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| Why are women over 40 so desperate to get married?
Posted: 10/25/2009 8:43:31 AM |
Some assume that is my goal, since I am open that what I seek is a LTR, but I honestly don't know if I ever want to marry again. I do want a LTR; I like the feeling of being part of a loving relationship, the feeling of a partnership, and of the two of us being greater than we were separately.
Very nice description,,,
When I find my LTR, marriage is something we may or may not discuss when it fits into our plans. As I see it now, the 'marriage' aspect would be more to address practical matters than to define the relationship itself.
Level headed thinking coupled with realistic foresight and practicality,,,
'Tis a good thing you didn't live in Salem during the witch burning days
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| Why are women over 40 so desperate to get married?
Posted: 10/25/2009 8:49:46 AM |
Farmie, I don't have the need for a green card. I also wasn't implying you have one or needed one.
I don't care about the card that is nothing. You quoted very different thing that never enabled to relate the card. I don't think you lose any homor but your mind.  | |
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| Why are women over 40 so desperate to get married?
Posted: 10/29/2009 10:42:59 PM | Why are women over 40 so desperate to get married?
I know of no woman over 40 who's desperate to get married. However, if you've run into a few, my best guess would be that they're scared. Need the security of a marriage.
So, if you'd like to be that secure guy, go for it. If not, then don't.
And by the by - did you try asking them why they're in such a hurry? | |
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| Why are women over 40 so desperate to get married?
Posted: 10/31/2009 10:43:50 AM | | As i found out, somehow when a women don't need a man to marry she has her security either given to her,or had a good job to over ride her spending. Then is not willing to share like a man has to, if the man wants a women. Security has a lot to do with the average women getting older,if she always blew her funds in life. But the reality of it is now,most men don't have these jobs anymore. As the majority took over, the women had more time to go back to school, either while married,or after divorces to get better paying jobs. Pretty soon there will be too many office jobs and no products to buy to keep them going. Unless it is all for them buying cosmetics,purses,and their own new cloths. But why get all prettied up when they don't need the men anymore,ha ha. | |
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| Why are women over 40 so desperate to get married?
Posted: 10/31/2009 3:03:56 PM | Perhaps some feel desperate because they haven't had children yet...or have never been married...? Thankfully, I married in my twenties and had my children. To get married now, we would have to be "head over heels" in love and very good for each other in every way. No one has ever tempted me again, although, you never know about the future. | |
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| Why are women over 40 so desperate to get married?
Posted: 11/1/2009 1:03:11 PM | If someone keeps drawing the same kinds of experiences to oneself, it has something to do with what you are transmitting to others. Perhaps you need to look at how you set up these negative experiences. There must have been all kinds of red flags which you disregarded. The change needs to be inside you, in developing your own awareness of how you set up romantic relationships. A psychotherapist may be of assistance to you in this regard.
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| Why are women over 40 so desperate to get married?
Posted: 11/2/2009 8:50:44 AM | | I can't speak for others however, I don't think I have much of an interest to marry again. Been there and done that. I would be happy with a relationship. Take if from there maybe somewhere along the way if it felt right. No rush here. | |
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| Why are women over 40 so desperate to get married?
Posted: 11/2/2009 11:12:30 AM | op,
different strokes for different folks. i see marriage as an albatross...too much responsibility...i can walk around like a slob in my own house & not have to worry about someone else getting uptight about it. it's way too much work for what seems to be something sort of blah over time. i just don't have the desire or energy to work on something where i feel perpetually nagged and harangued. too many 'shoulds'... i like to come & go as i please with none of those constant expectations. just the thought wears me down. help!!!! | |
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