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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/30/2009 10:15:48 AM | | I've noticed that women will complain that men only want good looking prima donnas and that looks shouldn't matter to them. On the other hand, they do the same thing. I'm an honest, hardworking, faithful, kind, charming, funny, romantic type guy, but does any of that matter to women who are looking for that in a man. No. They look at my picture and see what they want. I could go on about his paticular subject but think I'll just stop for now. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/30/2009 10:18:58 AM | i have a question for the REAL MEN. why do men only tend to go for dating the "good looking prima donna barbie doll type?"
Because they're beautiful.
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Now my question, for the REAL WOMEN.
WTF is up with all the shoes?
I mean, you only have 2 feet, right?.... | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/30/2009 10:32:45 AM | i have a question for the REAL MEN. why do men only tend to go for dating the "good looking prima donna barbie doll type?" Because they're beautiful. ************** Now my question, for the REAL WOMEN. WTF is up with all the shoes? I mean, you only have 2 feet, right?....
Seriously, have you not seen her shoe collection? Fvck me pumps in every colour of the kaleidoscope, sling backs, stilettos , trampstomp boots of every height and style...
You guys can't have one without the other... 
And of course... because they're beautiful... | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/30/2009 10:36:55 AM | Because good looking prima donna barbie dolls kick a$$!
(oh and have brains and inner beauty also)
why would YOU assume they don't have anything but looks and barbie breasts? Some are healers, some are teachers, some are EMT's, some write novels, do research, build bridges, fight wars, make legislation....
Think outside the box, sugar. Stereotyping is an ugly thing. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/30/2009 11:12:38 AM | Where can I get myself some of those barbie boobs?
It's odd, but most often I see couples together and wonder... seriously wonder just what they hell brought them together. Very rarely though, do I see men traipsing around town with barbie types. Unless the men are Ken types, that is. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 11:22:09 AM | Men AND women date the prima donna's for one reason...braggin' rights.
Yep.
They can brag to their friends. They can brag to their families. They can get long stares on the streets as they pull the "pretty" closer to themselves. They can look in the mirror and say "Yea, they're all mine!".
It's bragging rights.
Can't really brag when your partner is average or sub par now can you? | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 11:29:36 AM | another generalisation thread..yickes!
bla bla bla, yakkydyyak...same old same old.....
My answer is NO: done it ONCE when 20...never again: I want MORE! all of my other GF after that where not beauty queens or models (well, they where in my eyes in their own ways) as all of their other qualities made me completly satisfied and furfilled.
But OP: let me use reverse psychology on you: will YOU date an honest, hard working, decent 5' 0 , 300 lbs man ? (be honest...lot's of guys are watching)
No? why not?......aaaaahhhh! so it does have some importance at some level! means that physical attraction does play a role and that personal preference does also!
Am a patient and tolerant guy, but no matter how smart, sweet, strong, open, educated, feminine etc etc the girl is, (sorry to be bold): I will not sleep or date her if I feel like hurling when I look at her.
There is limits to everything in both extremes of the spectrum: no skeleton and no 300lbs, as both of these extreme are expression of unhealthy (either physical or mental).
But, OP, you are far from there, and you are only using this little aspect of you as an excuse for your lack of success. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/30/2009 11:36:14 AM | I have to tell you I get kind of tired of seeing threads like this both from women and men.
"people don't get to know the real me because they can't get past appearances". I'm 44 and take care of my appearance, I love that little intake of breathe when a woman sees me take my shirt off the first time. I want a woman that I'm just a bit in awe of. A woman who turns me on and things just get better from there. If you have given up on your appearance, a man realizes that it's probably all downhill from here. If you're not willing to put forth what is necessary to look healthy when you're attracting a mate, what does the future hold when things inevitably settle down?
Since when have we become so entitled to what we want? Since when do we deserve acceptance? When did it get to the point where the problem became what other people want rather than what we are?
If you want a good job with good pay, you go to college or otherwise develop marketable skills. If you want a nice house, you manage money well and clean up your credit. If you want your kids to be successful, you go the hard route and be a parent, day in day out.
Since when are we entitled to the mate WE want without adequately preparing ourselves for it? | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 11:50:17 AM | Let me be the devil advocate:
because, in several cases of extreme (anorexia and morbid obesity as example of result of psychiatric illness) the body reflect directly a mental problem in some case and a physical defect or problem on the other.
So yes, in a way..the outer appearance is sometimes a signifier of what's inside, or at least a warning indicator. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 12:00:12 PM | | OP - Will you date a man you find fat? Or even Obese? If the answer is no, you're not worthy of an intellectual response. If the answer is yes, I'll answer you. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 12:04:21 PM | A "real man" as opposed to a "fake man?"
OP...let's face it. If there were a bunch of Mel Gibson's or Tom Sellecks on here, we'd be clamoring to get to them. Why not? They are hot and don't ya just love to see a beautiful thing?
If beauty didn't matter (and keep in mind that everyone's idea of beauty differs although some can agree on different sorts of beauty) we wouldn't paint the walls in our houses different colors or buy nice cars or buy nice homes. We wouldn't bother to worry about what we were wearing, we wouldn't bother with makeup and we wouldn't keep ourselves in decent shape. We wouldn't do anything were it not for this elusive beauty we all seek.
No matter who you are, if you take care of yourself and love yourself, there is someone out there who will see your beauty and when you have both inner and outer beauty, you have it made. That does not make a man any less of a man nor does it make a woman a shallow person either.
IT is what it is.
Now excuse me while I go chase some beautiful men. LOL
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Posted: 5/30/2009 12:06:16 PM | Holy Mary, Mother of God! Where is the holy water?
Who keeps resurrecting the dead?
This thread is 4 years old.
In thread years that is deceased.
I swear to god necromancy should be made illegal. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 12:42:16 PM | Indigo Rose
<div class='quote'>Men have a very strong self image and many times see themselves much better than what they really are ... Women tend to think less of themselves and most times can't see there own beauty...why this is I don't have a clue!
This is so true. I was just on a thread where a man was complaining about what women want/expect in a man, and he listed his qualities including the fact that he was "very good looking". I looked at his profile, and he was very unattractive. Seriously, I'd give him a three, maybe a four, at best.
Now, there are some women who colour, style, straighten, wax, pluck, bleach,paint, push-up, control, and dress to the nines as if it were a full time job, and who THINK they are pretty when they are not, but it is much more common for guys who do absolutely nothing (even exercise) to improve their appearance, to seriously believe they are good looking.... and will actually say so.
It is much more common for women to underrate their own beauty, probably because of the media. Years ago there were the rare few like Sophia Loren or Elizabeth Taylor who were admired for their beauty by both men and women, but they were admired from afar. Regular women might copy their style, but not in intimate detail, because we didn't know the intimate details. Now, we are subjected to pictures of Lindsay Lohan's
"firecrotch" and Rihanna's strange tattoos. There is so much information on so many aspects of women's beauty from body hair to plastic surgery, it can be overwhelming. When it comes to APPEARANCE, what do men have to live up to? Not so much. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/30/2009 1:24:08 PM | | it's unfortunate but we have to admit that we all have some shallow parameters of acceptance. i know i do, too. there's a "trophy" aspect to every relationship, a look-what-i-got aspect. i'm bigger than a size 8 and haven't had many problems with that. but when i was skinnier, in that mainstream lean way, i found the attention was extra-hyper, in a way that made me feel uncomfortable. i'm not sure i'd want to get down to that weight again. there is no solution to this, just make sure you do not beat yourself up for not measuring up to someone's standards. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/30/2009 1:43:25 PM | | Why not? If the good looking women respond to you, why not go out with them? They are as shallow, deep, insecure, intelligent, dumb as the rest. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 1:43:48 PM | | your right.i dated models and if you did not atleast look like one i would not date you.then i said i am going to try something different.then i came on here.wow.i should have hired doctor phil and sigmand frouad to join me.i never met so many women who have been hurt and have stds and all that other stuff.then they meet me a good guy retired at 33 the first things they say is i am not a model and i do not want your money.so for me i am not saying all women on here,i never thought i would say this but i give up its back to the models for me. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/30/2009 2:04:33 PM |
So yes, in a way..the outer appearance is sometimes a signifier of what's inside, or at least a warning indicator. It also is a health indicator. Someone that takes care of themself actually cares about themself.
Good looking doesn't equate being prima donna. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/30/2009 2:18:53 PM | I don't expect a women to have a beautiful face, but I expect from a women to keep in shape. Sure more or less you have to live with the body type you have....but keeping in shape depends mostly on you and your lifestyle.
If you beef-up just because you like to eat at restaurants for fun...please do so. I will cross the street to the other side and walk looking to the sky or to the trees.
Is that make sense ?
No matter how much "intelligent" talks you can provide...at the end of the day.....as a man you need an erection. Sorry not with Cialis....and not with porn !!!!
The penis does not have a degree....and sooner or later this will pop-up in your face...or in the bed...and that will become a problem...or may become. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/30/2009 10:59:11 PM | | Well speaking for me personally I prefer to date them because I LOVE the looks on the other guys faces when they see her with me and think, WTF? How the hell did a slob like that get a girl like that. Seriously, I'd never be lucky enough in this lifetime to date any woman like that, but the thought is kinda intriguing. I'm not too hung up on looks all that much, I have a pretty wide variety of interests. OP you look fine and the right guy for you will come along soon enough and you'll know he is a keeper when you get to know him, hang in there. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/30/2009 11:09:07 PM | What's wrong with the Barbie doll types? Just because a woman is beautiful and well formed, that doesn't make her a cheap immitation of life.
Beautiful women can be smart, Martha Stewart types, good mothers, great lovers, honest, with morals and just as "Ivory Soap" as the plain Janes who want to appear as the "goody two shoes" type.
Face it sister. There will always be women more beautiful with more on the ball and just as "nice" sweet and innocent as the ones who are plain.
Seems the plain ones grab hold of the "good girl" placard to say, "Hey, we may not be beautiful, but we're nice and we can cook too." Fact is, beautiful woman with size 3 butts and boobs and beautiful faces can also be beautiful on the inside and sweet and intelligent and kind.
Sorry, its just a fact of life. There is someone for everyone. Be proud of who and what you are and dont' hide behind the "they're not all that" attitude. They "are" all that and a bag of chips too. | |
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Posted: 5/31/2009 6:56:36 AM | i'm not krazy about oldies music but some guy from the Stones once said....
you can't always get what you want
people in hell want icewater.
take what you can get or be alone. those are your choices. | |
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