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 WONDERMAN37

Joined: 6/10/2007
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Posted: 1/31/2009 1:49:34 PM
Sometimes the "Red hot" issue is that you have more then one thing you both have a "passion "for and it some how keeps the flames going even if one developes a health issue you have more to share .

If everything is based on the sex alone what is to grow together on if that is ever for health reasons one or the other may get?
 sailor-

Joined: 3/16/2008
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Posted: 1/31/2009 3:14:34 PM
cant believe the game is over till the under taker gives you the final tap with the old shovel..eh..after all hot times takes two ...not 1 and a may be with head aches
 mopar123

Joined: 12/16/2008
Msg: 403
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Posted: 2/1/2009 9:04:49 AM
Lmao!!!!!!!!! Ohhhhhhhhhhhh yeah!!!!!
 sysco

Joined: 1/17/2007
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Posted: 2/10/2009 12:23:32 AM
It is my understanding that HEADACHES are likely to go away if you HAVE sex. Releases a lot of hormones etc..and TA DA the headache is relieved ..
 drumsafrican

Joined: 5/6/2006
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Posted: 2/11/2009 4:19:53 AM
I think that you may wish to examine some of your personal issues with relation to romantic relationships. You mention you have never been married and you're 51. This, to me, is a huge red flag meaning someone has intimacy issues. It is possible that the woman you are seeing might be a suitable companion but you are "losing interest" because of fear of intimacy. If you haven't already, I would get into some long-term individual to sort out your issues with women. Also, why have you "sporadically" dated this woman? Is that not a danger sign or red flat of some type?

Judith
 mscloverct

Joined: 2/3/2009
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Posted: 2/11/2009 6:40:02 PM
You said a mouth full young lady. I'm glad I didn't have to type my wittle fingers off typing all that good stuff you said but you sure got it right my sister. Now you men just remember I didn't say it she did. I just dittoed it.
 zeeba2

Joined: 11/21/2008
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Posted: 2/11/2009 7:20:56 PM
Going way, way back to the original question posed in 2007:

Yes, it's entirely possible. And it's definitely possible even if the two people in question have never been married. It happened to me, pretty much unexpected both to me and to the man. Neither one of us has ever been married...and weren't exactly looking around when "it" happened.
 darlinlady

Joined: 2/26/2009
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Posted: 3/8/2009 2:34:55 PM
First of all lets face it, after a certain age the body just doesnt look as good as it did years younger even if you have treated it like a "temple" LOL. Of course it depends what you mean by red hot romance. A love great enough to write poetry or paint pictures does not necessary mean nothing but sex. True there has to be that certain spark or attraction but that can happen with anyone alone with each other. If your really talking about the best kind of love than its knowing and loving the person inside and out. Loving them for what they are not how well they perform. When you find that certain someone who you think about all the time your apart than bingo that spark will be there. I truly believe it's still possible to find this at our age. I'll tell ya one thing I have had steak and I'll never settle for hamburg.
 LaVida_es

Joined: 11/30/2008
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Posted: 3/8/2009 3:44:07 PM
What does age have to do with feelings? Living from your head and not your Heart can cause all sorts of 'Idea -l's' to run rampant.

keep open
 amiable8

Joined: 2/9/2009
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Posted: 3/8/2009 6:58:58 PM
I am 61 and feel about 45. I have had more red hot romance lately than I have had in the past. I am more knowledgable and have more wisdom, so I should be able (and can) to cross a minor obstacle now and again.
Hot romance is 90% in your head as long as you take care of your body and spiritual side.(peace of mind)
1-800-hot-hot-hot over 60
Ken
 code 10-200

Joined: 11/27/2008
Msg: 411
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Posted: 3/9/2009 2:01:04 PM
I am 49 years old and i think yes if you meet the right person and have chemistry with them,you will connect on all levels of your dating relationship. Age is just a number .I recently had someone come into my life and have been dating with them..and he is a few years older by four years but i wouldnt care if it were 10 years .we have fun together.He is awesome and so i figure it should not matter our age as romance is what we make of it .So i would suggest to go out and date someone whom you connect with and just live each day ..life is short be happy.No pressures or labels be happy.
 4Iron2Flag

Joined: 3/4/2009
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Posted: 3/9/2009 8:21:43 PM
Absolutely!!
Even if there's a need for hormones for the lady or some form of 'assist' for the man...
Lust and desire only fade as the partners get bored or unattracted to each other...!
Make an effort to keep a hot *Spark* alive..!!
 kpooks

Joined: 12/23/2008
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Posted: 3/9/2009 9:06:10 PM
Sure! As with any age, passion requires work. Are you really down for the work? Is she?
 tallyover

Joined: 3/8/2008
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Posted: 3/11/2009 4:39:53 AM
Oh yeah! I know it's possible. Still want RED hot with a sizzle.
 buffalosbm

Joined: 8/4/2008
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Posted: 6/8/2009 12:07:15 PM
Red hot romance is possible after 50 but only if both people want it. If he complains and don't brush his teeth..well so much for romance. If she's wearing granny panties and just let herself go... Your hand would look more attractive.
 PalmBeachGuy

Joined: 11/5/2008
Msg: 416
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Posted: 6/13/2009 6:57:18 PM
Last time it happened was about ten months ago!

And if this one doesn't work out, will be ready to move on to the next.

Just sayin . . . !

 Honcho

Joined: 12/9/2006
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Posted: 6/13/2009 8:15:14 PM
Did you want that over medium or well done? Heck yes you can have a red hot romance at any age. Its not all in the genitals believe it or not. Its in the mind and in the heart, heck Viagra and Cialis can take care of the physical dilemnas!
 tootsiebaby

Joined: 4/25/2009
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Posted: 6/13/2009 8:39:14 PM
Hell yes. What you younger people must remember is that with age comes experience! My sex life now is 10 times better than it was when I was 20, 30 or even 40. The pleasures 2 people share come from trust, admiration, and foremost communication!!! It is a key for a LONG and healthy {filled with lust} sex life. Most of the people I know half my age complain more about aches and pains than I do. So our age is not really a factor. Its your heart that will lead you to the well. If you get my drift.
 dd3va

Joined: 11/18/2008
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Posted: 6/13/2009 8:46:03 PM
Most certainly!
 RDtoo

Joined: 1/30/2005
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Posted: 6/13/2009 11:33:18 PM
I have noticed that most of the replies seem to think I was referring to sex when I started this thread almost 2 years ago. I went back and read my opening post and I did not indicate this anywhere. Maybe that is all most look for in a relationship, red hot sex. I do believe you can find that at this age. The thing I was referring to has nothing to do with sex, but more a chemistry spiritual type of thing. I think that is much harder to find.

To the woman who thought I had some "intimacy" issues. I read your profile and noticed that you only date younger men. Sounds like you have some denial issues going on yourself....
 Mayonia

Joined: 1/20/2009
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Posted: 6/14/2009 2:47:22 AM
I am still waiting for the next dose of red hot romance. Of course, it HAS to include red hot sex, but of course that's not the only element.
 mz taken

Joined: 11/30/2007
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Posted: 6/14/2009 3:03:10 AM
I have no desire to go back over all the umpteen pages to read all the responses, but some one felt compelled to resurrect this years old thread, so I go:

yes, Virginia, there is red hot romance after 50.

yes, with sex and with a nicely pink glowing post-coital cuddle.
spooning, cupping, giggling into the morning and making breakfast together.....ahhh yes, it's possible.

why the fuq wouldn't it be just because of age???
 savanah777

Joined: 1/24/2009
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Posted: 6/14/2009 11:36:49 AM
i see alot of threads is this or that possible after a certain age, in my opinion, alllll things are possible, i used to have a car tag, the said " with God, all things are possible", and ill always believe it....
 TruGold

Joined: 5/25/2009
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Posted: 6/14/2009 2:12:21 PM
Gets even hotter after age 50!
 blondegirl24

Joined: 8/14/2008
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Posted: 6/14/2009 9:08:14 PM
Absolutely.....why not. I think after 50 the sex is better, kids are gone, you know what you are looking for and what turns you on and off! I think it is a great time to fall in love because you just have more time to devote to the relationship and your partner. Hopefully you have learned by this stage what works in a relationship and what doesn't. I know what my faults are and I work on them in each new relationship to become a better partner.

I think it is a mindset...fifty is young nowadays and with so many divorced/single people there are lots of us looking to love again. Of course that comes with the chance of being hurt but as long as you learn from each relationship and move forward all is good.

Must admit though, after meeting/reading profiles of some men my age on here who are looking for the imposssible...well I just shake my head. Can't believe how some people act at this stage and just don't have manners. Then there are the ones who contact you for a booty call even though it clearly states in your profile that is not what you want...hmm does anyone read profiles anymore??
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