| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 11/22/2007 3:30:25 AM | we split it evenly...but i have hip problems so i have to be careful or my hips dislocate themselves and its very painful  | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 11/22/2007 3:42:01 AM | I don't mind sharing the work with who I am with.
It does after all take two to tango. | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 11/22/2007 3:57:53 AM | | I do... unless more of you ladies start stepping up to the plate. Carpe diem already! Sheesh. | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 11/22/2007 5:40:12 AM | | I'll let you once I actually get a woman to work with me in my bed, that is the question dear watson! | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 11/22/2007 6:51:08 AM | | Sorry to hear you've tangled with some less than passionate women. My man and I share the activity level...especially if I've been ontop for a while and I get tired we'll switch and he'll finish the session...hehehe....mmm...just thinking about my babe I'm wanting a piece! | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 1/15/2008 8:01:47 PM | OP, maybe they never learned what to do...who knows, cant really answer, only guesstamate...
marriage, kids, life gets in way of their own discoveries....then marriage, kids, life slows down or goes away...their left with themselves again
playing catchup...
men get a 'mid-life crisis', what do women get when they need to pick up where they left off...whats it called?
can only figure, they are scared and dont know what to do...so teach um, or give them the courage to 'stray' from theirselves....encourage them! | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 8/4/2008 8:02:18 AM | I like when women acts like they are the victims in the bedroom. How would you like to bang a chick doggie style and her butthole stinks? That really ruins the moment, you know!!!
or she stays on the bottom alot.........but sometimes I like being on top, I get to suck some hot toes.......if they are hot! :) | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 8/27/2008 12:53:41 PM |
I always take an active and aggressive role in bed, because that’s what I like, it’s my style. I always want to be on top and be the assertive one, because that is what’s most enjoyable for me
That's awesome but I think you're wrong that lazy women are a minority. That's most women. | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/7/2009 5:11:22 AM |
Holy Sh#T dude you know nothing about women. Women do things all the time to cater to a man's visual arousal requirements. Sexy clothes, makeup, hair, high heels, etc. You should get off your lazy ass and do something then just get a hard on! Women realize that men get turned on visually, do men realize that women get turned on by touch?? Both take alot of effort.
This implies that
-men don't get turned on by touch.
-women only dress nicely for men not for themselves, other women or because their jobs require them to.
-men are all ugly and all dress like slobs.
Are you serious? | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/7/2009 5:20:05 AM |
There are times when I just have to be on top. I feel the need to touch my lover all over and taste EVERY part...
Yes but I don't think the man does nothing when the woman is on top. He still has to stimulate her or move or something. Men don't ever really just lie back and relax. | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/7/2009 6:49:32 AM |
He still has to stimulate her or move or something.
As far as I know most women do those things on the bottom also (touch him, move their hips, etc.) | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/7/2009 7:10:54 AM | Hey Vegas!
LMAO That is seriously friggin funny! I dont have a comment but I really had to tell you that, that cracked me up!
Take Care greg | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/7/2009 8:29:32 AM |
As far as I know most women do those things on the bottom also (touch him, move their hips, etc.)
That would be a big negatory. It's not common. Most of the movement women use in bed with me is a result of what I am doing to them, or an effort to get themselves off. Very rare is the woman that is active in a manner designed to get their man off or keep him excited. The guys I've discussed this with tend to agree, but add that the less attractive the woman is, the less true this seems to be. Having no experience with unattractive women, I have to take them at their word on this. I'm not interested in verifying this point with personal experience. | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/7/2009 8:46:09 AM | | hmmm...I've never thought of it as 'work' and I've never been with an underachiever =) ...a few followers...meh..whatever. But no underachievers. And no, I'm not even a little lazy. | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/7/2009 11:37:25 AM | | "normally me lol men are lazy"............There, we finally have the answer! Although typical. Sheesh! | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/7/2009 1:30:23 PM | There are "take charge" types who will ride on top, give you treats, as long as you treat her good too. Maybe communication can help .... maybe.
Ask if they want to be the ones running the fun once in a while. You have to word it better me but you get the idea. | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/7/2009 2:02:28 PM | | No. 50% of the work should be female. Who cares who is stronger? Do old people or physically weak people not have sex? | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/7/2009 2:14:54 PM | Well submissiveness to me means that she likes to fufill his desires. So it depends on the man. You can also brag about how much of a stud you were that she had to have you.
How about 49.999...%? | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/7/2009 6:53:47 PM | I really do wonder who these women are that you men are dating?!!
I can't imagine not being an active participant.
The only time I'm not moving......is if you have me in a position that makes it hard to move......i.e........my feet over my head and my body all scrunched up and I'm spending most my time trying not to smother in my own breasts!!
I think the sexiest thing a woman can say to a man is......"My turn" 
and btw.......yes , there are men that just lay there when on bottom | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/7/2009 7:33:35 PM | | It depends on the situation and the person you are having sex with. With me personally, some women are very active (sometimes to a fault) in bed and some are rather stiff (also sometimes to a fault). No matter who I'm with I believe foreplay is essential and plus I value the art of communication. I don't always enter the bedroom with a new female thinking I know exactly how she wants it. I'm not afraid to ask questions. But overall, who does the most work in bed VARIES IN DIFFERENT INTIMATE SITUATIONS. As a man you have to be willing to explore the woman and SWITCH UP OUR LOVEMAKING STYLE to accomodate her sexual needs. | |
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| Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/7/2009 8:02:26 PM | | It's usually me that does most of the work. I'm most satisfied when the women takes more of an active role, however. | |
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