luneib
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| 36 year old woman and 21 year old guy? Posted: 5/18/2005 4:27:22 PM | | Well, I only date younger guys, actually, my last bf was 20 years younger than me, and I did ask him if things were to get serious with us, did he want to have children, 'cause if he did, I would either have to adopt, since I can't have any, or let him go, look elsewhere for the love of my life. I would never stand in the way if a guy I was dating wanted children, it just wouldn't be fair to him. But...if two people really care about each other, the chemistry is right, sometimes you can just work things out, he might even chance his mind about having kids, especially since as you mentioned, you have kids. I say enjoy the relationship as it is, but be honest with your bf about whether or not he seriously wants his own kids or not before you get too involved with him. My ex bf does not want kids and he is young, so it just depends on the guy, each guy is so different with regards to that. | |
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| 36 year old woman and 21 year old guy? Posted: 5/18/2005 5:11:47 PM |
Posted By: luneib on 5/18/2005 7:27:22 PM each guy is so different with regards to that
hey...you got that right and WOW BABY.....you're HOT !!!!!!
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| 36 year old woman and 21 year old guy? Posted: 5/18/2005 10:46:03 PM | excuse me I thought this was a place to express opinions, give and take advice, and have an open mind....I will bet you I have dated on a larger age difference than this poster has...doesn't matter, I could this as a personal affront to my dignity, but you have as much right to your opinion(s), as I do mine...
sal, sorry here, but again your way out of line. if you dont like the thread move on plz. just because of your past and your all alone, leave your own bs to yourself. plzzzzzzzz MM have a nice night I happened to like this thread.I often play DA, just because I am bored. Call me a hypocrite, Call it B.S. I have as much right as anyone to post here. I get the whole jist of your post except 4 little words at the end.... 'have a nice night' what was that all about? BS if I ever heard it.... truth is, I misred the whole thing...my bad there, but does it really matter? | |
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| 36 year old woman and 21 year old guy? Posted: 5/19/2005 12:16:19 AM | salamander,
Actually you are very correct. You do have a right to post, as long as you don't hurt anyone.
More than once, I've been attacked for being a non-traditional person with non-traditional beliefs. I've mostly been attacked by the religious folk, but I always just apply humor.
So keep on posting. I'll back you up as much as possible.
Remember, you're welcome here and the only person that can send you away is a mod. | |
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| 36 year old woman and 21 year old guy? Posted: 5/19/2005 12:20:14 AM |
Posted By: salamander000 on 5/19/2005 1:46:03 AM I happened to like this thread.I often play DA, just because I am bored. hey....sorry for being stupid....but, what is DA ??? | |
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| 36 year old woman and 21 year old guy? Posted: 5/19/2005 12:24:25 AM | Quite likely:
Devil's advocate
A person that purposely takes an obverse, perverse, or reverse view of an idea or thought than is common or the norm for said thought/idea. This is so they can provoke a debate over those same aforementioned thoughts or ideas.
Well, actually that is the penny version of the detailed definition, but you get the idea. | |
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| 36 year old woman and 21 year old guy? Posted: 5/19/2005 8:55:21 AM | from urban dictionary devil's advocate devĀ·il's advocate n. One who argues against a cause or position, not as a committed opponent but simply for the sake of argument or to determine the validity of the cause or position.
my apologies to OP for this thread going sideways..... Back on topic, I agree, follow your heart, peace to everyone,
BTW Granted, taken out of context, it was the "anything is possible with enough effort" statement I was responding to.That is not a logical statement. | |
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| 36 year old woman and 21 year old guy? Posted: 5/19/2005 9:44:13 PM | giddy up.. guys have been doin the same thing for years and they get praised by their peers for "baggin a hottie"
I personally wouldn't date someone 20.. but I don't have any issues with women that do | |
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| 36 year old woman and 21 year old guy? Posted: 5/19/2005 10:22:23 PM | When i was a young buck.......waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay back the day
Older Moms wanted to do nasty things to Me........ | |
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| 36 year old woman and 21 year old guy? Posted: 5/19/2005 10:30:54 PM | GREAT THREAD! YOU GO, GIRL! ALOT OF " YOUNG MEN" are QUITE MATURE and know how to TREAT a LADY.............................. GOOD LUCK! | |
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