| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/2/2009 11:46:45 AM | | Because basically they haven't grown up -- most men are still mentally only 16 -- and they want the dolls -- (a doll is empty-headed by the way). Every so often you find an adult male -- good luck (but it's been my experience that looks and size counts, no matter how old they are! | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/2/2009 4:48:19 PM | ^^^ BINGO!...how old, how ugly, how unintelligent they are ..etc etc.
never changes..just in my exp. for sure
the GREED factor on here is amazing to say the least | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/2/2009 5:27:48 PM | Your ABOUT ME said "None"....that's it!!!
When you don't put a profile up that shows your personality...then we can only go on looks. Sad because your main picture is cute but the profile was a turnoff. :( | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/2/2009 5:33:18 PM | | Uh oh this is a question for the "REAL MEN". All you inflatable ones better get out of here. Ok seriously now you are asking why a man would want to date someone he found attractive? Come on the answer to that is rather obvious. It's because he found the woman attractive. I don't date men I don't find attractive so I don't think men should date women they are not attracted to either. Would you really want a man to date you knowing that he did not find you attractive? Would you really want him to be with you just because you were there and convenient? Sure inner beauty is important but if the outside is not attractive to your mate as well then what you have is a friendship not a romantic relationship. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/2/2009 6:47:19 PM | Can't resist.....
My real name is Donna. I think I will investigate this prima donna attitude a bit more.
I was thinking I was more like belledonna.... ....a lovely seductive poison. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/2/2009 7:21:41 PM | | Why assume that all women who are good looking are prima donna's? I know tons of gorgeous women that are smart and down to earth too. So, thats kind of a generalization to me. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/2/2009 8:48:19 PM | I totally agree with you. Don't forget! Not only do they want a perfect "Prima Donna" they also want them 20 years younger. Then when they finally "wake up" they wonder why they keep ending up with gold diggers! The real beauty of a person "male or female" is on the inside. Once you get to know the beauty inside, they suddenly become the most beautiful person on the outside to. It just takes a little longer. When it does happen it is well worth the extra time and effort it took because then you have someone who is not only beautiful inside and out but truely genuine and real.
I hope someday I may find someone like that to. Sheri  | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/2/2009 9:19:35 PM |
Why assume that all women who are good looking are prima donna's? I know tons of gorgeous women that are smart and down to earth too.
I totally agree. Being very good looking does not mean one is a bimbo or not a good person. Good looks and good character and intelligence are not mutually exclusive. It is anything but an either/or situation. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/2/2009 9:34:33 PM | Don't forget! Not only do they want a perfect "Prima Donna" they also want them 20 years younger.
Both your claims are complete fallacies that all men realistically expect those.
The real beauty of a person "male or female" is on the inside. Once you get to know the beauty inside, they suddenly become the most beautiful person on the outside to. It just takes a little longer. When it does happen it is well worth the extra time and effort it took because then you have someone who is not only beautiful inside and out but truely genuine and real.
If that were true to the extent to which you claim, you wouldn't be single.
I hope someday I may find someone like that to.
You talk a good game.
But I seriously doubt that you don't have physical requirements and other criteria that discriminates against a large portion of men who have great "inner beauty". | |
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DJ-78
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/2/2009 9:37:14 PM |
Why assume that all women who are good looking are prima donna's? I know tons of gorgeous women that are smart and down to earth too.
I totally agree as well.
One thing I've noticed about attractive women and women who are in shape/thin/atheltic etc is that they don't complain about what men prefer in women or feel the need to talk badly about other women. They seem to be more secure in themselves and maybe thats part of the attraction. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/2/2009 9:43:54 PM | Here's the deal.....a bit on the heavy side is fine as long as she can keep up. If a person doesn't take care of ones self on the outside it just shows what's on the inside.
How can you tell when a person is just "not taking care of herself"? A few years ago, I became quite ill and ended up having to take steroids (mostly prednisone) more often than not for over a yr. This was because my illness was aggravating bronchial asthma, making exercise impossible as well. I had surgery and got well, but by that time, I had gained 80 lbs. Because of the asthma, I had to gradually work up to normal levels of exercise again. Because I do take care of myself, there have been no crash diets. Over the last yr and a half, I have gradually lost 50 lbs, but I still have 30 to go. I am healthier than I have ever been before and rarely even use an inhaler anymore (mostly just around certain allergens). I can keep up with most people and have a life that very few people could keep up with. In spite of this, most men who state that they want a woman who "takes care of herself" are automatically not interested. I'm not complaining about this - there are others who are interested and I'm not feeling sorry for myself, I just don't buy the line about women taking care of themselves. Usually it's just a glossed over way to say that you want a woman who is thin. There is no way you can tell at a glance who takes care of herself or why a woman is overweight. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/2/2009 11:38:46 PM | Fascinating subject.....
I weighed 260 lbs, just two years ago. When I first went online, I was about 20 lbs. overweight. I would send notes, and seldom get a response. Once I lost the last 20, I had women who had ignored me, contact me. 
I was under the impression, that women look for "more than looks". I lived in a high-end community, that did not seem to help.
When I came back from a long trip, I had lost the weight. I was a Chef, and I had bad habits then. Soon, I thought I was so cool. I was dating women, that left me breathless , they were so lovely.
What I found out was this, our ego's inflate according to "how we look". Since I never was interested in a woman, who is younger than my socks. I cannot speak, for Men who desire much younger women. See ego....
However, life has a way of making the "Barbies" just like everyone else on this site. Human, despite the rather Catty reference to Barbies. These gorgeous women, have loved and lost also. They have learned, and many women look at their good looks as a curse. Imagine that!!!!!
So while this is unfair, and I have felt it personally. If you look up fair in the dictionary, it says "see unfair". I made that up, but see my point?
Read the profiles, the women with the big hearts will show vulnerabilty. Then try looking at their eyes. Our egos as men, tell us we can go get anything. Except, Women have their own minds. What is attractive to one woman, is not for another.
We all send notes, that are not returned. We all face rejection being Men. We are visual creatures, and many women write short profiles for one reason. Most Men, do not bother reading them. They see attraction, and that is good enough!!!!!
But getting angry, is exactly how we screw it all up. I like thin /petite women, I always have. This is a country, that is just FAT. No excuses folks, we eat to satisfy ourselves emotionally. I lost the weight, and I was lucky not to have health problems. But try looking within, before you lump everyone into a category. You might be surprised.......
Most women, want a Man to be respectful first of all. If that rule is not followed, you might want to quit now. Yes, women like Men who have power. They are like that, and we are visual.
But it sounds to me, like many people just have sour grapes. Try looking within, even if it is dark in there......... | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/3/2009 12:01:32 AM | One of the things that is interesting is the way people are influenced by clothes, make-up, hairstyles, etc. I am someone who people watches. Recently I was traveling and did a lot of people watching--on trains and in train stations, in cafes, etc. Lots of people to watch everywhere I went. One thing I noticed is that a woman can walk by and get a lot of looks from men--a woman who is 'well dressed,' fashionable, has taken a lot of trouble with hair and make-up, etc. She may be a bit overweight, she may not be that naturally pretty, but the men will notice her. Then a more natural, unadorned woman might walk by. She is naturally very pretty, very good looking, good figure. But she isn't dressed to attract attention or to impress. She may not have a flattering hairstyle, wears no make-up, etc. And the men don't notice her. It's really quite amusing. You know, once we are all 'undressed' and without our makeup, we are what we are...so it's kind of sad men (and women) don't get that and too often respond to the decorative veneer rather than the real thing.
OP: If you want to attract the opposite gender, you've got to play the game. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/10/2009 6:22:47 PM | | If a man can't be with me for me and for who I am.... then he's not worth it. I have a lot to say on this, but it's too long, so I will quit for now. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/14/2009 7:32:58 PM | | Men are visual creatures, perhaps more so than women. I'm not going to feel bad about wanting to be with a beautiful girl. On the other hand, there probably are guys that don't take looks seriously. It's just that I don't know many. IMO, it doesn't make a guy wrong for being attracted to beauty. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/15/2009 3:56:03 PM |
spunkybum52 said: If a man can't be with me for me and for who I am.... then he's not worth it. I have a lot to say on this, but it's too long, so I will quit for now.
That's just a lazy cop-out. If you're not willing to make (and keep) yourself appealing to/for a man, he's better off without you.  | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/15/2009 4:37:55 PM | I get labeled as looking like a "Barbie" all the time. It comes with the territory of having long, blonde hair and boobs, haha. The thing is though, I'm not a size 4, and I'm really happy about it. My body is not the most important aspect of me, but I've learned over the years to love it and accept it how it is.
Having a curvier frame doesn't necessarily mean men won't be attracted to you, or immediately label you as the "sister/bestfriend." Sure, some men like certain body types... but women like certain body types on men as well. We can't help it - It's an instinctual thing.
I've dated men of all different shapes, sizes, heights and colours, and I have to say - If any of those guys gained a couple pounds, I really wouldn't have cared. It was their personalities and qualities that caught (and kept) my attention.
If a person is really worth your time, they will love and appreciate all of the things about you that make you who you are - your intelligence, personality, sense of humour, etc. Your body will be something that they love because they love YOU - it shouldn't be the reason why they do.
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Joined: 9/29/2009
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/15/2009 4:54:26 PM | | Girls do this more than guys to on here because they have more of a selection to choose from. 90% + of the time men make the first contact, most girls will judge you based solely on your picture in your email not your profile. In fact some girls don't even view your profile they judge you based on your first contact. Read delete, no profile review just check out your pic. Then there is the girls that unread delete. Whats up with that. Any girl who emails me i check their profile picture first like everyone does but i see what they have to write. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/15/2009 5:15:31 PM | What do you care, what men think Op, just be yourself and you will attract a man who wants someone just like you.
Live your life, do what you love, have a positive loving attitude and the right man will come along.You dont need a mans approval to validate you.Go out and walk, eat healthy and develop a love of life.Volunteer to help others and embrace the moment.
Live each day with joy and gratitude.I am sure so many people love you, as you are.If man does not, he is not for you.Grow as a person, none of us is entitled to anything in life.
Be the person you want to attract and aim high.Do you want a shallow man for a b/f, I dont think so.Avoid them like the plague. | |
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| why only date good looking prima donna's?
Posted: 11/15/2009 5:26:20 PM | | Its not just the men, it's the ladies too! I have a friend that I had a crush on for while, but couldn't get her to see past her desire to date "plastic cowboys" , describing that as her "type". The problem is that this type hasn't really been treating her well in the past, and the present hasn't been too great on her either. Dating and relationships are all about choices, and sooner or later these people will figure out that doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results is the definition of insanity. As for me I choose not wait on someone to figure it out, I didn't let the situation get me down, and I am learning how to get in with the people who can look at a bigger picture and the qualities that make me shine! So should you! | |
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