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 HarleyKat~

Joined: 8/5/2005
Msg: 26
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/9/2007 7:15:39 PM
OP...are you obessed with anal sex? LOL I mean wow...two posts together, on the topic!

Hey...FYI...some people have anal sex because....**gasp**...they ENJOY IT. It has nothing to do with "that time of the month" or....whatever "feeling uninvaded" means!? (WHAT does that mean?!)

CONDOMS are a no brainer....nothing to do with pooh, smells, or anything other than contracting HIV or other STD's. Sheesh people...do you all reallllly think that the anus stays jam packed with pooh all day?! LOL Your pooh is in your bowels...and you are not bowel fvcking someone!
 salamander000

Joined: 10/26/2004
Msg: 27
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Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/9/2007 7:58:28 PM

Would you wipe your ass without toilet paper?

it's only idiots in north america or the 'new world' that even dare to 'wipe their arses with paper...most civilised countries wash their bums with water and soap,...a reccomended habit I condone everyone to use!

On topic? no, not safe anytime, anywhere don't you know anything?
 quirkyflirt

Joined: 8/12/2007
Msg: 28
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Posted: 10/9/2007 8:06:55 PM
STD's are more likely to be transferred during anal sex because the likelyhood of microtears is so much greater. There is a greater risk of body fluid getting under the other person's skin.

You are baby safe ONLY.

If you are at a point in a relationship with a woman where you have discussed your histories, taken a test, are exclusive, and are comfortable entering the vaginal canal unwrapped, then feel free to let Willy roam free. If you wouldn't dip it in the front though you are no safer in the back.

Outside STD's there are some cleanliness issues. I am not talking about poo ALL OVER, I am talking about the possiblity that poo you cannot see may enter your penis and cause infection. Not icky to the eyes...nasty to the unit. Remember-disease is microscopic, what your eyes see mean nothing. If you do feel safe and exclusive with a woman, when unwrapped it is advisable to clean the area (enema).

As a rule of thumb any moist dark hole is not a good place to stick your penis, unless you plan to wear a condom.
 smokemifyougottem

Joined: 4/15/2007
Msg: 29
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/9/2007 8:25:27 PM
Rule of thumb? thought that was a nineteen twenties thing about how thick a switch a man would need to keep his wife in line...I guess I could see how it applies here though..I've always had magic thumbs..
 OnAnIsland

Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 30
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/9/2007 8:35:38 PM
Hell no!!! You bleed easily like that!!!
 marcob

Joined: 10/4/2007
Msg: 31
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/9/2007 8:43:44 PM
lol, there are some seriously repressed and paranoid people on this site.


 sassynurse77

Joined: 4/22/2006
Msg: 32
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/9/2007 8:54:23 PM
no..no..no..and NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO no sex is safe without a condom.......
 Gunner57

Joined: 4/17/2007
Msg: 33
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/9/2007 9:10:29 PM
Is anal sex safe without a condom?


It all depends on the last time You and the individuals Darier
Your going to be exploring had blood work done and was tested.

very dumb question really ........how hard is it to take the time and put a dam condom on? I mean really???


it's only idiots in north america or the 'new world' that even dare to 'wipe their arses with paper...


cleanliness is next to godliness.
 Rys_

Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 34
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/9/2007 10:41:32 PM
I think he's talking about having it with is partner not a stranger.
If thats the case...then its perfectly safe. There is a small chance of you catching a minor infection but nothing that a pill or two wont cure.
Now...go have an analistic time!
 walkontheocean

Joined: 8/12/2006
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Posted: 10/9/2007 11:31:54 PM
RYS- You think that having anal sex is safe as long as it is with your partner??? That is interesting. So if you are in a relationship, you can't get STD'S!!!!! Sweet!!!!!
If you are having it with a partner....no worries.

"Now...go have an analistic time!"


Because partners never lie about their sexual history. Partners don't have to go with their mates to get tested.

It really concerns me that people are so trusting, that just because they are in a relationship, that they are safe. THINK AGAIN!
 Rys_

Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 36
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/9/2007 11:53:48 PM
walktheocean... by partner I meant to say someone he's been for a while and free of std's. I looked at it as if it was a married couple asking about unprotected anal sex.

Edit. - So when both people are free of std's? Is the OP safe to assume its all safe?
 FlexinNC

Joined: 7/6/2004
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Posted: 10/9/2007 11:56:45 PM
It depends on what you mean by safe. Is there a risk of pregnancy? No, absolutely not. Is there a risk of transmitting an STD. You betcha. Why do you think Aids is much more common among gay men, than it is among straight (men & women) or lesbian females. STD's can be transferred any time that bodily fluids are exchanged (blood or semen). It does not matter the receptacle for the transfer, just that the fluid passes from one to another.
 Beholder

Joined: 5/23/2007
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Posted: 10/10/2007 1:15:17 AM
The answer: no, it's not safe.

In terms of pregnancy, the chance is extremely low (but not impossible!), STDs the chance is just as high as any other orifice, and you're more likely to get a UTI or other unpleasantness.

Same reason you don't transfer, yknow... anything... anally -> vaginally, the bacteria makes your other bits unhappy.

So wrap it up, period.
 Rogue Passion

Joined: 5/19/2007
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Posted: 10/10/2007 2:50:24 AM
Read what quirkyflirt said, it's about the most intelligent thing in this ridiculous thread.

As far as getting an infection yourself, just wash and take a piss, and you will flush out most bacteria.

If you're doing it with a stranger, and you're trying to decide if it's more dangerous to go bareback in the front or the back, really it doesn't make enough of a difference to worry about--the risk is too high under any circumstance. Assuming your partner does have something, for you (the penetrator) it's not going to be as dangerous as for them (the penetratee). Due to microfissures forming in the anal cavity during penetration, it becomes easier to transfer infected body fluid to the person in question.

If you're doing it with a long-time, safe partner who doesn't sleep around on you (or you on them), follow the advice in the second sentence and you'll very rarely if ever have any negative effects. Just don't double dip (anus to vagina)...you may inadvertently pass a strain of e. coli. not native to the vagina into her urethra causing her to get a UTI (same thing if you don't take a piss right after anal sex, you might find yourself with a UTI).

Good luck, and happy bumfcuking!
 barbie1111

Joined: 5/22/2007
Msg: 40
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/10/2007 3:19:59 AM
lol no double dipping for sure hahahah stay clean
 lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005
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Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/10/2007 5:17:56 AM
Come on think about it!
If having anal sex was safe without condoms no gay male would have ever caught a sexually transmitted desease,but they have so im guessing you should be using condoms.
 faithisobelle

Joined: 6/22/2007
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Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/10/2007 9:59:24 AM
i HONESTLY cant believe people in this stage and age are STILL asking if (anykind of)sex is safe w/o a condom. is this dude for real???? dear god!
 twoshadows

Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 43
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/10/2007 11:37:18 AM
If you're in a relationship and you know each other's history then anal sex is perfectly safe without a condom. My gf and I do it all the time. Don't have vaginal sex immediately after and wash afterward with soap and water. If this is with someone you haven't known long then always use a condom for any kind of intercourse.
 lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005
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Posted: 10/10/2007 11:48:46 AM
These days even if you do know someone well its safer to still use condoms as so many people cheat.I was in a previous relationship for 5 years before my ex cheated for all i knew they had had unprotected sex and i didnt know her and thought i knew him.So still think its best to practice safe sex all the time.
 1UniquePerson

Joined: 1/1/2007
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Posted: 10/10/2007 12:16:12 PM
Also is it true that even with a condom you can still contract an STD with anal sex because the condoms are more likely to rip and tear during anal sex??
 twoshadows

Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 46
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/10/2007 12:20:51 PM
If you do it properly and use plenty of lubricant the condom should be fine. You can buy extra strong condoms if you're really worried. I've never had one tear,even the thinner ones.
 fishbill

Joined: 3/19/2005
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Posted: 10/10/2007 12:32:58 PM
"""Well, you know that specific orafice has an actual purpose and function. I can't imagine that any knowledgeable persons would 'recommend' doing that without a skin barrier, ie: condom. And, you gotta think. Do you really wish to place a very important piece of your body there, knowing what that spot does??? Please. Wear a condom."""

Well that oralface is about 1 inch from two the other body parts, what is it exactly you think is so unusual?....maybe if they were worlds apart or from a distant galaxy. speaking of space travel, I want to go where no man has gone before.!

Oceanwalker said: """RYS- You think that having anal sex is safe as long as it is with your partner???"""" Ok OK, just have it by yourself then! If you want to start with something small, get a warm buttery corn on the cob or something along those lines.
 heather_honey

Joined: 10/15/2006
Msg: 48
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/10/2007 12:41:05 PM
No glove? No love! No matter what end your sticking it in. It's as simple as that. Anything else is called taking a chance.

Sorry to be so crude but good god get real.
 weeks001

Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 49
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Posted: 10/10/2007 2:39:52 PM
Its alright to have anal sex but you have to be carefull not to get pregnant or your baby will be a crack baby.
 TOwoman1

Joined: 9/28/2007
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Posted: 10/10/2007 4:36:42 PM
If neither person has a Sexually Transmitted Infection (STI), there is no more danger having anal sex without a condom than having vaginal sex. The issue is, how can you know if a person has an STI? Lots of people don't know they have one because so many don't have signs and symptoms. For example, most people who have had sexual contact in their lives have had Human Papillomavirus at some point (and most people have cleared it). Say the person receiving anal sex from a man with a high-risk type of HPV (cancer causing) became infected. Anal cancers are caused, like cervical cancers, by high-risk HPV. The guy (inserting) would not know he had it and it would very likely not harm him. Cancer of the penis is rare.
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