| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 4:43:51 PM | | Exactly. Guys want to date girls that are pleasant to be around, not some spoiled brat that has a problem with everything. I've never really dated a barbie-doll type girl. I don't pretend to understand love, I just roll with the punches. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 4:55:16 PM |
i have a question for the REAL MEN. why do men only tend to go for dating the "good looking prima donna barbie doll type?" it seems that guys tend to look a picture and base their whole wanting or not wanting to be someone based on physical apperance. a girl could have a beautiful face, great personality, had have her head on straight, but if she has a litl bit bigger ass than a size 8 you guys run and dart and lable her as the perfect "sister or bestfriend" so why date something that will fade in time and not date something that will always be there....that is the beauty inside a person.........help me out with this one.
Because we can.
And people can be beautiful on the inside and the outside.
That's what I look for. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 5:08:36 PM |
however we all know the types... the drama queens...the want me want me and then i leave you for something better.. we all know the types.... so why do guys go for them?
I am by no means a drama queen (probably the exact opposite of) and I think I'm pretty attractive and wear a size 3 and I don't even go for the extremely good looking types, and yet somehow EVERY man I've dated seriously, has cheated on me. so this comment you say about the "prima donnas" leaving them for someone better, i think it's inaccurate and is more about how selfish the person is.
Unfortunately today's society has become... everyone fends for themselves and tends to take for granted what they have. Regardless of how you look, there is always someone prettier or smarter or whatever than you are. You could be EXACTLY what they're looking for but it gets old and next year they somehow see a big booty that surprisingly looks tasty  it's just how self absorbed they are and frankly I wouldn't worry about it... cuz you can lose weight to appease men and get more dates... but 100 dates with guys who can't look past your features is nothing compared to that 1 who carresses your stretch marks lovingly because they think it's a beautiful thing you've brought a child into this world. keep your head up girl. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 5:23:39 PM | I would like to go on record saying that I have never dated Barbie. She's too plastic for me and I may be wrong but I think parts of her aren't real if you get my drift.  | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 5:27:06 PM | Some men are like that. Some women only want to date extremely good-looking men. Everyone wants to date someone they are attracted to. It's just the way things work. I can say it is frustrating when I see men go for women who are gorgeous but who are not very nice, lots of drama, high maintenance and then ask me why all women are like that? I alwasys answer that all women are not like that, but the ones they pick are!
Of course, I know pretty women who are very sweet, too, so being beautiful does not necessarily mean a bad personality, nor does being less attractive mean the person has a heart of gold.
I have decided to be who I am. I can get ready in less than 10 minutes. I love being outside and don't mind pulling my hair back and getting dirty. I can sweat and enjoy it. I am not thin, but can play tennis for hours on end without getting worn out. I decided a few weeks back to start working out hard again (after a broken wrist injury) and have been working with a personal trainer. I want to get my former shape back, and I know I feel great when working out. I have no desire to be fake, plastic, fake-bake (I have the best tan you'll see anyways naturally), or take 2 hours to get ready. Heck, I don't even want to wear fake nails. I'm going to be me, and I think some guy out there will like it!
I see plenty of regular women like me, and they get dates/boyfriends/husbands. So I would say keep the best attitude possible. I know it's easy to grow bitter sometimes (I've been there), but that type of attitude turns men off so quickly. Don't do it!!! | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 5/31/2009 6:53:41 PM | | I think, sad to say but true, we are still populated with men who see a woman as that object on their arm that engenders envy or enhances their sense of esteem and any bimbo will do the trick on that score. It's the rare man who gives the time of day to the ordinary economy stock model with the original equipment and track record, ok, yeah, a few miles on her, but boy oh boy, she still purrs and hummmmmmms and knows what to do with a dip stick. | |
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Posted: 5/31/2009 7:44:38 PM |
Wow...a "Nice girl" post...that's a first LOL
...EXACTLY what I was thinking... | |
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Posted: 5/31/2009 7:53:13 PM | | I am average looking, and probably have a pretty average personality, too. I don't compensate for my average looks by being sweet as sugar. I am just averagely pleasant. I yam what I yam....so says popeye and U agree. I expect to find a nice average fella....hope I am not aiming too high. | |
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Posted: 6/1/2009 6:54:33 AM |
I see plenty of regular women like me, and they get dates/boyfriends/husbands. So I would say keep the best attitude possible. I know it's easy to grow bitter sometimes (I've been there), but that type of attitude turns men off so quickly. Don't do it!!! Yep. Average looking women get plenty of dates, in RL. They get them here too, but it is true the very attractive women get more mail, because of the 'men are visual creatures' thing I keep hearing....and actually never heard in my life before POF, lol. However, very true that regular women get dates, have boyfriends, husbands....has to do with personality and attitude, totally.
Wow...a "Nice girl" post...that's a first LOL
...EXACTLY what I was thinking... Seems like... | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 6/1/2009 8:34:23 AM | Read my entire post. Not pieces that you can dissect like a frog and make it appear different.
Such a bad habit of yours.
Bad forum habits are going off topic, talking directly to other posters, and making personal remarks about their character.
Also, not understanding that they do not have to comply with your demands, requests or commands... | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 6/1/2009 9:08:58 AM | I think it has to do with bragging rights. They want other guys to be jealous of them etc.
Same as when someone buys a Mercedes over a Toyota. It's for showing off.
I had to chuckle at this old coot who kept going on about his Thai wife. Every other sentence was about his Thai wife.
Why couldn't he just say his wife without throwing in that she is Thai.
Finally saw the photo of this catch of his and she was the typical homely third world girl this guy bought and paid for lol. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 6/1/2009 9:39:07 AM |
she was the typical homely third world girl this guy bought and paid for
How "catty" of you! Sounds like he got a Toyota rather than a Ford. I hear those foreign imports are better quality and less maintenance. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/29/2009 11:43:47 PM | | I usually look for women that are into fitness, healthy lifestyle, etc. I don't want to settle down with someone that will let themselves go. Everyone has different priorities and different things matter to different people. Some guys don't care that much about looks, and some almost only care about looks. It's a waste of time if the guy doesn't like you for who you are. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 1:15:44 AM | | I personally dont date anyone . . . . every woman who is decent enuf to date is married or engaged; and I wont ever steal a woman from a man. Seems you need to plug in some common sense as to why men choose women who are good looking . . if you are gonna spend years or the rest of your life with someone then you want them to be attractive in some way. The men who dont care about how you look (there are plenty of them) are interested in your money or your possesions. If I dated a woman I wasnt attracted to I would be planning on dumping her from the first date. Attraction is not all physical but it takes a fantastic personality and compromise for women to balance the scales. Every physically unattractive woman I know with a steller personality is married. I do women a great favor by not dating them or telling them the truth . . . . they dont want to hear it and I dont want to waste my breath. So . .. if your not a barbie and not married then you probably have a bankrupt personality also . . . complain or be more demanding and see where that gets ya. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 2:14:13 AM |
i have a question for the REAL MEN. why do men only tend to go for dating the "good looking prima donna barbie doll type?"
Because only "good looking prima donna barbie doll types" are real women. And we're not to blame if you're not a real woman.
BTW, real women also capitalize their "I"s.
Sheesssh.... | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 2:27:08 AM | Hmmmm?
I'm hardly looking for prima donna's. All I want is a pleasant up-beat girl who has more curves than me and also weighs less. Even then, if the personality is nice enough I can still fall for someone. I think half of PoF is more or less of the same mind-set.
Still, maybe it's the men you're chasing. They could simple be out of your league. A 7+/10 man with his shit together will obviously be more choosey as he has many options. Since PoF is just a picture with a profile really it's hard to judge because they don't have much to go by. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 2:39:06 AM | I think I'm an average woman with a good attitude to life yet I seem to attract married guys both in real life and on the internet..................perhaps someone could explain that to me?  | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 4:10:34 AM | | I don't think with most men this is the case. I think most of the time they go for someone that they will get along with and attracted to but that doesn't mean barbie doll type as everyone finds different people attractive or not attractive. I think the ones your talking about are after the one night stand or booty call. In fact, if these forums are anything to go by, most guys fail to get a response at all from most women let alone the barbie types. I hope most men that aren't that fickle any way other wise there will be many jaded women out there in the dating world. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 4:35:48 AM | It's personal preference. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I personally prefer a woman to be attractive on the inside as well as the outside, she doesn't have to look like a Playboy centerfold, but she should be in shape. And she could be drop dead gorgeous, but if she's too unstable, I have no room for her. As far as the original poster is concerned, you say your body is on the thick side. You have a couple of options. You can go to a BBW site where guys love heavy women, or you could go on a weightloss program with proper diet and exercise.   | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 5:17:50 AM | I could be considered a "Barbie Doll" type in that I'm weight proportionate, have blonde hair and blue eyes, etc.
But why is it that "Barbie Doll" types are always being labeled as "drama queens," "b*itches," "ugly on the inside" and "superficial" by women who are angry because they're not getting dates? I'm none of those things and if anything, I'm constantly being accused of being too nice and too giving and too loving.
This nonsense gets so freakin old after a while. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 5:56:38 AM | @OP
because this is life and it is what we make it
-generalizing is not helping u to understand to like urself
=if u dont like urself and dont feel desirable then nobody will desire u...
-complaining about weight...is not changing anything....if u want to be a different size...do something for it...
=the work u put in ...and the results u will get...are the answer..that goes for business and private life
=its not the men...when I look at ur pictures I see a beautiful face..were is the rest?...
-its only u that decides how u look and how u live...u want to change ur life? then do it...asking other to change will not make u feel better
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 6:27:54 AM | hey op if you wanna to see all the people who are funnier looking than you that found their true love on POF, just spend 5 minutes looking at the testimonials.....
oooooo WE!!
so, what's *your* problem??
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