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 ngat73

Joined: 6/10/2007
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Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/26/2007 2:01:25 PM
OP-I didn't read the comments. Read a couple and they bored me so I'll give you my opinion. Your mistake is referring to sex/making love as work. If you feel sex is that way and don't enjoy what you are doing than maybe you should not be doing.

From my experience, women that are't doing anything may not be very into you. Or they are inexperienced. I don't really have sex unless I am into the dude, unless I was just plastered out of my mind and one thing leads into another.

Get beyong the "just getting off" and find someone that you are both emotional and physically into (attraction goes both ways) so she m much be attracted to you just as much and you would be amazed how great the sex could be. When you reach than level you than would not make such naive statements about sex.

A "range war"? What is that?
 brawnydog

Joined: 5/12/2006
Msg: 102
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Posted: 10/26/2007 2:02:03 PM

didn't you read the manual...?


it depends...
is the bed chained down or is it gonna a be a kiss you while I do you?
and her mood
reverse cowgirl or just want some head?
 lady_bugg65

Joined: 9/16/2005
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Posted: 10/26/2007 2:05:55 PM
^^^ yeah ummm see....he does all the 'work'...........and good lawdy does he...


whew...
 ~Myth~

Joined: 6/1/2007
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Posted: 10/26/2007 3:28:24 PM
Geeeeeeeeeeeeze . . . "BOB" does of course!!!!


~Myth~
 Gunner57

Joined: 4/17/2007
Msg: 105
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Posted: 10/26/2007 3:42:19 PM
"let's get physical ...physical ......I wanna get physical ...let's get in to physical ...lemme hear your body...your body rock........ your body rock"






 moniker

Joined: 7/16/2006
Msg: 106
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Posted: 10/27/2007 6:04:49 AM
If it's "work" you are not doing it right
 sexyshanny

Joined: 12/4/2005
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Posted: 10/27/2007 7:22:00 AM
I am more concerned about making my man happy,So i will have to say i burn pounds!!!!!lol.
 »¤Cät§ëÿ매«

Joined: 10/9/2007
Msg: 108
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Posted: 10/27/2007 7:33:25 AM
After reading only a few of the posts, I find myself kinda disappointed. I don't think it's a competition between the sexes... If you're with the right partner, there should be a balance between the two of you to turn each other on, and make each other feel as great as possible. If it starts becoming a job..perhaps it's time to move on. If the gal is acting like a dead fish...why the hell are you with her anyhow? If you can't communicate and find the right balance....cast again....
 tenbears17292

Joined: 6/25/2005
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Posted: 10/27/2007 10:41:29 AM
When it come to sexual relations if its work you are with the wrong one.I find it is more satisfying with a woman that I love than just a person that I'm there with for the moment. After all without love involved sex is just masterbation with someone elses body involved.
 irish girl in mi

Joined: 7/15/2007
Msg: 110
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Posted: 10/27/2007 10:56:25 AM
I have always did the same amount of work he did...lol, unless its morning, he wakes up at 4am, i get up at 5....so if he wants it in the morning, its all on him...lol
 rottsforever

Joined: 10/12/2007
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Posted: 10/27/2007 11:03:43 AM

I find it is more satisfying with a woman that I love

Ahh ... tenbears does know his "homework" simply because "the work" in bed does involve not only body but mind too and hey, then you can look forward to firework

To answer your question OP, also in bed it is a teamwork.
 c_deacon

Joined: 3/13/2005
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Posted: 10/27/2007 11:07:23 AM
Team work.......yes maam......I do enjoy team work.......

OT......If you are good, and they are as well, the work will be much more like pleasure and both will be satisfied, and is that not the whole point???????

Just my opinion......
 ~Myth~

Joined: 6/1/2007
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Posted: 10/27/2007 12:22:18 PM
Well . . . . it really depends . . .

On "BLUE" Mondays . . . BOB the 1st does . . .

On "HUMP" Wednesdays. . . BOB the 2nd does . . .

On "PINK " Fridays . . . BOB the 3rd does . . .

On "LAZY" Sundays . . . "Power BOB" does all the work!!!!


~Myth~
 pyro1

Joined: 6/21/2007
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Posted: 11/1/2007 6:20:10 PM
I'm ROFLMFAO right now. I can't believe some of the stuff that has been written on this issue. Since everybody has had their chance to write what they think is good sex/love making, I'll just add my thoughts on this issue now. Me, I like my sex/love making to be wild and rough. I like to use every room in the house except my bedroom. I have this thing about keeping fabric free of sweat and, for lack of a better term, love juices. Hard surfaces can be wiped clean but, try as you might, you'll never get the stuff out of fabric with padding. I start at one end of the house and end up at the other. I like to start in the kitchen on the counter, move to the table in the dinning room. From there, it off to the livingroom. Sofa and Loveseat are completely off limits but, the coffee table is fair game. Next stop is the hallway on the way to the bathdroom. Sorry, but my bedroom is also completely off limits. I never do anything other than sleep in my bed because dirty sheets or a dirty mattress just freak me out. I was told last year that, it was like a championship fight but, she felt like the winner. I just smiled.........
 irolthgirw

Joined: 6/23/2007
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Posted: 11/1/2007 6:45:26 PM
Well Dobber, I have the solution for you. It's quite easy when you really think about it. I'm not sure how old you are, but if you tend to choose girls that are younger than you by 5-10 yrs-then there's your problem. You really need to find a woman. Someone older or the same age as you-but in all seriousness, i'd say a beautiful athletic woman in her mid 30's or older will actually rock your world! Give it a try, cuz as a 30-something woman, I have a hard time finding a man with my stamina at any age! LOL!!! from Red-Neck BC
 debchick1

Joined: 12/21/2005
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Posted: 11/1/2007 8:20:39 PM
no u didnt-ha your damn hilarious-it really all boils down to sexual compatibility-you have that and it pieces together by itself
 kitten23xox

Joined: 10/3/2006
Msg: 117
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Posted: 11/6/2007 4:31:39 PM
It shouldn't be work....what are you talking about??
 csod64

Joined: 6/21/2007
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Posted: 11/6/2007 4:39:02 PM
As for me, I'm an "active participant"...
 DamnJack

Joined: 2/25/2007
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Posted: 11/6/2007 4:49:54 PM
wow i like this forum it's very interesting. i'd have to say i don't know who does all the work in bed. i just know that when i'm in bed and not alone i do work and he does work and if we have fun then we have fun. if we don't we try again another day, hell maybe another hour..but i'm a younger contributor on this page...don't have as much experience as those more seasoned but i can learn...you don't stop learning til you die and why argue? we should all be making sure that we are happy and having fun with the time we have right?
 Aevalise

Joined: 3/2/2006
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Posted: 11/6/2007 7:29:58 PM
If I am giving my 110% and getting no satisfaction in return, you better believe I'm gonna stop giving it my all and make him work a bit.

That being said, "BOB" always gives his 110% and I have never been unsatisfied with his performance...lol
 Cunning_linguist

Joined: 10/19/2007
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Posted: 11/6/2007 7:35:05 PM
I couldnt care less as long as they dont wake me up......
 Fun FL girl

Joined: 8/4/2007
Msg: 122
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Posted: 11/21/2007 5:21:14 PM
I say, there is nothing like a good sweat. I like to work it too.
 WarmthNpassion

Joined: 7/18/2007
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Posted: 11/21/2007 6:06:34 PM
I think most women let the man guide them. With intercourse, I can see what you mean. I like the control but agree that we do more humping. I don't mind. In foreplay, gosh, all I have to do is wiggle my tongue a little while she has to jam a sword down her throat. All in all, it’s a better deal for men.

Next time ask her to get on top so you can be the "lazy" one.
 Predatorowns

Joined: 8/18/2006
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Posted: 11/22/2007 12:22:57 AM
It's not work when your into the person your with. If you consider it work your just not that in to her.
 thatchickfromvan

Joined: 10/19/2007
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Posted: 11/22/2007 1:09:35 AM
It's a team sport. The only time I've not played it to it's fullest was at the end of a relationship when I realized I didn't want him anymore and just wanted to get it over with.

I agree, it's not work, well.. it's only work if the other person isn't meeting you in the middle.
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