| Is red hot romance possible after 50? Posted: 6/16/2009 3:19:21 PM | | I do believe so, even romance with NO SEX, if anyone in this day and age can believe that. The look that you give each other, the touch, the almost giddy feeling you get when you see each other after a while apart. And yes with no sex involved. | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50? Posted: 6/16/2009 11:13:05 PM | | I am 57 years old and am here to tell you that YES it is possible to find red hot romance after 50. You're never too old for fire. Unfortunately, I have been involved with a couple of men over the last year who were really not ready to have a close relationship with anybody. Or perhaps I was not the right one. Either way, it felt fabulous so I know it is still possible. It will happen. Just keep your heart open and love will find a way. | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50? Posted: 6/17/2009 12:23:04 AM | | yes it is possible but like most romantic feelings is prone to fading over time, so unless you go from romance to romance to keep the flow best to work it out with someone compatible or other option go it alone as majority of 50 + seem to be doing these days. just my 2 cents | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50? Posted: 6/18/2009 9:48:53 AM | I SURE DO HOPE SO!!! I WAS MARRIED FOR 25 YEARS AND THERE WASN'T ANY, I MEAN NOOOO HOTT ROMANCE IN OUR MARRIAGE. I WAS MARRIED TO A COMPLETE TOTAL DUD, I'M HOPING FOR ONE DAY, TO FIND THAT SUPER SPECIAL SOMEONE THAT CAN GIVE ME EVERYTHING I'VE WANTED MY WHOLE LIFE, AND THAT IS "RED HOT ROMANCE"!
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50? Posted: 6/18/2009 9:02:23 PM | That is a Great Big YES!... Why should it die... age is just a number.. Did your heart stop at 50 NO, then why should anything else.. it only dies, if You want it to..
Keep the home fires burning, it takes two... never only one... to find that person who makes you weak in the knees from just a Kiss.. a touch of the hand.. A soft whisper.. can inginte the fire and who know where it might lead you.. Open your mind and your heart.. but only to those worthy! | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50? Posted: 6/21/2009 5:34:40 AM | Let me just say that the answer is absolutely YES. The most passionate, sensual, hot and steamy relationship of my life happened when I was 50. It was the kind of feelings that took my breath away, made me weak in the kness. You should get past your preconcieved idea that you can not relate to someone just because they have children or grandchildren. Look at the person and open your eyes to them without labeling them. That relationship ended, now I am determined to have that same kind of passion, chemistry with someone else. I KNOW that it can happen and it is wonderful. I feel sexier, I am more open and know myself now much better than I did when I was in my 30's or 40's. I am more confident, at ease now. Yes expect to find red hot romance at this age. Look behind all doors and keep your mind open that it can happen. | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50? Posted: 6/23/2009 3:58:41 PM | The question is- is it possible BEFORE 50? I'm 51 right now, and I have a saying for this time in my life- I'm old enough to know what matters and young enough to do it. :) What did you know about love or romance (or sex) at 20? At 30? Even at 40? How much did you value them?... or even life in general? "Heat" is on the inside, not the outside. Romance and passion are ageless... you just get "better" at them with experience, knowledge and wisdom. All you young'uns will know what I'm talking about when you get here. :D
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50? Posted: 6/23/2009 4:54:25 PM | Judith: Definitely agree with you relating to the person who has never been married by they are past 40. Something is mostly definitely wrong and I agree there could be 'intimacy issues' but I ran across a situation a number of years ago where the guy had never been married before and he was 40 and he said he didn't think that would be a problem but as it turned out for the lady who married him...it was a major problem. He was paranoid schizophrenic and 'crazy as a bedbug' and she only lived with him (no matter how hard she wanted it to work) for about 10 months.  | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50? Posted: 6/23/2009 5:36:03 PM | | It happened for me---unfortunately I let it get away! I was married 36 years before losing my wife. I met what became my "soulmate" at 55. We made love at the drop of a hat and anywhere. It was great----until after 3+ yrs she felt she needed to move on. Now I am trying desperately to get over her. | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50? Posted: 6/24/2009 2:20:29 PM | Most definitely. I did at fifty and it lasted 12 yrs. He was 7 years younger and we had fun. Great Sex and so hot and passionate.
It only ended when he started going back to church all the time. He thought he was fornicating...............hum...............
We did not live together but spent most weekends and holidays together.
I am still friends and do not regret it at all.
It did take me a while to get back into dating again. Pat | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50? Posted: 6/24/2009 3:18:06 PM | Of course it's possible at least in my mind lol I have a huge imagination though. If there is nothing there then .... you are wasting time . I think there are different degrees of feelings you can have for someone it may not be red hot all the time but it can still be mutually enhancing . I think when you get older love comes softly more.... I don't know the answer but I do know that I still want a little twinkle in the eyes of someone that's looking at me and if you can't muster that up your doing the person a disservice. | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50? Posted: 6/24/2009 3:39:33 PM | I agree Karma...........on the imagination in your mind.
Sometimes my imagination and dreams are better than watching a X rated movie.
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50? Posted: 6/24/2009 8:22:38 PM | I'm 57 and have been married more than once with more than a few girl friends in between. I didn't think a hot romance was at all possible either until very recently. This one didn't work out for me in the end but would have been the hottest deal I'd ever been in in my life!  | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50? Posted: 6/24/2009 8:28:48 PM | | definitely possible--I agree with others, feel freer and sexier now than ever and have had more openness about sex and letting myself fully enjoy it. a strong chemistry is pretty key too and that I believe can happen at any age. | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50? Posted: 6/26/2009 12:04:52 AM | You have waited this long, why settle for less ? You'll know when it happens, but don't give up! She, will be worth the wait. | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50? Posted: 6/26/2009 8:17:59 AM | . Damn, OP you're only 52! Of course there is. Didn't you know that 50 is the new 30?
But I do wonder if you've given this thing a chance. Not all red-hot romances start out that way. As you stated at this age somethings are different. But remeber; Romeo and Juliet offed themselves! They might've not gotten along that well if they'd gutted it out.
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50? Posted: 6/26/2009 2:38:35 PM | I know couples in their 60s/70s who are still as passionate about one another as they were 30 odd years ago.
So I'm going to say, yes, it is possible for you to still find love, passion and all that goes with it - despite medical condition. | |
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