| Over 30 -- What is your biggest turn on Posted: 3/5/2009 6:56:52 PM | | Nice smile and eyes, intelligence, humor, confidence, facial hair if well trimmed - goatees are nice, tall, clean, respectful to others, playful and adventurous. | |
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| Over 30 -- What is your biggest turn on Posted: 4/25/2009 8:16:43 PM | Physical: Trimmed mountain man beard and tall Mental: a thoughtful reader who like to talk about books! Emotional: transparent and open Spiritual: open to different ways for different people Interests: Mountain sports and skiing!  | |
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| Over 30 -- What is your biggest turn on Posted: 4/25/2009 9:20:42 PM | A really big turn on for me is eyes as they are the windows to the soul. I also have a thing for feet! Couldn't date someone with ugly feet. I know I'm weird, but a good weird.  | |
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| Over 30 -- What is your biggest turn on Posted: 4/26/2009 7:41:16 PM | A good sense of humor (someone who can match my sarcasm), someone who has other interests besides just camping and bar hopping...
However, I can also still be a sucker for certain "type" of set of shoulders I see on a guy. There are certain body types, that still make me as week now as they did when I was 16. I don't always date those types, but I still find them attractive. (if you want just a purely physical turn on in this list too)
I notice I find myself attracted to men who share a similar shape with my father, or I'm drawn to types that have the big strong "teddy bear" look. Big shoulders and extra hairy. | |
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| Over 30 -- What is your biggest turn on Posted: 4/27/2009 10:18:11 PM | warm eyes, strong hands and an incredible brain (to me, a brain is the sexiest thing a guy possesses; everything else drives from it)
(and am partial to facial hair on some people as well; though others very much are better without it)
but it's all good.
imho
(and one unmentioned incredible weak spot is dimples... I see those and I melt; especially with the warm eyes and strong hands and good sharp brain :)
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| Over 30 -- What is your biggest turn on Posted: 4/28/2009 8:14:40 AM | | Same as it was at any other age, I guess--a long, lean pair of legs that don't quit, boobs that cause the eyes to bulge out of their sockets, a sexy smile, a devilish sense of humor, a playful sense of mischief, a willingness to go all the way and try new things, and the right blend of softness and aggressiveness. | |
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| Over 30 -- What is your biggest turn on Posted: 4/28/2009 11:38:47 AM | I couple of turn ons that have developed later in life are really nice hands & a nice resonating voice as well; speaking voice. I can tolerate short more easily than a man that has small, feminine hands. Short-He maaay have a shot. Girly hands-There's just NO way.
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| Over 30 -- What is your biggest turn on Posted: 4/28/2009 10:13:24 PM | | Amen to the intelligence/incredible brain factor...not that he has to be Einstein here but I don't want to be in a relationship with Larry the Cable Guy and Beverly Hillbillies in 1 package! A nice smile...the teeth is one thing I notice, clean fingernails and the ability to have manners along with making eye contact. Tattoos are kinda sexy also, just not on the face and I have a thing for nicely groomed goatees! | |
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| Over 30 -- What is your biggest turn on Posted: 4/28/2009 11:03:14 PM | The slim, firm body of a fit 18 year old...with the experience, level-headedness and self-knowledge of say, a 36 year old.
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| Over 30 -- What is your biggest turn on Posted: 4/29/2009 7:20:10 AM | | i like the cleanliness, manners and of course it is nice to have intelligent conversation - very important for longer term, but it is definitely the kiss for me - i will know straight away | |
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| Over 30 -- What is your biggest turn on Posted: 5/7/2009 10:36:49 AM | over 30:
a cougar gal thats very limber. I have a really big thing for limber dancers cuz my deceaaed wife was a professional ballet dancer, and oh the positions she could put her body into was fantastic..she was 53 when cancer struck,, and she tought yoga untill the last six months of her life. i am still looking for that special lady once more
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| Over 30 -- What is your biggest turn on Posted: 5/11/2009 3:09:54 AM | | A firm butt if I'm going purely physical. From personality it would be a fine balance of cute and aggressive. I like when a cute girly girl takes charge! | |
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| Over 30 -- What is your biggest turn on Posted: 5/13/2009 12:30:50 AM | ...if he has the ability to seduce my mind...I'm jello in his hands.
No, um, seriously, if he can fix all the appliances that is related to water eg hot water tank, toilet, broken shower faucet, etc.... barring that then maybe the ability to use the yellow pages? | |
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| Over 30 -- What is your biggest turn on Posted: 5/13/2009 9:38:44 AM | Facial features - Your smile must reach your eyes
Physical - Nice biceps and forearms
Good Sense of Humor
Emotional Stability - most stuff is small, so don't sweat it!
Excellent Communication Skills (hint: it does not involve mind reading OR absorbtion into the skin AND what is absorbed by the mind must have logical verbal output afterwards!) | |
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