| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 1/27/2008 11:22:21 AM | ^^^^^
I watch a lot of westerns and old movie classics, WhoisSue...  | |
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 1/27/2008 3:45:47 PM | LOL!!! Ya must have been a cowboy in another lifetime!
Also...I should tell you...on a whim I looked up "sue" in the dictionary(dont' ask me why)...do you know that one of the meanings is..."to court and woo"???!!! | |
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 1/27/2008 4:06:00 PM | Where do you get your info from? What woman would think about accepting a marriage proposal on a first date? If a man proposed marriage to me on a first date I would run like hell!! That's creepy.
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Personal experience mostly.
Girls like you, who have rejected a first date mariage proposal, for your precise reasons.
And have beeen berated by family and freinds for it for the next six months. | |
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 1/27/2008 4:21:47 PM | It depends on the lady and the situation. Have done this a few times, but generally speaking it was a situation where once the lady was traveling and met me at a bar, and she was horny. Then there was a lady who had not had sex in a year, and it was the right time and the right mood for me.
Did I feel any lessor of the ladies, no. I look at the situation only. Genrally I would give the advise to wait and get to know the person, why. Let's face it there is too much "stuff going around" and "there is always the gift that keeps giving." | |
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 1/30/2008 6:29:08 PM | | Nothing wrong of having sex on the first date,I did and both of us we were so happ and we are in a strong love for 5 years now,so it does nt matter it depends on the couple feelings for eachother.there is no rule of it but most of women think if the man will have it on first date he is going to leave her and it is finish by then,they are mixing the good guys they mean love ith some body meant just lust and hit and run,open your eyes and look if it is true or not.And whoever want to leave after having it will leave even if he will have after the 10th date. | |
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 1/31/2008 3:47:44 AM |  No I would not have sex on the first date because I have more espect for myself. | |
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 1/31/2008 4:13:26 AM | | I have before so that's your answer. Although, I must admit that as I have gotten older, it seems I take much more in on a date than when I was younger. Stretching out the seduction process adds more excitement than it used to. I guess what I am trying to say is that just being in her company is exciting and enjoyable. I'm more concerned with that first kiss than sex on a first date. It's not a matter of respect because I don't see anything wrong with a woman that does want sex right away. | |
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 1/31/2008 10:15:22 PM | mushortgurl03....
So what did that say about him? Obviously he was there as a willing participant, he therefore had no respect for himself either. You are much better off without this archaric loser! | |
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 3/16/2008 4:21:56 AM | I have to agree with Maine..
It's happened twice on first dates, it's good and everything but long term will generally not happen if that is what you're looking for. It's hard to imagine you're the first..
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 3/16/2008 5:05:56 AM | | i like sex on my dates but always too dunk so i wake up da morning after n give it to her shes well pleased cn me already ready hard | |
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 3/16/2008 6:17:07 AM | If its meant to be and you both want it.. why not your both adults..
As long as if one dose say no.it goes no further | |
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 3/16/2008 6:55:06 AM | | Nope, not a good idea really unless it's someone you already known for a long time before gettin involved in dating. If he/she is someone new to you and you barely knew them I get to know more of them first. An old friend if you had feelings for them they felt the same way might be different but still I wouldn't on the first date. | |
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 3/16/2008 10:14:57 AM | Let's see, a first date, I've known this guy maybe two to four hours. I know what he's told me about himself but haven't had enough conversation or contact to determine if every word he's said is a lie or even if he's man enough to keep the condom on or a sniveling s.o.b. who'll try to get it past me without it..........
....nah, takes a bit more than a beer and some nachos to gain the necessary credibility. | |
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 5/9/2008 8:22:03 AM | I think sex on the first date would be okay as long as you were both adult enough to handle that! | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 8:27:43 AM | Sure! why not?.....Sex is a physical gratification between 2 people (or if you Mastu*bate) 1 person, nothing wrong with it as long as it's consensual sex....2 adults, 2gether ...let's get busy baby!
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Posted: 5/9/2008 9:18:06 AM | | No; I have self control and I'm not going to screw a person I dont know. | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 9:31:32 AM | Someone mentioned morals. I don't think this is a moral issue. I don't think sex is immoral and I don't think having sex on the first date is immoral. But is it a good idea? I don't think so. As someone else mentioned, if you have sex too soon, you're putting the cart before the horse, at least if you're looking for a long-term relationship. If you're really interested in someone and you're hoping to develop a long-term relationship with them, I think the smartest move--and the healthiest for the relationship--is to really get to know one another and develop some of the other foundations before you have sex.
Think of it this way. A long-term relationship is like a dessert with many layers...sex is the top layer. It is the garnish. It's a sign that all the other layers underneath are (or should be) healthy. You have to build up the dessert in the right order or it just doesn't work right. Of course there are exceptions, but you have to be smart about it. If you want a long-term relationship, use your mind and think long-term, not short-term. | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 9:51:13 AM | 1st date...what do you even need a date for...meet em at the bar and go home with them.
See I usually just eat the top part of my dessert. Like say a Chocalate covered donut. Just eat the chocalaT. | |
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| sex on a 1st date
Posted: 5/9/2008 11:16:55 AM | Dudee its the era of Paris Hilton...nothing virgin about that. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2008 8:01:20 PM | | Nope...i've only had this happen to me once & i turned it down. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2008 10:43:03 PM | I use to do this in the past and it NEVER ended well ... but then again, it likely depends upon the person, chemistry, etc. I have had sex on a second or third date and it STILL didnt end up right... at least not in a committment sense... SO again I think its more about priorities, goals, boundaries, ethics etc... for the individual and finding someone who shares those ideals. That or I'm lousy in bed and dont know it!!!!!????? | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 12:07:53 AM | Yup sex on a first date... If I'm feel'n the person I'm with I'm defenatly down with it... I never could understand the point of waiting.. What are you waiting for ?? All of a sudden just because you know a few extra things about a person, the sex is just gonna magically be soo much better ?  | |
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