marcob
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Joined: 10/4/2007
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| Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/22/2007 12:17:47 PM | I just REALLY hope that all of the self-righteous and overly opinionated people in this thread have any future dates read their posts here. There's an a$$load of very ugly people spouting off in here.
And for beelzebubs's sake, figure out how to use the quote system if you're going to try it.
Btw, the pooper is super.
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| Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/22/2007 12:22:28 PM | | Dear Marcob you have been the recipient of utilizing your anus for pleasure ..... I mean had a penis or dildo up it ???? really curious about this .. never heard a man say a damn thing about it or read anything on it at all..... although I did have a friend once whose husband loved anal more than vaginal so much he left her for a man.. hmmm | |
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| Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/22/2007 12:29:09 PM | | Ps marcob for all those who believe in fairy tales of pies in the sky... there is no god... guaranteed cause he ain't watching the plasma screen and doing anything remotely humane down here on planet exstinkshun..... leave god and mister hanky out of the equations willknot yah.... ???!!! | |
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marcob
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Joined: 10/4/2007
Msg: 104 | |
| Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/22/2007 12:34:30 PM | lol, did I mention god in my post? I didn't think I did?
Maybe a class in reading comprehension would benefit you?
Btw, if my girl likes it, and has no interest in putting anything in MY butt, then wtf are you going on about? What's good for YOU, isn't necessarily what's good for everyone else.
Deal with it.
(and if you had any reading comprehension, you'd have noticed earlier in the thread when I said I've tried it and it's not all that to me. I prefer the pu$$y. so neener, neener, neener) | |
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| Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/22/2007 12:49:43 PM | Nice one marcob ..... you show your true colors ...everything people say is a statement, men included ... and you deleted "god" to replace it with beezlebub... and to respect the integrity of your desire for adherence to comprehension and not wanton to malign your word soup alpha omega bit man,,,,, you mispelled vagina dialogues and called her a cat ...again... get over it ... are you "on" here to find more pu$$y or just some anus to go with the girl who has not interested in enter -detain-mints.... ? I am not going to pick apart your spills or spelling ... critical spirits are lousy lays..... frito or bandito and taco mah bells... don't worry I live in LOONey TOONey ville waiting for "You" people in the powerful world to dominate "us"....
Oh yah marcob I got a coupon for the local spa where the anal bleach does your gal pal need a tattoo of a happy slapper there too... or maybe some botox for the buttocks .. we are living in one sick f'in stew pot an I love to labia people.... | |
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| Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/22/2007 12:50:21 PM | In this day and age very little is safe with out a condom with someone who you can not 100% attest to their std conditions. There are other types of infection that can arive from introducing bacteria from the anus to either the vagina or penis however.
I know many men who are straight and enjoy strap-on/ rectal stimulation. It is not for everyone but it is good for some.There are or were many threads on this topic if you are willing to look for them. with any sexual act if you participate with a regular partner/partners on a 100 % committed level of intimacy IE. exclusively and you have each been tested then your chances of contracting a serious std is reduced greatly. As stated in many school run sex ed courses, abstinance is the only sure fire way to avoid STD ' s or unwanted pregnancy. For the rest of us we can choose to play either safely or not that is each individuals choice.
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| Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/22/2007 12:54:18 PM | Nice one marcob ..... you show your true colors ...everything people say is a statement, men included ... and you deleted "god" to replace it with beezlebub... and to respect the integrity of your desire for adherence to comprehension and not wanton to malign your word soup alpha omega bit man,,,,, you mispelled vagina dialogues and called her a cat ...again... get over it ... are you "on" here to find more pu$$y or just some anus to go with the girl who has not interested in enter -detain-mints.... ? I am not going to pick apart your spills or spelling ... critical spirits are lousy lays..... frito or bandito and taco mah bells... don't worry I live in LOONey TOONey ville waiting for "You" people in the powerful world to dominate "us"....
Oh yah marcob I got a coupon for the local spa where they do the pluck and primp of the anus for the male visual pleasure ... anal bleaching is a biggee and does your gal pal want a tattoo of a happy slapper there too... or maybe some botox for the buttocks .. we are living in one sick f'in stew pot an I love to labia people.... | |
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| Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/22/2007 1:06:21 PM | | Hey Little Whip you sound dangerously optimistic.... "exclusive relationships" so how is someone to be 100 percent certain of exclusivity ... bs is rampant on POF and out the door your assend does not hit on the way out your door and some long term sentences of bliss can also be a surprise later in life so don't feed everyone fairy tales .... abstinence is not necessary , every sexual mature adult should have a great sex life with or without a partner . We , each individual is their own best sex partner first and there is no need for anyone not to know their own bodies and really no need to allow one's self especially a hetero woman to get abused just because a man desires anal sex and a woman does not appreciate it butt allows it to please her partner ..this happens and you know it ... ... anyway great sex is cerebral not genital and few very very few have that kind of orgastic without genital shove love .... rare on this planet of humans anyway..... How do you like my run on sentences ... gotta chug ... | |
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| Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/22/2007 3:21:28 PM | Let the dawgs out...are you so insecure and devoid of character and sensitivity that you need to pick apart people's attributes or bodies or sexual preferences? (besides the fact that you can't read or spell).
The fact that my figure is a result of a cancer scare makes me a very happy woman...happy to be alive and enjoying life to the fullest and it's certainly not an esteem issue (now there is the pot calling the kettle black!). I am doing something about my physical health, but I"m sorry to say there is nothing you can do about your inner or outer beauty.
All you have done for this thread is really show how undesireable a person you are as a writer/contributor, friend, lover, associate or whatever. You lack social skills as well as an open mind for accepting others differences. You jump to conclusions and insult everyone who is supportive of anal sex.
Further to that, you are grossly misinformed about many things to do with sex and a google search would show you what many of these people are talking about in terms of their enjoyment or knowledge of it.
It's time you just shut your big mouth and left things alone...unless you have something intelligent to add. Your constant slams are why message threads get deleted or people get turned off when it comes to contributing their thoughts or opinions. People shouldn't have to be concerned about posting an opinion that is contrary...they should feel it's okay and less than intelligent people such as yourself aren't going to name-call or put them down. How high school is that?
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| Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/22/2007 9:49:48 PM | Dear Blacat ... pick apart peoples bodies ... are you that insecure that you don't realize your own obesity is killing you. Your figure is not a result of cancer that is a definite statement of someone in serious denial. Cancer has nothing to do with this and if you tried some major adjustments in your diet and physical fitness every day you would see a huge ( no pun) change in your body. Seriously the best sex is great circulation and fit muscular body parts. You learn where everything in your body is on a brain and body connection that is awesome . This information will help you better understand the body and orgasms as well. The brain under very good circulation has optimal experiences from orgasm. Good blood circulation is only achieved through physicality it makes healthy sex, both with attitude and orgasm. My suggestion to someone who implies that I am immensely insensitive and insecure and supposedly inordinately narrow minded and apparently anti-social is to get your body in the best possible physical condition for you and then come back here and tell me your opinions as I am quite positive that you will also no longer think the way you do... wanna know why ... cause five years ago I was YOU....
Your final words to me
"People shouldn't have to be concerned about posting an opinion that is contrary...they should feel it's okay and less than intelligent people such as yourself aren't going to name-call or put them down. How high school is that?"
Yah , well I vehemently disagree with you their, people should be concerned about their opinions. You should be able to feel good about where you stand on an opinion even if mine does not happen to be yours. Is telling me a put down or a put up and shut up ... or am I just oldhighschool... ??
Why is it that alot of very superioritist attitudes always go haywire on spelling here, are they just unhappy that they never became copy editors or do they just want to put down colorfully written opinions that they don't appreciate festering in their thrones ? Not trying to put the weaker sex down here but it is predominantly a female criticism on fish, guys do less micro- critiques on comments written here. Why is that? Put themselves up so as to put someone down... YUP ... HELP someone send me a condom for my****d-shun-canary .. would be nice if a more creative use of our language was exercised as well, makes for more interesting reading ... spills over everywhere.... oh yah...
Maybe you should complain to the mods that all comments on here should be checked for both your viewing and spelling satisfaction, would that end your long winded excuse to get your butt in shape and then tell me how to whistle blow oral or anally....
Read the book "No Excuses" and also I have scads of material to recommend to you to read on metabolism and cancer..... but you are psychologically nowhere near close to ready to get your act together ... there is a point of readiness and when you are there gimme an email. Nothing I like better than someone who wants to lift the clouds of misinformation through hands on visceral just " DOING IT" .
PS.... Blacat .. you mispelled undesirable. Just an observation from the ugly POF blow hard wanna be ... wombman. | |
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Posted: 10/22/2007 10:24:43 PM | For those of you following the dawg's most silly tirade..and wondering what is going thru her tiresome, sad, dysfunctional, bitter mind....let me give you a quick insight...my life coach (and intimate friend) just pissed herself when I showed her this message thread and said 'she' is a disgrace to anyone calling themselves a fitness trainer and spouting off like they know it all including the ravages of steroids, other drugs and surgeries! a true life leader doesn't have a need to belittle people...they build them up, not try to tear them down! but then again, one has to wonder how pathetic her life is...when she spends so many hours on this site!
and then we both said 'amen' and let's hope she finds another thread to hijack and drive everyone batty there! the old expression 'walk a mile in my moccassins' comes to mind...but then again, if you go and read her many, many message contributions...you get a strong sense of an unwell woman, who no matter what she does for fitness has not helped with her mental and emotional state.
It's been good for a laugh though! hopefully not everyone reading this thread will lump all Canadian women in the same black cauldron as she comes from!
tee hee! ta ta for now! gotta go and shed off the vestiges of my day and journal about how thankful I am to be ME! Life is good!
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| Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/22/2007 10:29:52 PM | Dawg person....check out the Urban dictionary
undesireable
a noun form of the adjective indicating someone or something that is unwanted. An undesireable is usually a foul creature that is detested by society.
Made me think of you and this message thread!
and by the way, you're Canadian and in Canada, we spell colourful with a U.
Now go bark up another tree and let it go -
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| Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/22/2007 10:43:05 PM | | Actually blacat I wish you would start a thread on anal sex safety for heterosexual men who like being the recipient of big strap on dildoes ,,,,, cause if you think my comments are insultingly amusing you would indeed get a big brain burning eye opener from what you would perceive to be narrow minded men of course... unless they contacted you and then you would purr like the chamelion you are.... women who need to wear their sex on their sleeves are insecure,and are a huge turn off to a man looking for a decent relationship with another person that respects themselves .... your pictures are easy to read..... develop your mind and gain some self respect... | |
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Posted: 10/22/2007 11:04:59 PM | | and PS miss Blacat control freak do not tell me or anyone else what or what not to add or delete here you need to take a look inside and realize the only person you need to control is yourself so do not tell me or anyone else what, when, why and how ... you sound very much like a POF bully to me ..... with your terrorist threats and your need to make sure I add no further comments. Even though I may not agree with you, I am a devote believer in freedom of speech and the written word and anyone who plays suppressor needs to get off their high horse and wallow with the rest of the human race. You have no right to tell me or anyone else here to leave a thread,you have a very scary mind...... butt I am allowing you to stay OKAY . is that not just control freak on Jiffy whip for you and a marshmallow too .... and do me a favor .. don't let the doorknob stick you on your way out or you might naughtie kneed a guy ...wired????? Gettin off yet .... | |
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| Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/23/2007 3:50:47 PM | strap-on dildo (straight from wikepedia...a source more folk should refer to):
A 2-strap harness with a multi-function dildo and an internal vibrating eggA strap-on dildo (also strap-on, dildo harness) is a dildo designed to be worn (usually in a harness) by one partner and used to penetrate another partner vaginally, anally or orally, used by both heterosexual and homosexual couples.
For a woman, a strap-on can be used to anally penetrate a man (pegging), for vaginal or anal lesbian intercourse, or for artificial fellatio.
For a man, a strap-on can be worn for penetrative sex, and may be used in cases of erectile dysfunction, for double penetration, or to penetrate multiple partners. A wide variety of harnesses and dildos are available, with different ways of fitting the wearer, attaching the dildos, stimulating the wearer or the receiver, and all with different features, advantages, and drawbacks for both users.
Pleasure for the wearer of the strap-on generally comes from pressure against the genitals, particularly the clitoris, during use and from psychological arousal. Many designs of strap-on have various fetures to increase the stimulation of the wearer.
Pegging- Pegging is when a woman uses a strap-on dildo to penetrate her partner anally, usually a man. While this practice is not commonly mentioned due to the various taboos many cultures have against receptive male anal sex, and statistics are hard to come by, many people believe it is the most common use of strap-ons, and often manufacturers use images of a woman with a strapon and a male on the advertising or packaging for strap-on dildos and harnesses.
Pegging can be done for a variety of reasons, but probably the most common is that it allows a heterosexual male to receive anal pleasure. Both partners may enjoy pegging, and many men have an anal orgasm from it. Many people, such as advice columnist Dan Savage, believe all men should try pegging at least once, as it may introduce them to a new enjoyable sexual activity.
When pegging, even more than for other forms of anal sex, proper selection and quantity of lube is extremely important. Many dildos do not "hold" lube as well as a penis would, and a thicker or better adhering lube will likely perform much better.
A number of how-to videos about pegging have been made, for couples interested in trying it but not sure where to start, however most people feel a few minutes of experimenting to be plenty to learn the basic "ins and outs" of pegging.
Due to the often taboo nature of strap-on activities, information on their history is hard to find. An 1899 report by Haberlandt documented current and historical use of double-ended dildos in Zanzibar, and is one of the few historical documents of this kind. Female-female dildo usage in ancient China has been documented, but it is not clear if this was double-dildos, strap-on dildos, or just a simple dildo being used by one woman on another. | |
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| Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/23/2007 4:18:18 PM | | Very informative everyone, especially Cat... Well everyone just be as safe as you can... the OP questioned if it is safe and the answer to the question is from what? Pregnancy or STD'S. Unprotected anal sex has a higher risk of STD's including AIDS so no-matter what you like be safe...and yes lubrication is very important to protect from cuts... and cuts create more of a risk to catch an STD so if you refuse to wear a condom at least use lube. Always tell your partner the truth | |
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| Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/23/2007 5:11:55 PM | In avoiding the bickering and .....Cat Fight ... so to speak.
to the OP ...... It really depends on how well you know your partner.
How long have you been together .... are you exclusive sexually ?
Have you both been to a proctologist lately? are there any soars etc.
Safe ... has so many connotations .... as said before ... safe from what?
If you are Christian ... and many other religions too .. it is banned [for good reason]
There are many many bacteria in there .... and its easy to tear small hemeroids and cause blood
when there is blood ... there is great danger of infection ....
If you care for your partner then you will reconsider even using a condom.
In many states .... it is illegal ... even for married people.
now back to other issues.
It depends on the size of what you want to insert and how gentle you are.
remember ... your doctor always used a gloved finger.
And if you must .... thoroughly wash .... inside and out.
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Ice-ey
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Joined: 10/19/2007
Msg: 123 | |
| Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 10/23/2007 5:20:47 PM | | Anal sex is the most dangerous type of sex to have without protection over vaginal and oral. This is because Anal sex causes micro-tears and abrasions in the rectal area, causing infection to spread much easier. Remember that it was not intended to have objects rammed into that orifice! Not like anyone is bashing anal here, but it is definitely very high risk, above all others, and that is scientifically proven fact. | |
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Posted: 10/23/2007 6:23:18 PM | From the British Medical Joural - ABC's of Sexual Health
Facts and figures
Two thirds of gay men have anal sex
Ten per cent of heterosexual couples regularly have anal sex
The estimate that 6% of the male population are gay may be an underestimate
Piles and anal fissures are no more common in gay men than in the general population
About a third of heterosexual couples in Britain are thought to use anal sex as an occasional method of sexual expression, with about 10% using it as a preferred or regular method.2 Perhaps two thirds of gay men practise anal sex as a regular part of their sexual repertoire. This means that, in absolute numbers, there are more heterosexuals having anal sex than there are gay men. There are little published data on how many heterosexual men would like their anus to be sexually stimulated in a heterosexual relationship. Anecdotally, it is a substantial number. What data we do have almost all relate to penetrative sexual acts, and the superficial contact of the anal ring with fingers or the tongue is even less well documented but may be assumed to be a common sexual activity for men of all sexual orientations.
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