| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 10/20/2007 2:45:27 PM |
PST Mae, I have something to tell ya. Blonds might get the press but redheads are the real deal. There is nothing as sexy as a redhead.
There isn't any need for a paper bag maybe a blindfold and some silk scarves , Maybe we should talk about it over a nice glass of wine or two
...Sharing conversation over a nice meal and a bottle of wine would be great. So shall I reserve a table? Canada has some terrific restaurants that I'm sure would be to your liking.....blindolds, silk scarves, did you watch 9 1/2 weeks too?...Talk about your red hot romance.
...maeflowers
BTW....I would never go blonde, tried it and it just didn't work for me. | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 10/20/2007 3:21:46 PM | I had an 80 year old neighbor who lost her husband to Alzheimer's. One day she introduced me to a 79 year old man and I thought "How nice!" Then she shocked me by marrying him six months later! One day when they were returning from a trip, I thought they had left a suitcase out in the drive way so I picked it up and took it into their house (the door was left open) and I surprised them kissing (and pretty passionatly I think) in the hall. They laughed and he said to me, "I didn't forget it. I just was so happy to be home with her that I had to give her a kiss."
Now I doubt either one of them could really do anything anymore but they still knew how to keep their romance red hot!! He would go off and play golf and she would paint her portraits but they would get together at 4 and sit down with each other, talk about their days and decide what to do that night............stay home, go to dinner, whatever. And they always kissed hello and goodbye and they always made a point of treating each other with love. She would dress up for him when they went out and he would always tell her she was beautiful...............
I know another couple in their 70's who just got married this year and it's the same thing.
Sex may not always be the same as it was when we were younger or even possible at some ages but the red hot romance of love can be there at ANY age! | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 10/20/2007 9:01:28 PM | | I am 52 and although currently I am not in a relationship,I have never been hotter! I think aging is a good thing! My last relationship just ended but it was red hot while it lasted! | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 10/20/2007 9:10:16 PM | Hot??? ^^^^ you mean hot flashes!! jk jk
Romance after 50 is blowing kisses across the room, winking from a distance, even though you can't see who you're winking at! Romance after 50 is waking up and feeling a woody!....then you realize it's just your cane! | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 10/20/2007 11:44:05 PM | Do yourself and him a favor. Keep the friendship and forget the "relationship". If you settle for a life without love you will regret it. I for one am still hoping for the greatest love of my life. I refuse to settle once again for a loveless relationship. I'm better off the way I am . You know what they say, good things come to those that wait...and wait and wait. lol  | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 10/21/2007 3:00:18 AM | RDtoo asks: "Before I terminate this thing can anyone tell me if I am nuts to expect to find red hot romance at this age? "
* My personal experience is that red hot romance after 50 doesn't happen.
But red hot encounters sometimes do.
This is assuming that by romance, you mean a relationship with the potential for a long term relationship. Soul mate, etc. | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 10/21/2007 9:01:55 PM |
Before I terminate this thing can anyone tell me if I am nuts to expect to find red hot romance at this age? I mean the kind of thing that inspires you to write poetry or paint pictures, that sort of thing?
I wish that you would read what you wrote. If this person doesn't even make you feel romanctic or ANYTHING do not settle. I am 44 and romance and intimacy are soooo different from SEX. They are feelings of the heart/soul then your body. Sex it is just one part and the last part of the equasion. Find her she is out there. And if it is hot turn on the fan baby. | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 10/22/2007 7:52:38 AM | | I consider myself hot and I hope there are still some hot passionate men over 50..I hope..I hope..lordy,I hope we don't just run out of gas at this age.Get those motors running..y'all | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 10/22/2007 10:54:41 AM |
redheads rule maeflower
...And sometimes we instill fear in the hearts of men...I went out on a blind date many, many years ago and as soon as he spotted me he held out his arms as if making the sign of the cross....he said redheads were trouble.
...maeflowers | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 10/22/2007 12:40:57 PM | | Some of us older lads still go out looking for trouble, you red-headed gals! Mae was that before or after you bit him on the neck? Inquiring minds want to know! | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 10/22/2007 12:55:31 PM | Txbiker60 wrote:
"* My personal experience is that red hot romance after 50 doesn't happen.
But red hot encounters sometimes do. "
Have to wait awhile to build up again .....or just emotionally destitute?
This place is teeming with the likes of you, your only saving grace is that at least
you're up front about it in your profile...good for you. Cause after seeing the same
guys supposedly looking for a LTR still here and other places after 2 years...we finally
get the drift... 
I must be feeling cranky today   | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 10/22/2007 8:09:27 PM |
Some of us older lads still go out looking for trouble, you red-headed gals! Mae was that before or after you bit him on the neck? Inquiring minds want to know!
...Well, I couldn't get near him the smell of garlic was overpowering, besides he kept throwing water on me from this little vial he took out of his pocket....
...maeflowers | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 10/22/2007 11:57:05 PM | | Very much so.. I am 50 and I dont have any problems ..got full head of hair..Great shape (not from a Gym either) and I really enjoy my life..this seems to keep me hoppin and poppin.Its only going to be a Hot as you make it..So make it RED HOT! | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 10/23/2007 7:06:03 PM | ...If you want the hot romance, you've got to be prepared to stoke the fires. Look at sting and his wife Trudy...they practice tantric sex and and they claim they can carry on for hours.
...maeflowers | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 10/24/2007 2:39:12 AM | Man oh Man. I just turned fifty two and tonight I danced in high heels to the blues, feeling pretty dam good about myself.
Romance:? sure
Lovers? deffinately
Pumping hearts? Amoung other things.
Yes its possible, it happens every day, every moment at every opportunity that one reaches for it.
Get out there, smile and for gripes sake, stop talking about it, pondering about it and just go for it.
Okay, okay, I danced alone but had one heck of a good time anyway but ........tomorrow, it may be the horizontal swing instead of the blues for exercising. lol. too funny.......cardio is good regardless on how its achieved. | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 10/24/2007 3:19:29 PM | | It is possible and I know as I am 52 and I met my soulmate about a year ago we had an affair for 6 moinths. She is 36 and a single parent, don't ask me why it happened it just did. The passion was beyond belief and as an older man I tend to take my time and make sure that she was having a fantastic time.... her reply was WOW! Everytime we had sex it was a WOW moment (usually 3 for her). And yes I have the medical things going on...but I take my time and there is always Viagra. I also think it was the time we spent out of the bedroom that was high quality, lots of walks, talks and doing things we liked to do...that makes the red hot romance possible as you have to be conected on many levels...alas it had to end...she cannot be the other woman and so I respect that and moved on. But I am still searching for another soulmate. | |
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 10/24/2007 3:33:43 PM | Yes I think it is and I am over 60. I know I can feel the chemistry sometimes but haven't found the "one".
Energy levels are different, so are priorities, but I think we feel the same as we did as 20 and 30 year olds. So we just gotta work a little harder to keep the flame burning, but well worth it in my opinion. You haven't found the right girl yet!
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 10/26/2007 8:30:27 AM | Well I sure hope so! I am well over 50 and still looking for it! If someone proves to me that it doesnt exist...well they might as well throw dirt on me. There are a lot of folks over the age of 50 who are "just coming into their own" at that point in their life. Is it as "red hot" as it would have been in their 20's and 30's? ...maybe, maybe not...but it sure will be red-hot to THEM.
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| Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 10/26/2007 9:08:47 AM | Absolutely!!!! After 60 as well. Without going into detail, I can testify to that. I now believe it could happen again.
The journey continues.......
Skylit1 | |
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