| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 6/26/2009 9:52:29 PM | RDtoo hello there, Yes. I met a wonderful man on line years ago. We hit it off right away ! Sparks ! Love ! And yes the sex was hot ! As you put it " a red hot chemistry kind of relationship" ! We were together for 3 years, He was 61 at that time, We fell in love and was about to start a life together. I lost him to cancer 2 years ago . God Bless him. So don't give up ! He had a heart condition too. He used to read poetry to me over the phone. As I alwasy say = You got to kiss alot of frogs to find a prince ! LOL
Take care and God bless ! Don't give up !
The best of luck to you, Elaine | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 7/11/2009 2:04:02 AM | Hell yes It's possible,
you might have to date 10, 50 or a 100 or more times to find her. Age has no boundaries , whatsoever......................... | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 7/11/2009 5:43:17 PM | | I have not taken the time to read any of the responses, no need to. I strongly believe it is possible. It just takes two people that believe it together. Not just after 50,but at any age. Sadly some do not know what it's like or gave up on it. If I did not believe it, I'd get off this site and just lay down and die. What good is life without a red hot romance and love. | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 7/11/2009 7:43:24 PM | | gentlemanNJJIM4ONE, its not only possible, I would go out on a limb and say "its probable" ! Why some may ask? Because we've been through it all before, we've made mistakes, hopefully we have learned from our mistakes. Now, with our knowledge gained through the years, the do's the don'ts, the things said, the things left unsaid, its out there for ALL of US now to enjoy! I am so thankful that even though I've had some tough breaks in my life, having been divorced once, been in a few other LTR's and my last marriage having my wife pass away, I still have that special feeling in my heart. I love romance and I love LOVE! What could be better? | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 7/30/2009 2:10:11 PM |
tell me if I am nuts to expect to find red hot romance at this age?
I’ll be 50 this year and I still expect and want that. If there’s no ‘spark’ then he isn’t the man for me. We each have our own idea of what we’ll ‘settle’ for and if you can live with something less, then all well and good; but I can’t. I want the red hot romance, the spark, the need and the desire… | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 8/2/2009 1:32:27 PM | Yes red hot romance is possible after 50.
Some people by nature are romantics. Some people approach life with passion. You just have to look until you find someone who places a premium on these things.
Even at six months when my boy friend arrives to pick me up for a date we spend the first hour kissing. That's pretty much passion. Every time I make us dinner at home,
I set the table with candles and a tablecloth, and we eat by candlelight, and soft music. That is romance.
If passion and romance are important to you let that side of your personality show when you go on a date. Little things make a big difference. Just because you are over 50 does not mean you are dead. Hang in there. | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:30:55 PM | One month of turning 59, and having lived most of the 50's, my opinion is that hot romance does exist beyond the 40's. I am learning that it takes a long time to become young in mind and spirit, and that there are reaches to relationships that are only reached in an older age, that simply cannot be appreciated. For example; not too many young people ever experience the sacred elements in their spirit from a red hot romance. When one gets older, things might be red hot, but the speed is deliberately slowed to enjoy each feeling to the maximum rather than for the five second release for an itch when younger!
After 50 and the never ending need to compete for the sake of the "ego", red hot is brewed to perfection, for the journey is better than the destination through the romance. A woman comes to see that men over 50 consider it the best time in life to bring all things learnt, together in one great package. The awareness and wisdom gained from a life having been lived, gives new dimensions to sharing, caring, and just allowing love to flow. Judgements are less, and love IS allowed to self organize and be free.
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:34:33 PM | What? Well to start off with, is there any other kind? Its hot when we think its hot. I think to many people loose touch with reality on this issue of love and sex. We let Hollywood tell us what is and isn't. Hell they dont know squat. That's why they are all separated and divorced. They sure are however good at generating curiosity and planting dreams. Don't believe me? Well that's fine but look at what you know. I mean really know. Things that you have experienced in your life, not just the sex ... Now look how Hollywood has portrayed it. Get the drift? We need to stop with what others think and be happy with who we are and what we do.    JMHO | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 8/3/2009 12:06:09 PM | I can close my eyes and see him now........What we did to each other was amazing what we were to each other was amazing.......that is what I want in a partner all the time. The one look that drives you insane,,,,,
So now that I am all flustered..............yes you can have a red hot romance.......Smiles
An | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 8/3/2009 6:12:29 PM | Just my 2 cents.....I sure hope so, no matter where he lives.
I would go to the ends of the earth to find "the feeling" again.
The older we get we need to remember to save room for our someone special  | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 8/3/2009 7:10:54 PM | recently met a guy and we had some great powerful chemistry! So I guess we could have had a pretty hot time.
However, it seems to have died off.
but it is a nice memory, and I am now hopeful that a "red hot romance" is not impossible!
Only time will tell! | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 8/3/2009 9:31:44 PM | goodmangreg--
well stated. i am in a similar position--wife died unexpectedly--and yes, i am positive that red-hot romance will be forthcoming, from me for sure; i will be most disapointed otherwise. | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 8/4/2009 12:50:05 AM | Sure it is............just look at the revenue Pfizer generates from Viagra!
Red Hot Romance should better after 50 if two people choose to make it happen.
The stuff that attracts you and captivates you can easialy happen at any age! | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 8/4/2009 3:44:29 AM | Sure it is possible to have a red hot romance after 50. Just make sure you have a flame retardant suit on!!
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 8/6/2009 11:01:42 AM | YES YES YES!!!!
I know that the feelings are still there,dormant,waiting to be teased a little.Hiding just far enough down to keep from emerging before the time is right.It's there,though....simmering, The right person that senses that it's there will know instinctively how to bring it out.
Being over 50 is pretty irrelevant,unless you are physically incapable due to an accident,or illness.Otherwise you are what is known as "ripe" after 50.You've learned a few things,your body has learned all kinds of responses....it's all there.
One of these days,just the right person will get the prize............... | |
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