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 hiddentreasur2003

Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 101
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Posted: 11/19/2007 6:17:18 PM
They can email it, but will get a nasty letter back and blocked from bothering me again. I guess I am to blame because of my pictures. But if I just wanted to get laid, I could have went to a bar and not even came on this site
 mangos-at-midnite

Joined: 10/18/2007
Msg: 102
men asking for sex with there opening email
Posted: 11/19/2007 7:17:01 PM
I got a message saying "fuk me" thats all..
then a few minutes later......"well?"


I have also had "spank me"

I got way more of this when I had "other relationship" down because my definition and many mens' were different.. and if they saw I was on -line and had not read my profile many assumed I jsut wanted a quickie or whatever...or cam..
When they are that quick to pounce niether person's time is wasted....
ahahahah

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 merry0709

Joined: 8/13/2007
Msg: 103
men asking for sex with there opening email
Posted: 11/20/2007 12:18:18 PM
I will get them maybe about once a week, because I don`t post my pic. They usually sound like form letters, so I guess they are just sending them out to all the women in their area expecting a hit. The one guy sent me the same form letter 2 days in a row becuase I didn`t respond to the first one. I told him to go to a sex sight or hire a prostitute and not bother me again. Some guys try to slither in a little more discreetly and it takes a few times to figure out that they are pervs. One asked if I had a web cam. I think rather than actually meeting anyone, I usually envision them probably looking at pictures of women and taking care of themselves. That is what some of them want anways I think. My red flag goes up when alot younger guys want to meet me. I guess they think it might be easier because I am desperate or something.
 greeneyedokiegirl

Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 104
men asking for sex with there opening email
Posted: 11/20/2007 12:31:04 PM
The email that made me laugh the most was...."Want 14 inches of love?" NOT SO MUCH!!! lol
 merry0709

Joined: 8/13/2007
Msg: 105
men asking for sex with there opening email
Posted: 11/20/2007 12:31:42 PM
Alot of guys too, do it for kicks, and know they can get away with it. If they do obscene phone calls, they can be tracked and get in trouble. This is a dating sight and if you put yourself out there, no one will listen to the complants .People figured"well, you asked for it" Some men get off on talking dirty to total strangers and getting away with it.
They use it as a form of sex and are using your profile as the stimulus. Think about that EWWWWWWW!!!!!!!
 greeneyedokiegirl

Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 106
men asking for sex with there opening email
Posted: 11/20/2007 12:32:46 PM
hiddentreasure2003... um... you should expect emails from the pervs with pics like that on your profile... I agree u should be able to wear whatever you want... but with those pics it looks like you want sex... JMO
 WannaMakeYouSmile

Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 107
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Posted: 11/20/2007 3:32:49 PM
I bet that any guy who sends an opening email or IM asking for sex would back off shaking if a woman actually said "Sure! How about tonight?"
 whirlybird3

Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 108
men asking for sex with there opening email
Posted: 11/20/2007 3:39:42 PM
^ even more so if she added in a time and place.

OT: I was talking with a woman on here and we had gotten onto this subject. She told me that she got an e-mail from a guy asking if she liked anal. I told her that she should have replied and said, "Yes, but only giving. So bend over and take it like a man."
 stephaniezowie

Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 109
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Posted: 11/20/2007 3:54:43 PM
i am honest and i will tell u tony that yes that has happened w/ me once on here before.
 hiddentreasur2003

Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 110
men asking for sex with there opening email
Posted: 11/22/2007 7:40:18 AM
dear greeney. Of course I am looking for sex. What red blooded woman wouldn't be? But I want the whole package. Love and Commitmet. If I can't have that, I don't want it all. That is why I listed long term relationship. I am too old for one night stands. I never did it when I was younger, why should I start now?Besides, now a days its too deadly to do one night stands. I admit, I have very few left hidden treasures p.s. my store I owned was called hidden treasures and noveltee's. Cheyl
 peaches2008

Joined: 10/30/2007
Msg: 111
men asking for sex with there opening email
Posted: 11/22/2007 8:09:50 AM
i think the cherry topper for this year would be when this guy im'd me on here an the first words out of his mouth was."WOW you look like you can take a C O C K.i at first was like did he just say what i think he did? holy s h i t he's a dumbass..so i messaged back saying go away goodbye this converstaion is over..well he messaged back sayin: what? you don't like c o c k i have 9inches.. i says gawd your a dumbass..but he didnt't give up there 2 days later he messged me agian saying hey i gotta 9 inch c o c k here for you what's up??

 fishbill

Joined: 3/19/2005
Msg: 112
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Posted: 11/22/2007 8:31:35 AM
"""I got a message saying "fuk me" thats all.. then a few minutes later......"well?""" Well you didn' t answer me the first time, so I presumed you were getin all sexxied up for me. I apologize if you weren't reading it over and over again, I send that bulk email to all women, just like spam for the FREE $500 GIFT CARD.
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OP said: """Ive talked to a lot of really cool chicks on this site who are shocked I never bing up sex. They tell me guys right out the gate email or instant message them and ask for sex. ""


Would you please post this or your experience in the threads about "are all men looking for sex". We have a few users who are ignorant, AND THEY ARE MALES, as to they why or how of mens imperious sex urges...compared to a womans desire to be "friends first" or "get to trust you".
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And this is probably THE TRUEST POST OF ALL: """Alot of guys too, do it for kicks, and know they can get away with it""". And if they really want to get laid, after a few months on the net will change it to...."Hi, I looked at your profile and I am interested"
 Kittycracker

Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 113
men asking for sex with there opening email
Posted: 11/29/2007 10:52:52 AM
Every one should always refer those guys to a web site called Adult--Friend---Finder--LOL
 1SweetSarah

Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 114
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Posted: 11/29/2007 11:14:23 AM
Hmm how about:
"your place or mine"
"you can have me if you want me"
"what are your measurments"
"bra size?"
"u make my****throb"
"lets hook up"
"Is your **** wet?"
"Whats your fav position?"

And the list goes ON AND ON AND ON...
NOW, my profile does say that I am looking for an FWB...however, it does not say that I'm looking for a rude moron.
If a guy mentions sex in an inappropriate manner and makes me uncomfortable, I delete him and that's it. I have no use for that kind of person.
 CA_Babydolly

Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 115
men asking for sex with there opening email
Posted: 11/29/2007 11:35:56 AM
"your cute...wanna suck my d*ck" ive had that email so many times, its not even funny anymore and it tends to aggrivate me when people send me those, i thought i would get away from that on the website but i guess not.
 passionandsong

Joined: 10/9/2007
Msg: 116
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Posted: 11/29/2007 11:43:30 AM
the thing that gets me is.do these guys really think women would take the time to go online set up a profile and so on to get laid?i am pretty sure ladys can find a much easier setting for that sort of thing.i really dont get what goes through thier heads,but i am sorry you have to deal with it.i will tell you this,i once had the first thing a girl ask me on IM be"how much do you make".lol blew me away.
 MJ_Reaper

Joined: 11/26/2007
Msg: 117
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Posted: 11/30/2007 1:44:43 PM
If anything a man asking for sex right off the back is the biggest turn-off for me.
 David Lewis

Joined: 11/18/2007
Msg: 118
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Posted: 12/1/2007 4:41:56 PM
Paradoxically, women who display exceptionally sexy personalities receive the fewest crude sexual responses, and women who appear to have repulsive personalities get the most, all other things equal.

faour wrote: I get tons of messages, and almost 100% of them are very respectful. No one has ever sent me a sexual opening email, or even a sexual 5th email. I wonder why this happens to some women, and not others. Any theories on this?
 enCielo

Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 119
men asking for sex with there opening email
Posted: 12/1/2007 5:24:08 PM
I created a fake chick account on another site once and the responses i got were a real eye opener!
 David Lewis

Joined: 11/18/2007
Msg: 120
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Posted: 12/1/2007 10:03:52 PM
OK, but if a man approaches in such a way that virtually guarantees he will NOT breed, then he's acting like an incompetent, clueless idiot -- and I don't know too many desirable women who want to breed with unskilled morons.

dilf1970 wrote: Ladies, understand, ALL MEN WANT TO BREED!!!
 Niceguy1959J

Joined: 12/5/2006
Msg: 121
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Posted: 12/2/2007 4:26:03 AM
Well chivalry is not dead! But it gets one no where! In the begining of being on here (I had no photo then yet) I made it a point to answer all letters and not just with one liners either, made sure never to write anything sexual. In fact you can send all my letters to your mother with no problems they were that squeeky clean. But here is the interesting thing I found. I have written to some ladies more then one hundred letters they have replied promptly to each of course, we had a good enjoyable conversation yet it lead to nowhere! The idea that you get to know someone here by writting letters just does not work in my experience it leads to a dead end. So can you blaim man for comming out in first sentence and tell you what they are after? I can't! That is how you do it takes a few minutes if the lady is not interested no problem go ask next this way one can ask a hundred in an hour and one will go for it for sure))) No time wasted and one gets what one wants it is honest so nothing wrong with it in my view. Now I just have to learn how to do it.))))
 Niceguy1959J

Joined: 12/5/2006
Msg: 122
men asking for sex with there opening email
Posted: 12/2/2007 4:30:52 AM
Short aswer is yes! Ladies want sex just like guys and why wouldn't they? That is great isn't it?
 thenaughty1

Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 123
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Posted: 12/2/2007 5:33:50 AM
when men come on and say that. Its the picture or there just a sex feen but they are telling you like it is. All you have to do is deleted the message. And go on. I dont have that problem even with my profile name. So it must be just the sex feens. But there was an answer to tell them when and where. I probably would had said that. Then they would have moved on.
 moneyreel

Joined: 1/1/2008
Msg: 124
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Posted: 1/6/2008 3:40:36 PM
I am assuming you mean WOMEN.

Don't try out for "Are you smater than a 5th grader!".
 fancynanci

Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 125
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Posted: 1/6/2008 3:45:29 PM
Men ask for sex in real life, on here. I think it's funny. I need time to get to know someone.
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