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Posted: 4/15/2008 10:12:53 PM | Hi clasact,
Well if people don't communicate .. lol they might end up in that position.. that feeling of someone watching you.. from afar, you turn around.. those beady eyes...great, now i'm gonna have nightmares!!
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Posted: 4/16/2008 2:43:30 AM | The pets and I sleep in the guest room with the twin beds, one for me and one for the pets. If I have a 'guest', we would sleep in the master bedroom which is always clean and neat and the pets know their room is down the hall and that is where they always head at bed time. They know they are not allowed in the master bedroom and stop at the door. I simply tell them to go to bed and they go to the guest room.
your sex partner would have to do you on the couch .............*keeps clicking on OTHER profiles*
I prefer someone who would make love with me, not do me. And if 'do me' is how he would view it, I would be glad he was clicking on other profiles. | |
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Posted: 4/16/2008 6:37:32 AM | I'm not telling.....
There's only one surefire way for a man to find out if there are pet(s) sleeping in my bed  | |
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Posted: 4/16/2008 7:01:00 AM | A bunch of you would pick a pet sleeping in a bed over a potential "love of a lifetime?"
That's rich....nice priorities...
And many people make rash judgments based on a comment, without communicating. Obviously when it comes to "sex", the pets are off the bed. Sleeping, I wouldn't mind kicking the other ones off, they have other places to sleep, but when it comes to my one with cancer I think he deserves some consideration - not saying he'd have to be on the bed, just that I'd expect if someone was my "love of a lifetime" that they *would* be someone who would talk to me about it and work with me to come up with a solution that we both can be happy with. Otherwise, I really don't think I consider them my "love of a lifetime", or even having that "potential". The "love of my lifetime" probably isn't someone who makes unilateral decisions about what *they* have determined is right/wrong, without considering me and my feelings, my pets, and talking about it. | |
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Posted: 4/16/2008 11:40:56 AM | -Bluesman2008-You are one in a million........certainly a mystery wrapped in an enigma! That's great. Power trips aren't attractive in anyone. If you didn't live so far away I would come over just to make certain you were REAL. LOL
I was the law firm's investigator (insurance co. defense lawyers) for years. Most of them had dogs and bought them to work with them and slept with the dogs too.
ONE time and only ONE time, I was asked by one (a new, young, Jr. assoc., piss and vinegar type) to take his dog outside to potty......What?? Not that I minded you see, but it kind of surprised me. But it shouldn't have. ~grin~
I said, "Sure, why not........I'm the most expensive dog walker you'll ever meet, my time is money also. And oh, this is gonna be hell on your overhead, but Okaaayyyy" . He looked at me (I could see the lightbulb slowly brightening) and he yelled for his paralegal to do it. lol. His first encounter with me.........the "of counsel" came out of his office just in time to witness this exchange and said to me, "You have my permission to take him out back and smack him up side of his head (Jr. assoc) anytime you want." Then "of counsel" (who happened to have one of his rare trial appearances that day) turned to "Mr. Wet BehindTheEars Jr. assoc. and said......."She doesn't have time for that and she's right. My defense case starts in about 30 min. and SHE'S my first witness. What am I supposed to do, tell the judge......Oh, your honor the witness will be in very shortly, if we could just have a min. or two, she's taking the office dog for a crap"............ ROFLMAO . Which reminded of this when you posted your "smack him upside the head" law student story. LOL | |
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Posted: 4/16/2008 12:00:17 PM | 
Way to go  He deserved it. | |
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Posted: 4/16/2008 1:05:46 PM |
bunch of you would pick a pet sleeping in a bed over a potential "love of a lifetime?" That's rich....nice priorities...
For what it's worth, no I would not. If it really did truly bother someone that I loved that much, I would definitely chose them over my pets in terms of sleeping arrangements. I would certainly try to work it out first, relationships are all about compromise. But it's just really never been an issue for me in the past though, particularly since I tend to gravitate to people who are animal lovers as well and just don't mind it. My oldest dog is such a charmer as well, that most guys want to spoil him as much as (if not more than) I do.  | |
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Posted: 4/16/2008 11:58:09 PM | | Pets in bed my two little yorkies sleep with me every night.Thats why I have a king size bed.Enough room for all.By the way my dogs are extremely clean.If this single guy evers gets in a relationship having sex dogs won't be there during the fun.I don't see a problem with them there. | |
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Posted: 4/17/2008 1:40:18 AM | | Pets are adorable,and fun to snuggle up with,but there are some things "Fluffy" just doesnt need to see | |
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Posted: 4/17/2008 3:29:18 AM | Yep sure do....have 2 Boxers that stay inside. One is 55 lbs the other is about 75 lbs. My male (which is the smaller on)...he sleeps in the bed every night. Dakota, my female, she usually sleeps on the floor, but maybe twice a month she will sneak her big ass into the bed too. Titan sleeps on my side of the bed on the outside, so Welder doesn't really mind it.
And if it was my house and my bed and it was a 'new' relationship...well if he didn't like it, he knows where the front door is. And the back door for that matter also.
~welder's Girl~ | |
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Posted: 4/17/2008 10:27:06 AM | Hmm, I think that would cause a problem! I'm not a big one for pets, and I definitely wouldn't want to share with an animal so I think it would probably scupper the relationship unless something changed!
cheers
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Posted: 4/17/2008 2:52:04 PM |
Pets are adorable,and fun to snuggle up with,but there are some things "Fluffy" just doesnt need to see
Yep. The TV remote. Once they find that, there's no stopping them | |
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Posted: 4/17/2008 3:15:16 PM | I don't do pets in the house....Animals do not have the same skills as humans do...they can't go to the bathroom and wash their hands before dinner time etc...they can't wipe their behinds after doing their businesss on the lawn....they are extra work when they are in the house...and I don't have time for it.....For house pets you have to make "arrangements" or take them with you when you travel.....I love animals, but that is simply the facts for me....some dogs also shed a lot of hair and it is just too much work to keep it off your clothes...I 0nce stayed with a friend and had to go to work the next day and had a pair of dark dress pants on....i think I had sat on the couch before leaving and arrived at work with dog hair all over me....I loved the dog...it was the most gentle kind sweet pet and loved me....but I just could not deal with all that extra work....I do realize a lot of people are big animal lovers , so im sure i will get flamed with this post
I think when you are in a relatoniship with someone it works better if you are considerate of their feelings...and that includes their feelings of having the pet in bed with you...if you will choose your pet over the person your in relatioinship...you may be wayyyyy to attached to your pet.... | |
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Posted: 4/17/2008 4:09:49 PM | I loved the dog...it was the most gentle kind sweet pet and loved me....but I just could not deal with all that extra work....I do realize a lot of people are big animal lovers , so im sure i will get flamed with this post
Not from me....I wish more people really understood how much work a pet (particularly dogs) can be and didn't just get one "for the kids" or for whatever other reason they might have. It's one reason so many end up in shelters, because people don't have time to properly socialize, exercise, train and care for them, etc. My sis and her husband have two dogs for instance that are just so poorly cared for (as they both work and have two young kids) that it just breaks my heart when I see them all matted and dirty, overweight, etc. Another brother got a c0cker spaniel for the kids (didn't tell me they were getting him or ask my opinion on the best breed for their family, etc.) and he was just such a hyper, active dog, and they have the time to train him, and so he got locked outside all the time because he just was too much for them to handle in the house. A year later, they asked me to find a new home for him, as he was developing all kinds of issues like barking and digging, common in dogs left alone outside for long periods of time. It's a far, far too common story. | |
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Posted: 4/17/2008 5:12:34 PM | I have a dog she is lil dog she sleeps in bed i rather have her in bed so she dont bark or howl since i live in apartment i wld hate make neighbors mad or landlord mad cause there are rules with having a dog in apartment an i wld hate her do damage door if she cld nt get to me shes 12 yrs old an she lets me know when she needs out i rathher be let known instead havin pick up after her insides.
If someone wants me they got take her to cause we are a package deal an it helps me havin a dog in bed cause she will let me know acause i stop breathing in my sleep sometimes an i live alones she has saved me a few times . I dont have sleep apnea just bad lungs that will close up sometimmes without me realizing it an she woke me up enough to pop medicine into nebulizer take treatment . | |
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Posted: 4/19/2008 2:09:20 AM | | ^^^^^^^^^glad you have that little girl to love you and help you. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2008 2:28:37 AM |
it helps me havin a dog in bed cause she will let me know acause i stop breathing in my sleep sometimes an i live alones she has saved me a few times .
Your dog is way nicer than my three. If I ever stopped breathing while I was sleeping they'd probably roll me onto the floor, steal my pillows and have me for breakfast the next morning. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2008 2:55:50 AM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^I was thinking th same thing about my two. Then the cat would try to cover me up!
Can you tell that I thought you were funny? | |
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Posted: 4/20/2008 6:16:35 PM | | Have come conclussion that pets are better companions cause they never stay mad very long an always willin cheer u ups when your down an i have found more accepting then the general human race .An my small doxie girl always happy for a snuggles an gives kissess when i am crying . | |
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Posted: 4/23/2008 7:10:05 AM | | I agree, my mother always believed that if somebody didn't like animals they were cold hearted.. Your dog is cool, I have one also, she sleeps w/ me every night and that's the way it is.....Brad | |
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Posted: 4/23/2008 7:44:10 AM | | My dog sleeps with me. I think it depends on how you are raised. If you had a pet, while being a kid, then you get a pet for your kid, then you get divorced... the pet can help for companionship. My dog helps me to stay at home at night, and not wander around town into bars or clubs. He has a sheet thrown over the bed, and I wash it every day. He knows to stay on the sheet, because he sheds. If any hair falls on other parts of the bed, I use a coat sticky tape roller to pick up all the hairs. If I have someone in my bed, I remove the sheet, and quickly roll the sticky tape over the entire bedspread. This is usually okay. | |
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Posted: 5/5/2008 8:56:49 PM | My dog "Walter" is with me 24-7 and sleeps with me every night................! My response is the same as tmotts........ [ except you need to insert dog in place of cat ] " If you love me, than you would have to love my dog.  | |
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Posted: 5/5/2008 11:05:51 PM | | HELL NO. The pets can sleep on the floor or buy them their own bed. But then again Im not much of a pet person. | |
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Posted: 5/6/2008 1:08:32 AM |
-Bluesman2008-You are one in a million........certainly a mystery wrapped in an enigma! That's great. Power trips aren't attractive in anyone. If you didn't live so far away I would come over just to make certain you were REAL. LOL
Oh I assure you that what you see is what you get. But what you posted reminded me that, on my very first law job, I was given the most experienced secretary in the firm. Of course, I knew NOTHING and she knew more about the law, pleadings, motions, discovery etc. than ANY lawyer in the firm. She was incredible.
One day, I asked her to make a pot of coffee for an upcoming deposition in our office. She said she was busy as hell preparing ME with notes etc. for the depo and "make your own damned coffee - what am I? Your wife"? I made the coffee. She was one of the best. I had nothing but the greatest respect for that lady. | |
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Posted: 5/6/2008 4:38:04 AM | | yes my sentments yuck!! | |
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