 AM | | A very good player doesnt boast about it.......no sir | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 12:13:44 PM | the fact scoundrel is disrespectful acting shows hes not much of a player .. A real player makes a woman think they are the best of everything and makes a woman feel wonderful and beautiful . that ALL women are this way in his eyes ..
A real player dont make like a woman is just a plaything . as he implies . | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 12:29:47 PM | | Oh you make me laugh.... players do just what you are doing... provoke responses. They sleep with lots of people because they are too scared to commit to one person. They delude themselves into thinking lots of others who too are also unable to commit makes them feel good. Maybe initially it does if you have a poor weak sence of yourself and poor self worth. | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 1:47:52 PM | A real player isn't disrespectful of women? What? Have you lost your minds?
"A player is respectful of women." (?)
Funny how these women are completely out of their minds. They're sticking up for the player now. I'm sure they'll be talking about wanting a "nice guy" next. lol ...nice job Scoundrel. | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 1:56:30 PM | Replying to msg 164...
As ladies NO we dont delete all messages.Only some and at the end of the day its our choice who we reply to.
I chose to delete his messages, I had good reason to.
Moving on... | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 2:46:09 PM | | How funny to see all these wound up girls and boys. I'm disinterested in the topic here but i can already sense the attraction this guy is creating with women. Admit it women-you want a piece of him!! Go dude LMAO | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 2:48:13 PM |
A very good player doesnt boast about it.......no sir
But the OP isn't claiming to be a player. He gave his definition and was asking women what their definitions are.
My definition is someone with uses deception (either lying about having an emotional connection with women, or claiming he will be monogamous when he has no intention of being so). The OP says he doesn't do that. If that's the case, he's simply an honest, sexually active man, not a player.
I can understand those who fundamentally disapprove of people having sex outside of committed relationships not LIKING such behaviour, but it's stretching logic to the breaking point to label it as playerish. It just doesn't make sense. | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 3:06:04 PM | A player is a guy who can spot a woman's weakness... go for the throat... successfuly suck her blood dry... then walk away smiling and snickering "Hehe Suckaa!!" while walking to the next victim and have her trailing behind him on her hands & knees like "wait! dont go! i need you more now than ever!".
Thats a player.
aka "my HERO!"
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 3:08:18 PM | @ Dawn msg 198^^ Agreed.. many are confusing a "player" with a (Scoundrel).. Womanizer. If Scoundrel insists he's not a player... more of a lover of women... At this point, it doesn't matter what his label is... he may love what he does to/for women and what they do/for him, physically, he however, disrespects and shows what little regard he has for them. Apparently he has forgotten that women are human beings who have deeper feelings than what he can provide physically for them. His last post says it all.
@ Kites Msg 195.. you haven't comprehended the posts regarding respect correctly. Players DO NOT respect women... A true "libertine" as the oposter claims and has labelled himself to be, would never disrespect a woman PERIOD llike the way he did in msg 177... I thought he at least showed that he had "game" up until that post. | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 5:11:07 PM | I don't call it sticking up for a player .. just describing what a player does . players make a woman think they are everything , and making a woman feel wonderful and beautiful , this is how he has become smooth and become a player where he can play with many women and get away with it .. IS it a good thing ? I dunno hopefully a grown woman realizes hes a player enough to not get emotional with him .
I am 41 and I will admit to having a long affair with a player and enjoyed every minute of it with him it was great no strings no worries and GOOD times believe me .
Now as far as Scoundrel the fact he sits and announces he might ( haha like he would say no don't suck my penis ) let a girl suck him off is funny it actually shows he views women more of playthings than being a smooth operator and adoring women for what they are . | |
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| What makes a player?
Posted: 3/25/2008 5:27:58 PM | Well, it seems the playfulness of my last statement was lost in the translation into text. This is something I run into from time to time. You can say something with the right tone and body language and it's fun, but without it, it sounds like an insult. C'est la vie.
Respect is something a person must earn. I do not give it freely to anyone. I am however, polite. which is more than can be said for many of the posters in this thread.
Anyone who diaagrees with the ideas I put forward about evolution, sex and human nature can make their arguments in the accademic community. If you have ideas you feel better discribe the human mating dance feel free to publish them. Until then, I perfer to rely on the experts in the field. | |
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