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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 6:32:53 AM | OP, I'll play pain-in-the-bums advocate a bit ...
(granted - I've only read the first 4 pages)
Why shouldn't guys get to have their preferences? Would you want to date a hobo? Does it really matter the aspects you choose to place preferences? Or I, or any other does?
I also found a carboard cut out man, and asked him his thoughts (I really thought it wasnt fair to discount him, just because he's fake). He said " ". Guess he didn't think much of your stereotype, could be cause he doesn't think much at all *scratches head*.
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On another note, why do you feel down about your weight? You dont feel attractive? Why not? Why look to all the wrong places to feel in all the wrong ways. Why place so much care on so many? If your in a room with red tinted windows, the world will appear red, change your mind so the world looks different.
Other than that, know this, there are some people that will find you attractive. They may not be in the greatest numbers, but neither are those who do more than slobber after that perfect 8. So chin up, and have at 'em, you'll find yours.
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 7:08:38 AM | Well even though this is a very old threed I will still respond.
This may seem a bit harsh but you were not born 400 lbs. You are right as kids you do not see too many dolls that are obese with lead inside to make them heavy.
The reason is it is not healthy.
At 400lbs your heart and lungs have to work twice as hard as they would if you were 200lbs
I think you have your own mind convinced that someone would pass you by just because you were not barbie type, but it is my opinion that you are completely wrong.
For someone to become 400 lbs means you did not just one day wake up that way. it means you have shown a consistancy of making bad choices. Lack of common sense and self control.
Surley there had to be a point that it was noticed what was happening, but it did not stop you from continuing.
If someone likes to mountain bike or go on small boats or even the life style of just going for walks for several miles in hilly areas that excludes you, so yes they may choose a barbie type. But you can not blame them for wanting to maintain a certain quality of life just because you have chosen to NOT have the same quality of life outlook.
Yeah it is weird to see a nice girl thread.
could also be that the barbie type has long hair  | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 8:20:52 AM | I think it's called preference
just like you have a criteria for dating...
some are superficial and some are even more superficial.
it would be nice if you would not generalize and say why do men...
Your question should be wrote why do the men i want
only tend to go for dating the "good looking prima donna barbie doll type?
call me a word nazi but that question would be ring with more truth..
not all men want a barbie.. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 8:25:16 AM | You were 430lbs when you were born????
Your profile has absolutely no information on it.
None
you are attractive, but there is nothing there. I don't have a clue what you are interested in, what you like, dislke, etc. Etc.
Work on your profile. Pics are good. A full body shot would help. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 3:45:18 PM | | The mutual attraction thing is tough one....frankly, all of the good looking people are dating other good looking people....and why not...I am sure OP doesnt want somebody that has less to offer? | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 3:55:12 PM |
i have a question for the REAL MEN. why do men only tend to go for dating the "good looking prima donna barbie doll type?" it seems that guys tend to look a picture and base their whole wanting or not wanting to be someone based on physical apperance. a girl could have a beautiful face, great personality, had have her head on straight, but if she has a litl bit bigger ass than a size 8 you guys run and dart and lable her as the perfect "sister or bestfriend" so why date something that will fade in time and not date something that will always be there....that is the beauty inside a person.........help me out with this one
Great. Another thread where apparently only "REAL MEN" won't date who an OP thinks they should. 
Does that mean that, what, thin women, or pretty women, don't possess inner beauty? Newsflash to me, that the two are apparently mutally exclusive.
Attraction is subjective....geez, tons of men prefer blondes, but I'm secure enough in myself and who I am and what I look like, that I don't feel a need to label men as not being "REAL" for having their own preferences and tastes. Get over it.  | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 4:14:40 PM |
Does that mean that, what, thin women, or pretty women, don't possess inner beauty? Yanno Sweetness... I know a lot of women that fit the whole Barbie description... and I'll be damned if they aren't the nicest bunch of women you could imagine... the inner beauty actually makes them stunningly beautiful. I'd love to be jealous of them, but I can't find it in me to dislike them for any reason...
I think the issue is that when push comes to shove, a normal gal like me can't compete with the beauty and the personality combining... that's why god gave us normal gals rye... it's the great equalizer in catching a man...  | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 4:15:39 PM |
that's why god gave us normal gals rye... it's the great equalizer in catching a man...
Just call me Captainess Crown!
Seriously, though, OP, it's all about liking YOURSELF. If you don't like yourself, and feel comfortable in your own skin, how can you expect others to? Blaming other people for one's own self-perceived lackings is just passing the buck, and ludicrous, IMO.
But, then again, *sigh* I'll have to work on that pesky ego of mine I guess, lol. | |
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Posted: 10/30/2009 4:37:50 PM | | I wish people who start these threads,instead of whinning,would list all of the benefits of a man or woman dating someone they have absolutely no physical attraction for,do not want to touch or be touched by...share your wisdom with the rest of us...personailty alone is great for friendships..a romantic relationship includes friendship but also includes physical intimacy...which is mighy hard to go for if you have no attraction for someone. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 4:44:17 PM |
list all of the benefits of a man or woman dating someone they have absolutely no physical attraction for,do not want to touch or be touched by...share your wisdom with the rest of us A few pros off the top of my head...
1. Population control. Less sex means less children.
2. Higher taxes available for the government. More alcohol purchased for the times that sex is really needed.
3. More career focused people. They don't want to be home as much, so they're at the office.
4. More diverse society. When they do have to be home, they're partaking of different activities to keep busy.
5. Threads such as this so that there is something to post to when I'm at home alone on a Friday night cause I forgot to bring the correct amount of rye the night before...
Just to name a few...  | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 6:07:01 PM | | I'm a firm beleiver that here is no such thing as a woman too ugly to get a man,with that said women who start such threads are usualy not interested in the men that are interested in them for the same reasons they bemoan...which of course makes them hypocrites.....your list is however impressive and perhaps some benefit to society is to be had from such relationships. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 6:08:51 PM | | I guess your looking for the guy who says and means: "I LOVE EVERYONE . . . . and your next" Not very nice to be the 347th person he loves . . . and how genuine is it gonna be ? Dateing good looking prima donna's is a hard and dirty task . . . but someone has to do it . . . . I volunteer cuz I love really short term and meaningless relationships . . . the others require trust and loyalty and women are pretty weak in those areas . .. they cash in real relationships in a few years so they can go to the mall and find "prima donna guys". Its about as good as its gonna get these days . . . love and romance are optional in a Brave New World. Youll get over all the dreams of something pure and nice pretty soon. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 6:44:32 PM | Because you donna have no vino so you looka for someone like momma who cooks a greata pizza pie and isa saint god bless.
And she was pretty hot in those 80's videos too. ('Like a Virgin" soundtrack running through head)
Guess we all want something some else has- All you can do is just be you and let fate take care of the rest. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 8:05:42 PM | Wow... this thread is really, really old.
If I was to guess, the OP was probably complaining cause the only men that were responding to her were also 5 ft , 250+ pounds and not the pretty boys. LOL. Seek your reasonable equal and they are much easier to catch and hang onto long-term. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 9:04:24 PM |
i have a question for the REAL MEN. why do men only tend to go for dating the "good looking prima donna barbie doll type?" it seems that guys tend to look a picture and base their whole wanting or not wanting to be someone based on physical apperance. a girl could have a beautiful face, great personality, had have her head on straight, but if she has a litl bit bigger ass than a size 8 you guys run and dart and lable her as the perfect "sister or bestfriend" so why date something that will fade in time and not date something that will always be there....that is the beauty inside a person.........help me out with this one.
Personally, I prefer women who don't stereotype all men and tar them with a single brush......and I'm not joking! Women who do that seem shallow to me regardless of the size of their ass! | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 9:19:01 PM | | are you kidding me....it doesn't matter what you look like...not really......people are people....if you don't have the bullet for their gun....they'll fire what you have and go get more ammo. **** aint it..... | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 9:26:18 PM | I think Chris is right; it's about preference. You have to be attracted to someone, and this includes the physical as well as the mental.
There are plenty of men who prefer meatier women. It is simply NOT true that men only date good looking prima donnas. In the first place, good looking is very subjective; secondly, "prima donna" has negative connotations, for both men & women. Go to any movie theater or restaurant, and you'll see the evidence.
Trueblue, I agree with you too. If you are not a good fit, it won't last long. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 10/30/2009 10:14:34 PM | Unfortunately, many females have no inner beauty, just inner slime.
my my my, aren't you a charmer?? and i wonder what men have inside of them? | |
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Posted: 10/31/2009 4:41:52 PM | | First of all, I don't have time for prima donnas, good looking or otherwise. When I date a lady, if she looks good, her attitude has to be good too. You don't get a pass from looks. If a lady is what I want, I date her, attraction needs to be there, but she will be the best looking woman anyway because she's with me. ...and no, this does not mean you have to be some model. If your mind and heart are in the right place, you'd be surprised at how beautiful you are to me. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/1/2009 4:34:45 AM |
a girl could have a beautiful face, great personality, had have her head on straight, but if she has a litl bit bigger ass than a size 8 you guys run and dart and lable her as the perfect "sister or bestfriend" so why date something that will fade in time and not date something that will always be there....that is the beauty inside a person.........help me out with this one. Gosh, I couldn't really tell ya BUT....it DOES spawn another question:
WHY do women who are OVER a size 8 automatically ASSUME and INSIST that ALL women who ARE a size 8 (or whatever size is smaller than their own) do NOT possess the qualities of: a beautiful face, great personality, have her head on straight, etc, etc????
While I certainly don't consider myself "petite" (size 8), I'm far from "full figured"; and hey.....since I'm getting pretty damn close to 60 yrs old this 1/2 decade, I've been listening to this stuff for over 1/2 a century!
i have a question for the REAL MEN. PERHAPS....just maybe, it COULD be...that women under a size 8 don't INSULT men (by calling them "fake men"...by implication) simply because they (the men) don't discriminate AGAINST smaller women.
That IS afterall what you're demanding....right? You expect that "REAL MEN" should know that it's genetically impossible for a smaller woman to have that pretty face, great personality, or any intelligence, integrity, or sense of responsibility!
MAYBE, those men simply dislike hypocrisy. | |
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Posted: 11/1/2009 4:42:21 AM | OP, I love that song "If you want to be happy the rest of your life, never make a PRETTY woman your wife. From my personal point of view, get an ugly girl to marry you!
Well, here's an ugly one right here!! | |
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