| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/8/2007 4:43:51 PM | ^^^^ True but let us not forget that getting it and keeping "it" up is not a matter of cardio but a matter of libido and apetite and inspiration and zest. Whining, nagging, busting b@lls, and other habits or fav tools that women use in a rel do have a catastrophic effect on libido and apetite and zest and thus the will/ability to get it and keep it up. Cardio and physical in gen is another issue. Care free/less, is the key, the more care free, the merrier the sex for both. Sometimes it is a matter of the general "atmosphere" that a woman creates for her man, or rather his "tool". This tool is a free spitit and unlike horses, taming it does not lead to anything good. It is to remain"free grazing"! lol lol And feel free to create its "art". The man is the artist, the woman his agent. She has to protect him from thr worries of career managemen so that he focuses only on his "game". Else .....
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/8/2007 5:36:38 PM | unsure why the women you encountered dont move, if your thrusting enough she should. would suggests you ask them to switch positions now and then or get them so hot and allow them to ride the sh*t out of you. ive had my days when he would burn more than me but then i as well would leave him in dust wondering what the hell fueled that tornado.  | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/8/2007 7:38:26 PM |
A woman or girl doesn't just look at your body and jump your bones.
Sorry, but a few of us womenfolk ARE that easy to entice.
Chances are, if I'm really into a guy. I'm thinking aout boffing him long before he even shows up at my door. | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/9/2007 1:22:15 AM | "I understand that concept. I was just talking about the physical "work" when all the "spirit is willing" things have already fallen into place."
Well, the "spirit is willing" thing is not the only factor that needs to be in place for a man's sexual organ to "launch and fly for the duration of the flight". I know it is difficult for women to fully understand/grasp the process, simply because they do not have one. As I said, nagging, whining and worries do affect, sooner or later, a man's organ's perfomance, and that can have nothing to do with aerobic ability or spirit. Some men simply lose their "apetite" for sex because they become "fed up" with all the antics of women and the burdens of rels. That is what I see around me. And make sure I do not fall into that "track" (burnout). Some women are, franly, good looking but erection killers, and the impact of their negative impact can last. Other erection killers are career, children, worring about silly daily details, etc, etc. A man has to avoid those pitfalls if he wants his tool to be "employable" after 45, 50, 55 etc. Keep it carefree and perky!!!! | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/16/2007 2:17:29 PM | It should be a shared "effort." Although, I don't like to use that word because I can't imagine thinking of it as "work" while in the midst of things. Do people really pause and think "damn, this is tough work"? Bizarre.
I actually broke up with a guy because he didn't like me taking the top. It was rare that he'd "allow" it, and while I am strong and could probably have knocked his a** over and did it anyway, it just didn't seem like the right thing to do. He said he couldn't help it...that he had to be in control. I'm sure he'll find someone who can lay there and think about painting the ceiling with no problem. | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/16/2007 2:37:33 PM | | Take turns. If you're tired, say so, at least so your partner knows why you don't have much enthusiasm. The thought of a girl being a 'cold' fish in the bed can't appeal to anyone I'm sure... unless you're into a whole new kind of sexuality lol. | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/16/2007 3:56:13 PM | Not many women have the muscles and stamina to be and stay for some time on top. To those who do, kudos!!!
Getting and keeping the male organ erect is a kind of "work" most women cannot understand and of course they are not to blame for it. It has do with a man's soul, a carefree man with a carefree penis is the way to be for that. Nagging and worries of any kind (work, money, kids, etc) affect the erection factor of a man.
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/16/2007 4:12:33 PM | Sorry...but I have to question this topic...
If I go to bed with a man...I never consider it "work".
Work is someplace I go to to get a paycheque.
Workin' in bed should be fun
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/16/2007 5:17:06 PM | | nick cosmo- i agree, if he yells or wines all day or for that matter if i b*tch all day then even though i dont have an erection still something shuts down. | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/25/2007 9:36:22 PM | okay guys, no need to say relentless things.
the extent of this question is a little imbalanced, it says.
1) sex is a chore
2) one person does it the other gets it
3) therefore sex is a power struggle
4)does anyone have anything to complain about
I think if u feel like your doing all the work, that is a problem.
u need it even. I dont like doing all the work.
this one guy came over well a few maybe a lot and were like u do all the work okay thx bye and i was like okay this is dumb. and i thought they were lame idiots . and i would consider one person doing work and the other person not immature and a give take phenomenon when it should be give give.
so to answer ur question it should be both! u know like when u go on a date ur both eating the food in the car, doing the same activity. ya know, just experiencing it different ways.
Score: A PLUS (could extend comment but good length nonetheless) | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/25/2007 9:43:39 PM | OP, you are the ****ing LAZIEST lover in the universe!! LOL! Complaining that you burn too many calories while your partner doesn't do any "work". Damn, why don't you form a union and demand equal work for equal pay?
lol. Nah, I'm just razzin ya. But seriously, you are a lazy ****. | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/25/2007 9:59:40 PM | Geeeeeeeeeeeeeeze . . . . I love the forums!!!
I'm only on page 1 and I already need some tissue I'm laughing soooooo hard!
X-marks the spot . . . need popcorn, glass of wine and tissue . . .BRB
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/25/2007 10:01:34 PM | | tried being on top and it didn't quite work..........or maybe i just didn't know what I was doing.........how do you go up and down? Use your hands or just legs? | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/25/2007 10:19:49 PM | OP - if all the girls in your experience have been dead fish, not just 'some' or 'most' then it would be a good idea to take a long look at your own skills. Try having a satisfying sexual encounter without penetration. I know that is a really alien idea for most people, but I loathe lovers who view the fvck as the goal every time.
Try letting her know what you like, and ask her what she likes. no-one is a mindreader. Forget about "foreplay" - reframe it as 'loveplay', or 'sensual play" do it throughout, not just at the beginning- Sex is soooo boring if it is predictable. Try saying "I'd really like it if you...." Positive reinforcement goes such a long way. If all you get at first is her hips moving - then tell her how awesome it is......
An interesting game to help communication and knowledge is to take turns - One person lies still for 15 mins. The other touches, explores, kisses...no fvcking at this point. The one receiving shares what feels good, what is awesome, what you would prefer if it was done more firmly...and so on.
You don't need to be hard to have awesome sex.
When you are on top, change it up by gradually shifting your position and move her body into a different position....and tell her how awesome it feels and how sexy and beautiful she looks like that.
oh - there are so many more options than him on top or her on top.
good luck
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/26/2007 1:00:00 AM | "sex without love is just a work out"
yes, but a bloody good one, way more fun than pumping iron, jogging or the like  | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/26/2007 6:28:04 AM | I know the answer to this riddle
Its a mattress tester innnit?
ALL of their work is done in bed, so that must be the answer
What did I win then?  | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/26/2007 1:54:05 PM | Hello ......... it shouldn't be work ......
relax .... enjoy yourself and if you both fall asleep ....
so what.
sweet dreams. | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/26/2007 1:57:27 PM | yeah, women are lazy....didn't you read the manual...?
but if you look at it backwards
'zee-lay'
Voila'!...could be a good thing mon amis....;) | |
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