| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 7:25:29 AM | | Why do some gals use old pics? I was married to a total prima-donna and she was a total pain in the#$%" Always had to spend two hours doing make-up and trying on 30 pairs of skin tight jeans etc just to go country line dancing.Guys always look at the cover of the book before reading it. As for myself I have learned the hard way and yeah I have had good platonic relationships with gals that were bigger then me, and sometimes their personality out shines their appearence. Any how my prima -donna wife left me to marry a guy with a bigger johnson. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 7:26:44 AM | i have a question for the REAL MEN. why do men only tend to go for dating the "good looking prima donna barbie doll type?" it seems that guys tend to look a picture and base their whole wanting or not wanting to be someone based on physical apperance. a girl could have a beautiful face, great personality, had have her head on straight, but if she has a litl bit bigger ass than a size 8 you guys run and dart and lable her as the perfect "sister or bestfriend" so why date something that will fade in time and not date something that will always be there....that is the beauty inside a person.........help me out with this one
Stephanie: your post reeks of bitterness. You are young. Too young to be bitter. But, it's difficult. Online dating is very heavily dependent on the photo; RL works differently. It isn't going to help to berate guys because they are responding to photos instead of inner qualities. Doesn't mean their doing it is okay, just means there is no point. It's not going to change anything. Also, you imply that good looking girls are w/o beauty inside, which is not true. Being a good person inside doesn't depend on the outside. Some pretty unpleasant people are not that good looking, and some very attractive people are very nice people. And the looks fade thing: trust me, guys are not thinking about that.
So, either give up on online dating and find a real man in the real world, do a bit of a makeover and gets some more attractive pics made and posted, or decide you will wait for a real prince to discover you, one who is not obsessed with looks: they do exist. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 7:43:08 AM | Well, I certainly wouldn't date an ugly prima donna!
But I don't date prima donnas at all. I only date women I find attractive - certainly physically attractive (to me) - in all ways.
Yours is the classic whine. You'd like more guys to find you attractive, and you want the process of finding someone to be easier. It isn't.
Many women don't find me attractive either, but some do and some of those meet my criteria for compatibility. It only takes ONE who matches me as I match her.
Until that right person comes along, you need a better attitude and patience, or you may miss out on someone who likes you as you are. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 8:04:33 AM |
Seriously, have you not seen her shoe collection? Fvck me pumps in every colour of the kaleidoscope, sling backs, stilettos , trampstomp boots of every height and style...
Ok,..... but those are "occasional". What about the other 300 pairs?...
You guys can't have one without the other... 
You're just a big meanie....
Because good looking prima donna barbie dolls kick a$$!
Beauty and brains = 
If you aren't judging the Barbie/Barbie Boobs (hilarious by the way) based upon her appearance, you might indeed find a great deal of substance?
Bingo.
A "real man" as opposed to a "fake man?"
You caught that too, huh?...
OP...let's face it. If there were a bunch of Mel Gibson's or Tom Sellecks on here, we'd be clamoring to get to them. Why not? They are hot and don't ya just love to see a beautiful thing?
That's honest. Honesty is sexy...
No matter who you are, if you take care of yourself and love yourself, there is someone out there who will see your beauty and when you have both inner and outer beauty, you have it made. That does not make a man any less of a man nor does it make a woman a shallow person either.
Very objective perspective. That's smart. Smart is sexy...
IT is what it is.
Acceptance is sexy, ignorance and denial are not....
Now excuse me while I go chase some beautiful men. LOL
Atta girl......that's sexy...
Seems the plain ones grab hold of the "good girl" placard to say, "Hey, we may not be beautiful, but we're nice and we can cook too." Fact is, beautiful woman with size 3 butts and boobs and beautiful faces can also be beautiful on the inside and sweet and intelligent and kind.
I have been fortunate enough to verify this numerous times in my lifetime..... | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 8:11:56 AM | I wonder too why REAL MEN date barbie doll type, I guess they are far sighted they don't see the beauty inside a woman... opps, just joking rephrasing the question. head down in a little voice sorry ,Verityone.
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 8:16:26 AM |
I wonder too why REAL MEN date barbie doll type, I guess they are far sighted they don't see the beauty inside a woman...
Who's too far sighted to see?....
How many Barbie doll types have you dated and know intimately to be able to know what's on the "inside".... | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 8:20:25 AM | i have a question for the REAL MEN. why do men only tend to go for dating the "good looking prima donna barbie doll type?" it seems that guys tend to look a picture and base their whole wanting or not wanting to be someone based on physical apperance. a girl could have a beautiful face, great personality, had have her head on straight, but if she has a litl bit bigger ass than a size 8 you guys run and dart and lable her as the perfect "sister or bestfriend" so why date something that will fade in time and not date something that will always be there....that is the beauty inside a person.........help me out with this one.
I don't. I've never been attracted to anything plastic. And even when I do get those girls, it is the equivalency of FUKCING a blow up doll and sending her on her way.
Nothing drives me madder than a girl who puts all of her life's energy into looking like barbie.
What I really hate, is when I meet them after shows and they desperately try to convince me that they are deeper than they REALLY ARE.
Ass far as the BUTT thing. I think this is cultural. Where as most of white america condemns thick women. black america Cherishes them. Which is prolly why some many thick white women love us so much. It's referred to in my circle as the racial exchange rate.
(It's like taking your dollars to Mexico and the exchange rate upping the value of your currency dramatically.)
My baby girl is beautiful, smart, and got T&A like a mofo...
Then again...I am a real man And alpha if you will.
Maybe most of those men seek out the small boney women because they want to dominate. So seeing as they are little elesewhere, they need a body that is comparable that they wont drown their little dongs in.
Me? I need all the curves I can get. That way she can handle it. (*Looks at someone.)
Men who chase women like that are closet homosexuals.
I'll explain this logic later. I wanna nap before I clean.
Divagreen.....call your baby on your break.
I love you. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 8:27:08 AM | tends not to be just men
women do exactly the same thing if a bloke aint got a six pack and biceps like watermelons they aint interested
are there any women out there who like overweight blokes with a god personality who know how to actually satisfy a woman? | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 8:38:00 AM |
any women out there who like overweight blokes with a god personality who know how to actually satisfy a woman Can't say as I would date another overweight man. Because I have found them to be unhealthy with medical problems and suck in bed. Baby whale is what I felt about the last guy that was fat. He couldn't even keep his freaking knees bent! Unsatisfied is my experience with a fat dude.
Now as far as a God personality, I am a reverend and feel that is about as close to God as I can get, what would I want a man with a God personality for?
Good looking men can be intelligent, have fabulous personalities and be interesting. A man that takes care of his body cares about himself. A man that sits around and doesn't take care of his health shows he doesn't care about himself.
I say email anyone you feel you are interested in. If they email back, great, if they don't move on. Only you can work on yourself. Only you can find out if someone is or isn't interested in you. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 9:01:25 AM | I don't know of any good-looking alpha-males that date "Barbies" if you are calling "barbies" those women that are into plastic surgery, fake n bake tans, extreme boob jobs and acrylic nails...with no concern for what's inside the apparatus that holds their poofed hair. Her main concern is her insecurities that feed her vanity.
To me that is a Barbie.
If you are calling a very good-looking woman a Barbie and that's all you see, then I suggest you are extremely narrow-minded and jealous.
My daughter is a natural beauty, wears very little make-up, is into sports, and very popular but was beat-up by a bunch of "butchy" tough bit*ches who went to high school with her. They always called her "Barbie" when she walked down the hallway and she would just "phftt" them. They got her when she was jogging by herself.
After all said and done, (I am fiercely protective of my babies) three of the five spent time in reform camp.
Soooo...the name "Barbie" gets my dander up when somewhen refers to a good-looking lady as that. Most have brains as well as beauty.
Good looking men can be intelligent, have fabulous personalities and be interesting. A man that takes care of his body cares about himself. A man that sits around and doesn't take care of his health shows he doesn't care about himself.
Very true!!
I am attracted to tall, slim/lean men who are very involved with their lives and have high energy. They can be physically good-looking, but it's not essential. It's his "way" about him and his character. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 9:53:04 AM | | I know this thread was created 4 years ago. But these types of comments have been stated many times on POF. This doesn't apply to all or most men. I have contacted plenty of women that I thought were average looking at best because of their profile. Yet most of these emails were read / deleted. This is not a gender specific issue. There are plenty of women that would reject a man. That could be a good match for her. Simply because he doesn't exactly meet a long list of requirements ( such as being 1-2 inches under a certain height ) or because he doesn't have super attractive photos of himself. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 10:00:15 AM | On the other hand...you meet some people who are neither attractive or nice who have a great relationship with a terrific person and it makes you wonder what this person has that someone else would want.  Just a personal observation.  | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 10:01:14 AM |
see..... and that is what cracks me up about men...they say woman are too worried about how they look, and what people think of them......hell....most level headed woman don't. i don't care what others think about me.. like me or not i'm me. i'm a bigger girl... just means more of me to love and to put towards loving someone else......damn it cracks me up how vain and shallow my generation of guys are....not sterotyping all of them..but the majority.
If the problem is that men don't want to date you, the above quote is enough to explain that. You post a moderately incoherent message on POF. You insult men and profess your superiority. You complain about men being vain and shallow. Maybe they don't want to date you because you suffer from HIPS (Hostile Infantile Personality Syndrome).
By the way, females are just as shallow as men. I bet there are lots of men you would not date because they do not meet your physical "preferences."
Grow up and understand that men have just as much of a right to select females based on any characteristics the men choose as do females when selecting men. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 10:04:50 AM |
I have contacted plenty of women that I thought were average looking at best because of their profile. Yet most of these emails were read / deleted. This is not a gender specific issue. There are plenty of women that would reject a man. That could be a good match for her. Simply because he doesn't exactly meet a long list of requirements ( such as being 1-2 inches under a certain height ) or because he doesn't have super attractive photos of himself.
And there's a flipside....
As a matter of fact, I emailed an American woman on here this morning with a simple little sarcastic remark about how there must be something wrong with POF if she's still single....lol
This woman is DROP dead gorgeous. She has over 1250 favorites that have listed her. She gets a stupid email from a faceless profile from a guy in another country, and she reads and responds back. We exchange a few emails before she even knows what the guy she is emailing with looks like.
Actions like that speak volumes about how some "Barbie" dolls are anything but void of good character.
I would crawl across the border and 3 States just to date this woman. Not just because she'd gorgeous, but because of her actions...
And I'll tell you what else......It tickles me quite a bit to hear of men who won't give these women a worthy consideration. It's not the competition that I'm afraid of....it't just that the lineups to date them are shorter.... | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 10:08:44 AM |
i have a question for the REAL MEN. why do men only tend to go for dating the "good looking prima donna barbie doll type?"
Not a real men, not by womens' definition of a real men. So, I will speak for myself, and not for all "real men".
I do it for two reasons:
1) Ego. I like the little fella and so I feed him from time to time.
2) I have noticed that I come much harder when f*cking prima donna's and I'm hoping that one day the pleasure will be so intense from coming, that my heart will explode, and that will be the only thing I will remember... before I go to hell.
it seems that guys tend to look a picture and base their whole wanting or not wanting to be someone based on physical apperance.
Yep, we are visual creatures. And women make sure that their physical appearance is as good as it can get... in terms of what men find attractive of course, or more specially in terms of what the type of men they are looking for find attractive... and thank you! Of course, you women never actually admit that's what you are doing... and that's fine... I know better.
a girl could have a beautiful face, great personality, had have her head on straight, but if she has a litl bit bigger ass than a size 8 you guys run and dart and lable her as the perfect "sister or bestfriend" so why date something that will fade in time and not date something that will always be there.
Cause when we date we are not necessarily looking for someone who will always be there, sometimes we look for someone who can f*ck good and leave in the morning.
"Good girls" simply don't know how to f*ck. Society has convinced them that "good girls don't". In other words to be a good girl you have to be sexually timid... no good f*cking can come from "sexually timid"... hence guys aren't interested in "good girls". Inner beauty and being "a good girl" are linked and ofter happen to be one and the same - and some women are duped into believing that is true.
And of course, the same applies to "bad boys"... that's why they are so desirable... they don't hide their sexual intentions and will give a woman a memorable f*cking. "Good guys" on the other hand are bunch of pu$$ies and well trained by women to be a woman.
...that is the beauty inside a person...
No argument there. But I want the inner beauty AND the outer AND the best sex in one woman. The outer beauty is what attracts me and what will make me explorer her inner beauty. Her inner beauty and sex is what will make me stay with her in the long run. The three together make a killer combination.
When you only have inner beauty you have to work hard to make guys notice it... you have to pursue guys. When you only have the outer beauty, guys will come to you, but then you have to work really hard to keep one.
And sex, well that should be self explanatory.... when you only have sex to offer, you are fucked!
I think I've spilled enough truth for one day. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 10:09:54 AM |
you very seldom find a man who doesn't think he's a stud...It's the D!CK...
Men have a very strong self image and many times see themselves much better than what they really are ... Women tend to think less of themselves and most times can't see there own beauty...why this is I don't have a clue! There are more good men your age than mine.... they haven't been ruined YET !
Steph...your a beautiful woman!
You seldom find a female at any age who doesn't think she is god's gift to the world. It's the empty head and the empty space between their legs. (Does that work too?) Females tend to think they are better than all men and expect only the most physically perfect men to ever approach them. Unfortunately, females are ruined before they even reach puberty because they are told that they have an inner beauty. Unfortunately, many females have no inner beauty, just inner slime.
Let's try this little test for the oh so superior females on this thread.
You have a choice between dating a 5' man who is a public school teacher and a 6' man who dropped out of high school and works as a day laborer when he needs beer money. Which would you choose? Be honest.
(Let's face it, many will say the 5' man but will really choose the 6' man.) | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 10:23:08 AM |
You have a choice between dating a 5' man who is a public school teacher and a 6' man who dropped out of high school and works as a day laborer when he needs beer money. Which would you choose? Be honest.
How about this choice? NONE of the above.
You are being silly.
Edit: It's all relative. What one man thinks as beautiful, another man doesn't.
What one woman thinks as handsome, another woman may not.
Some men prefer Pamela Anderson types and nothing is going to change it.
That's why it's a big business out there (plastic surgery, botox, salons...).
If a man is hung up on high maintenance beauty then he has to have a large pocketbook to go with it. Some don't mind spending their money on that kind of woman. It's a reality. Accept it. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 10:43:38 AM |
You have a choice between dating a 5' man who is a public school teacher and a 6' man who dropped out of high school and works as a day laborer when he needs beer money. Which would you choose? Be honest.
Since these 2 men aren't real, only examples.. there's no way to answer. Without being able to know either man, no woman can answer. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 10:48:54 AM | If a man is hung up on high maintenance beauty then he has to have a large pocketbook to go with it. Some don't mind spending their money on that kind of woman. It's a reality. Accept it.
Uhhhh....a man has to have a large pocketbook if he's interested in beautiful women, why exactly?....
Not every guy needs to "buy" a beautiful woman.
Nice attempt to dissuade men from beauty.
If a good looking man has a penchant for expensive sports cars, should the woman who is attracted to him have a large pocketbook as well?
Get real.
Women can buy their own stuff... | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 4:15:07 PM | I'm not one to pick on thin/attractive/barbie doll types---cuz everyone has value, but the thing is not everyone subscribes to your thinking--SOME men and women just want the good looking sorts---but often times discover if all you have is a pretty face and nothing else----BLAH.
I don't want anyone to 'date' me or ask me out out of sympathy---I want someone who wants my company for all the right reasons----not just cuz I got a pretty face--big boobs and a big butt..lol. Beauty is only skin deep..but ugly is to the bone...and I'm referring to attitude.
I'm a fat happy well adjusted 43 yr old and I've never lacked for male suitors. Do all men who seek me out have good or noble intentions...no...but I'm pretty good with the man-dar and can weed out most of the wanna be nice to me guys vs the wanna get me in bed and bang me and run away sorts too...lol.
Op---I have a a lot of very attractive female friends who are single and find that having good looks is sometimes a curse and not a blessing. I have more luck with men than they do and it boggles them why. Personality goes a long way-----while most men are NOT attracted to plus sized gals----there are plenty that are and shower me with a lot of attention, but I treat them as I wish to be treated.
If men aren't interested in you it's not because a plethora of beauty queens are beating them to ya---it might just be your pessimism shines brighter than your purty smile. | |
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