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 JRydel

Joined: 9/5/2007
Msg: 451
Players! What is it like to play? C'mon be honest!
Posted: 12/22/2007 6:13:07 AM
Players are sociopaths, deviates, predators and sexual perverts. They are liars, users and abusers. The prisons are filled with their typical personality profile.
 repa

Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 452
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Posted: 12/22/2007 8:18:05 AM

Players are sociopaths, deviates, predators and sexual perverts. They are liars, users and abusers. The prisons are filled with their typical personality profile.


Really. Do you know a lot about prisons?
 m_church

Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 453
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Posted: 12/22/2007 10:26:30 AM

Players are sociopaths, deviates, predators and sexual perverts. They are liars, users and abusers. The prisons are filled with their typical personality profile.

Really???? Is it now against th law to go to a bar, ask a pretty woman to dance and have a great evening? Perhaps spend the night with her, and make her feel happy and loved?
Damn, I better pay my parking tickets cause I sure can't imagine the jail that awaits me for them if I can go to jail for being with a lady.

P. S. How does being a player equate to being a sexual pervert? Would someone please explain that one....
 fyahman

Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 454
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Posted: 12/22/2007 10:29:19 AM
.........................................................................................................................................................player rule #1 never reveal any player rules. lol
 svj

Joined: 9/15/2007
Msg: 455
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Posted: 12/22/2007 12:15:23 PM
I find this thread very interesting.

You can pretty much tell by the tone of speech how attractive the opposite sex generally finds the poster. Assuming a post longer than a one-liner.

And even some of them. JRydel, for instance. Been awhile, huh buddy?



"First rule of Fight Club. Never talk about Fight Club."
 Guess

Joined: 10/2/2007
Msg: 456
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Posted: 12/22/2007 5:57:48 PM
For some less gifted people in this thread,can it be an useful advice to realize the meaning behind the saying 'as you know others,you know yourself'...
 JRydel

Joined: 9/5/2007
Msg: 457
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Posted: 12/22/2007 6:24:29 PM
For those that insist to constantly play games and cannot talk with real substance then there will never be any solution unless they start to have real meaning in their words and real communication in what they say or hear. Some people are real and others are just playing a game. Both must be real otherwise nothing is accomplished. Try a little tenderness and love and attempt to have successful conversation. Maybe we can overcome it all and be successful in our endeavor for happy resolution to the game. Is it possible for it to happen? When two people to talk to each other like real people then maybe it can happen for them to reach a resolution. No one wants to be used for bad purposes and we only want to be treated like real people.
 chrylann

Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 458
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Posted: 12/22/2007 6:47:30 PM
m church, how do you know a woman feels happy and loved when being used? Did one actually tell you this, or does it make you feel better to believe that nonsense? I can tell you from experience, we do not feel happy, nor loved about being played/used.
 Guess

Joined: 10/2/2007
Msg: 459
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Posted: 12/22/2007 6:57:38 PM
Chrylann,why are you attacking MrChurch?He is honest and not just a pathetic sheep in the crowd,if you need someone to attack,then I think Jrydel would been a better choice.
 repa

Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 460
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Posted: 12/22/2007 7:11:01 PM
MrChurch is a man of church, all other men are prisoners and lunies!!!!!
 chrylann

Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 461
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Posted: 12/22/2007 8:00:14 PM
Guess, I agree with Jrydel in most of what he said. And to the poster who said M church is of church and is honest. Maybe I misunderstand what you mean of church, but his profile says hes nonreligious.
 Guess

Joined: 10/2/2007
Msg: 462
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Posted: 12/22/2007 8:13:11 PM
Ann, Mrchurch,he got a religion of his own and every religious position has to start somewhere as a ground for a strong belief,he will do good and fine and collect a lot of collection in his collection box and use it for a good purpose too.But why dont you hook up with Jrydel,what a match!
 JRydel

Joined: 9/5/2007
Msg: 463
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Posted: 12/22/2007 8:25:29 PM
I think you better be careful what you write because you are going to get yourself into some big trouble. you would be smart to discuss it with me privately
 Guess

Joined: 10/2/2007
Msg: 464
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Posted: 12/22/2007 8:48:06 PM
Daisy this is the best thread ever made in this forum,since some people showed their true color in it and some hypocrites tried of course to not to,but they did even if they did it in the name of religion.
 m_church

Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 465
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Posted: 12/23/2007 1:51:36 AM

m church, how do you know a woman feels happy and loved when being used? Did one actually tell you this, or does it make you feel better to believe that nonsense? I can tell you from experience, we do not feel happy, nor loved about being played/used

Well, for a start, I still get along well with most of the women I've encountered. In more than a few instances, we have actually had that conversation. They have learned to accept what I do. The 3 women I'm seeing regularly, I have been seeing for a few years. They **** about each other, and complain, and tell me they're jealous . The thing they have most in common, they hate when I go out on a Friday or Saturday night without any of them.
 David Lewis

Joined: 11/18/2007
Msg: 466
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Posted: 12/23/2007 8:31:36 AM
I agree. If a man or woman is not looking for anything serious
or exclusive, I don't see anything terribly unethical as long as
they're completely open and honest about it upfront.
If they're not honest about it then we already have terms for them
(fraud, user, cheater, con artist).

daisypetals1 wrote: A man who's into LTRs and/or marriage
gives off totally different signals than if he's a player.
Same with women.
 repa

Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 467
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Posted: 12/23/2007 5:07:50 PM
Oh yes mr church! I bet they are jealous!!! Do you go to church on the fridays and sats too? I bet you do!
 mahogany_rush

Joined: 7/18/2007
Msg: 468
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Posted: 12/23/2007 5:32:05 PM
Players eh, another overused word in online dating, next to shallow, racist and honesty
A real player would never reveal his or her true self, a true player will seduce many people of the opposite sex but never commits to one, and is skilled at hinting to the unsuspecting party that they are the " one" when there is others.

People confuse the person is already attached having a affair a Player, far from it, those people are cheating b astards.

Players are usually single and have no time for one person, which is rather sad, because they lie, manipulate,obfuscate the truth on many fronts.

Some people on here thinks it the guy who goes from women to women , meeting them tricking them into going out with them and just getting sex and bingo bango and bongo move on to the next person, thats not a player thats a selfish prick who just wants one thing vs the players who can get sex from the poor woman anytime while she thinks shes the only one.

By the way Daisy, good topic, its been a interesting read I might add.
 Guess

Joined: 10/2/2007
Msg: 469
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Posted: 12/23/2007 5:42:15 PM
Some people in this thread got a sense of humour,some have not...Why should anyone if they really were a player admit it in a thread,in a dating site...Well I don't think featherbrains would do well as players...
 JRydel

Joined: 9/5/2007
Msg: 470
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Posted: 12/23/2007 7:35:48 PM
I vote that Players who hurt their victims whether it be by lying, cheating or stealing from them have their arses kicked around the block about 8 times and then have a "P" tattooed on their forehead.
 repa

Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 471
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Posted: 12/23/2007 8:29:37 PM
Well Guess, everyone cant be born with brains. I pity them.
 just1question

Joined: 11/11/2007
Msg: 472
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Posted: 12/23/2007 8:43:26 PM
You really expect that any kind of "player" is able to be honest ???
And what "the player" means anyway ?
We are all players for those we don't want to be with !
 fishin15

Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 473
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Posted: 12/26/2007 11:57:22 PM
You have totally described it to a tee. I am currently linked to a player, and everyone keeps telling me he must be married but you are so right when you say;

("Players are usually single and have no time for one person, which is rather sad, because they lie, manipulate,obfuscate the truth on many fronts.")
This guy does not have time for anyone or anything, except work,family, his daughter,-divorced, more work, more family and more work. He calls me on the way to work, while at work, and night time when he is in bed ready to nod off. Dates are few and far between,as he is always busy.

And also hitting it on the point of ..( "A real player would never reveal his or her true self, a true player will seduce many people of the opposite sex but never commits to one, and is skilled at hinting to the unsuspecting party that they are the " one" when there is others.") Never belived I am the only one here but he tries to make me think so. I never did understand that but now I do.

So why would a woman say addicted to this type-maybe she doesn't really have any time herself for a relationship, and this keeps something exciting going in her life a validation while exploring a sexy man. And belive me this guy is hot!

 scotsraven

Joined: 10/28/2007
Msg: 474
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Posted: 12/29/2007 2:19:03 AM
this is my Q? To be a player? just asking in case i ever take it up ! i would have to be a lying, using, deceitful, manipulating, story spining, cruel person who believes the person im doing all this to some how deserves it and some how enjoyes it....I can meet people in bars have a drink and a dance and maybe even take them home...all without being a player...and the only thing both us have to worry the next day is a hang over cure.....but there must be something in it, when all use who claim to be players seem so proud to be a player.......WELL DONE USE!***** happy new year
 exrescue

Joined: 10/24/2007
Msg: 475
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Posted: 12/29/2007 2:52:43 AM
The point here is?
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