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 Lyndsay23_Wrexham

Joined: 7/26/2007
Msg: 76
Have you ever had a serious relationship with someone you met from a bar?
Posted: 10/10/2007 4:55:18 AM

lynsay wrexham , It took you 3 years to realize you couldn't have a decent conversation with him? Sorry but that just strikes me as funny.


Well yeah- when we first got together we had a lot in common, then I went off to uni, did a degree, got new friends and new interests- and he stayed the same!
 holeinoneusa

Joined: 8/23/2007
Msg: 77
Have you ever had a serious relationship with someone you met from a bar?
Posted: 10/10/2007 4:58:11 PM
I'm much older than most of those who are posting to this topic. I met my late wife at a bar and we had almost 25 pretty good years together before leukemia took her from me. I don't think it's the place you meet someone but the people who meet. If it's going to be good it will not matter where you find each other.

My .02
 Kool_Breeze

Joined: 7/4/2007
Msg: 78
Have you ever had a serious relationship with someone you met from a bar?
Posted: 10/10/2007 6:44:50 PM
I met a man in a bar in the early 90s..... It was supposed to be a one night stand or a fling... something short lived, definitely not a long relationship of any means.... after eight years, we ended it mutually and as friends.... we are still friends today.... bars are not a bad place to meet someone, just like online dating... this is the bar scene for us fishies that are too busy to go out....
 cincydeb

Joined: 6/4/2007
Msg: 79
Have you ever had a serious relationship with someone you met from a bar?
Posted: 10/10/2007 7:04:30 PM
I've often thought of hanging in bars an addiction (my father was an example of this). It tends to draw folks away from their homes and families. Don't think I could have a serious relationship with someone like that.
 SoulBane

Joined: 1/2/2005
Msg: 80
Have you ever had a serious relationship with someone you met from a bar?
Posted: 10/10/2007 9:42:53 PM
My theory:
"find them in a bar...........lose them in a bar" -??????wtf


My theory: Find 'em on POF, lose 'em on POF. -ripeagles




I met my g/f in a bar. I lost her once in a huge bar. But she called my cellphone and we met back up!!!!! It was crowded. It was the worst two minutes of my life!!!

Geesh people. I don't know how some of you survive yourselves. *Talking about the ones who are so quick to judge automatically......

To relax is to thrive.

-sb
 sunsetstormx

Joined: 1/20/2006
Msg: 81
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Have you ever had a serious relationship with someone you met from a bar?
Posted: 10/10/2007 9:51:20 PM
I met a wonderful man in a bar once and we dated for 5 months but I never fell for him. So yes it is possible!
 SoulBane

Joined: 1/2/2005
Msg: 82
Have you ever had a serious relationship with someone you met from a bar?
Posted: 10/10/2007 9:51:36 PM
It tends to draw folks away from their homes and families.-cincydeb


Like most hobbies or habits, going to a bar is not always going to turn into the nightmare addiction that your father experienced.
Also, there is nothing wrong at all with taking some "me" time away from the home and family. We all need our individual time as well as the time to bind with the family.

We all have our habits/hobbies/social groups, etc. And as long as these things are done in moderation and common sense, there is nothing evil or morally corrupting about them. We as individuals corrupt the setting, or not. The setting itself is neutral.

-sb
 cincydeb

Joined: 6/4/2007
Msg: 83
Have you ever had a serious relationship with someone you met from a bar?
Posted: 10/11/2007 3:15:22 AM
Tthus I have simply stated my opinion. Once bitten, twice shy.
 ndnspyter

Joined: 7/1/2006
Msg: 84
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Have you ever had a serious relationship with someone you met from a bar?
Posted: 10/11/2007 6:43:26 AM
no never have but i am sure that it could happen!
 Dymon126

Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 85
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Have you ever had a serious relationship with someone you met from a bar?
Posted: 10/11/2007 8:10:35 AM
I think it depends on the type of bar. If its a dance club or the hot latest "cool" bar probably not, however if its the local hang where people go and there not there every night lol sure why not.
 AmyJo57068

Joined: 5/7/2007
Msg: 86
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Have you ever had a serious relationship with someone you met from a bar?
Posted: 10/11/2007 9:33:21 AM
I met my ex husband at the bar. We are now divorcing but we were together 10+ years...
 irish girl in mi

Joined: 7/15/2007
Msg: 87
Have you ever had a serious relationship with someone you met from a bar?
Posted: 10/11/2007 9:33:30 AM
if he found you in a bar, and he fell in love with you, it could work...the place you meet, doesnt make the person he is....so I say yeah, it could work
 sweetlibrachik

Joined: 9/10/2007
Msg: 88
Have you ever had a serious relationship with someone you met from a bar?
Posted: 10/11/2007 9:35:37 AM
Nope never met anyone at a bar nor had a serious relationship with one at all from one. Besides I haven't been in a bar for years, let alone .... not into going to one either.
 custommann1

Joined: 4/20/2007
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Have you ever had a serious relationship with someone you met from a bar?
Posted: 10/11/2007 10:11:09 AM
Answer- YES
I was 24, met lots of ladies and yes, I was a player. I talked to many and could identify the ladies also as genuine, or teasers.

We met on monday, talked on phone wednesday (3 hours), first date on Thursday, dated 1 year, then engaged for 1 year, then married for 19 with 4 children. Nothing in life is a guarantee. Marriage is a "learn on the job" institution.

I have several friends that met there wives in a bar and seem to be happily married with families. Iwish you well, you will find the right one. I did and plan to again.

Best wishes, Custom
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