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 wizardofossington

Joined: 6/17/2007
Msg: 176
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Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 11/27/2007 2:24:13 AM
Anal sex is considered one of the highest risk behavior for transmitting HIV and this is a fact.
 FoxyBigRed

Joined: 11/26/2007
Msg: 177
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Posted: 11/30/2007 2:18:15 PM
Anal sex is never safe.
Because the anus has a very thin coat of mucus, much thinner then the female vagina, the anal lining tares easily and can later turn into an anal absess once fecies (poop) gets into the tare.
 Harry Peter

Joined: 12/25/2006
Msg: 178
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 11/30/2007 2:22:20 PM
Try the mouth instead. Or a hand job. Hell, hump an armpit, that smells better and is safer.
 TOwoman1

Joined: 9/28/2007
Msg: 179
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Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 11/30/2007 3:13:54 PM
The anus, like the vagina and mouth, is lined with a mucous membrane, not mucus. It does not lubricate like the vagina, so yes, it can tear more easily. That is why it is important to learn how to relax the muscles inside, start with something small rather than an erect penis, have ongoing communication to ensure there is no pain and use lots of lube.
 Cunning_linguist

Joined: 10/19/2007
Msg: 180
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Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 12/1/2007 2:14:22 AM
Only if you wear knee pads, carpet burn are a bugger (oooh a pun)
 Zentimes

Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 181
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Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 12/1/2007 5:41:01 AM
BUYACIRCLE
Why don’t GOOGLE & seek out sound medical literature that informs you on "Infection and AIDS" from valid "medical sites" instead of a "POF Forum".

This is not something you should not take seriously. If you are truly uninformed about this issue then Educate yourself to find out the data on anal intercourse without a condom (Male or Female).

How could anyone in this day and age not be aware of where to obtain "THE FACTS ABOUT HIV"! Its not a joke ~

Good Lord, do your partner as well as yourself a favor ~ EDUCATE YOURSELF ABOUT THE REALITY OF AIDS !
 ExplosiveSheep

Joined: 9/22/2007
Msg: 182
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Posted: 12/1/2007 6:07:08 AM
I'm just gonna point out that 1 of you guys have gotta have HIV first to transmit it, half these posts make it sound like anal sex without a condom somehow creates aids, like the friction conjures up the HIV virus and gives it to all parties involved.

The only trick is you can never really be 100% sure someone don't have it, blood tests can be mucked up, people can lie about infidelity, hell you can get HIV from blood transfusions because at least in Canada, so many HIV positive people give blood and it's so poorly tested that they slip through.

Anyway even if you're sure you're both clean, there's still the bacteria in there. I'd still say the reason Anal is so much more "dangerous" is because people don't think to wear a contraception when they're workin it in a way that can't get someone pregnant. There's a reason it's called birth control and not disease protection, guess that's just how it's meant to work.
 Dr S J K

Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 183
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 12/1/2007 7:39:51 AM
I been boinking women up the arse all my life with no condom...I am still alive!
 TOwoman1

Joined: 9/28/2007
Msg: 184
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Posted: 12/1/2007 12:02:02 PM
The blood system in Canada is very well tested. The current risk is about one in 250,000. People got HIV before November 1985, when they began to systematically test for it.
 bicuriousboi2005

Joined: 5/2/2007
Msg: 185
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 1/5/2008 11:40:24 AM
No never! I am bi, and i don't even go there with men..Or do i let them suck me or me suck them either..I love for them to cum on my shaved hard abs, love the feel of warm cum.. But i like my strap on done with a condom inside my ass only! Cause its very safe that way. But no real****....
 hardclimber

Joined: 12/24/2007
Msg: 186
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 1/5/2008 3:32:27 PM
Always use a condom.
 regalrose

Joined: 8/28/2007
Msg: 187
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Posted: 1/5/2008 4:39:41 PM
"The American Education System has failed another one."

Oh, you are in your late 20's....another poster, who looked rather young made a statement about being sad that someone asked this question as well. Why? Did it not occur to you that the person was serious, or that maybe they were raised in a time (as I was) where 'the American Education System' as you put it did not teach such things? I am aware that many( if not all) schools now teach sex education rather than leaving it to parents to do, but when I was growing up, there was no such thing in our schools. That happened alot in little backwoods towns, so please people....don't assume someone is stupid just because they may not be as informed as you are. Just kindly inform them since they had the courage to ask in the first place.
 Lick it Up

Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 188
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 1/5/2008 5:41:30 PM

I am asking because most anal intercourse is performed without a condom.


And all chicks love to have men cum on their face too....

Stop watching porn!



 OhBuggerThis

Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 189
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Posted: 1/5/2008 5:55:31 PM
as long as your wearing a full suit of armour with a level 05 hazmat suit over the top you should be ok... as long as its simulated on a computer first mind...
 want2playwitme

Joined: 4/29/2008
Msg: 190
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 5/8/2008 5:54:57 AM
NO
NOO
NOOO
Use a condom always when having anal sex,
With a new sexual partner it is unsafe to have unprotected sex and with
your life long partner it is messy not to have a condom on.

CONDOM on when u r in the BUM
do not forget!!!
 custis

Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 191
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 5/8/2008 7:00:08 AM
Safe or not, I am not doing it without a condom.
 bayouboy0410

Joined: 11/4/2006
Msg: 192
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Posted: 12/27/2008 6:31:24 AM
Actually.... it doesn't matter.... The Anal cavitity of the body is the most sterile part of your body.... A person is more likely to contract a a disease from the virgina than the anus.... However.... do what pleasures both partners....
 TOwoman1

Joined: 9/28/2007
Msg: 193
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Posted: 12/27/2008 4:59:15 PM
Re: [The Anal cavitity of the body is the most sterile part of your body] I don't know where you got such a notion. Even rimming carries potential risk if the guy being rimmed has hep A or parasites. In terms of STIs, anything you can get from an infected vagina through unprotected sex you can certainly get from the anus and anal area including herpes, HPV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis and HIV. Shall I go on?
 LonestarStar

Joined: 12/14/2008
Msg: 194
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Posted: 12/27/2008 5:20:59 PM

Actually.... it doesn't matter.... The Anal cavitity of the body is the most sterile part of your body.... A person is more likely to contract a a disease from the virgina than the anus.... However.... do what pleasures both partners....


Idiots giving idiots health advice...
And we wonder why STI's are so prevalent nowadays.

Hey moron! There are plenty of forums where you can flaunt how uneducated you are WITHOUT putting someone's life at risk!
The anal cavity is one of the most bacteria laden areas of the body. Go stick your tongue in one and wiggle it around for a while.
 mick2521

Joined: 3/9/2008
Msg: 195
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Posted: 12/27/2008 5:25:33 PM
If both partners are healthy, then anal sex is completely OK. You don't need a condom and you won't catch a venereal disease. It could be male-female or male-male.
 jcool2

Joined: 12/28/2007
Msg: 196
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Posted: 12/27/2008 5:35:46 PM
All the above post our correct! It is NOT safer! I had a friend who use to be a HIV/AIDS instructor for the red cross and he got that question all the time!
 dickwaad

Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 197
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 12/27/2008 5:55:16 PM
It's just as safe as sex with a vagina, as long as you're not talking about gay men.
 widowedmom

Joined: 7/4/2008
Msg: 198
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 12/27/2008 6:10:23 PM

The Anal cavitity of the body is the most sterile part of your body.... A person is more likely to contract a a disease from the virgina than the anus....


Excuse me but where did you attend medical school. I think they need to have their credentials pulled. Might I ask which state you hold a medical license for I think they need to investigate the fact that you are giving out very dangerous medical advice.

The absolute worst case of pelvic inflammatory disease I saw in my life was from a young women whose husband convinced her to try anal sex. She ended up in the hospital on iv antibiotics. Any woman who engages in anal sex without a condom is looking for trouble.

If a man is uncircumcised he would equally be out of his mind to try this. It is difficult enough for a man with a foreskin to keep his member clean without introducing it to the bacteria in the anal canal/rectum.

Even if a man promises he will not follow up with vaginal intercourse without washing, a lady would be out of her mind to trust a man in this setting. Passion gets in the way of the best of intentions. Think about how many babies were conceived by the rhythm method of conception.

This is just one educated opinion.
 mick2521

Joined: 3/9/2008
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Posted: 12/27/2008 6:17:25 PM
Lima,

LOL. So a woman's anus is somehow safer? LOL. Homophobia, perhaps?
 mick2521

Joined: 3/9/2008
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Posted: 12/27/2008 6:22:03 PM
When I said there was no risk of VD, I was basing it on the logic that if both partners are healthy, then there is no risk. I stand by that.

However, it is true that anal sex can produce tearing of the lining and self-infection through the contents of the intestine. This is something that everybody should consider. It's like cutting your finger and then putting it in mud. The risk of catching a coventional infection increases markedly.
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