Who.Me
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Joined: 8/26/2007
Msg: 76 | |
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Posted: 10/20/2007 9:52:34 AM | jwa....Your opinion on my looks doesn't matter to me because I know how I affect people. I know I am attractive, I have great legs and a decent body even at the age of 45.
I have spend most of my adult life unattached because men find it difficult to ask me out.
As far as being on a free dating site...I have profiles on several "pay" sites as well. Being on a free site as opposed to pay sites doesn't make a hoot of a difference. We are people looking for the same thing.
I am extremely intelligent, I own a very successful business, I ran for political office on the State level, I raised a beautiful daughter alone, I own my home, and I could go on and on...
I have a lot to offer someone and someday I will get hooked, line and sinker!!!  | |
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Posted: 10/20/2007 12:50:18 PM | I know I am not attractive compared to most of the ladies on here. No date yet with anyone. The men who contact me are contacting EVERYBODY else too. I'm just the last resort: I'm getting grandfathers with beer bellies that look like Santa Claus contacting me.
Nothing makes a woman feel more worthless than feeling invisible by men. | |
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Posted: 10/20/2007 2:23:08 PM | | this is to fancynanci, and I am not bashing her by any means but....you have been mis-informed "quality people" do go to bars and it is possible to meet them there.I am a quality person ( meaning I have good values,a personality,morals I am not out to get laid ect...)I go to THE bar because I live in a small town and It's either sit home and watch TV on a saturday nite or go to the bar dance ,talk to friends and have a good time.In my town what would you do? | |
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Posted: 10/20/2007 2:39:47 PM | | I agree with loochuckles....live these days is harder in terms of going out and just meeing people, also as you get older I believe you don't see saturday night out with friend as pulling opportunity! Therefore you look for other ways to stimulate your desire to meet, talk and interact = not just physically, and to meet like minded people! | |
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Posted: 10/20/2007 4:04:50 PM | I went to a bar once and it exploded...
I think this is because of causality... or something.
I didn't read through all the posts, but the thing is, the internet is a viable option for people, whether they look like a troglodyte or like a breathtaking botticelli(ala venus and so on).
Do I think I have a chance with women who are super awesomely extremely bodaciously amazingly beautiful.... yes... but, only a very small one.
The only problem with internet dating, is it's like real dating... you get passed up a lot... maybe even more so, because it's more of a shopping mentality here. I'm not bitter, nor am I trying to be negative, I just call it like I see it. It's not like I'm messaging a lot of women, but even when I do, it usually doesn't last for more than a few emails and then it just dies. I can only assume it's because I'm really weird. Yeah... really, that's probably it.
I hope everyone finds what they are looking for, whether you think you are hot or you think you are not.
the giggleparts - Last night I dreamed I was awake in the daytime and sleeping at night. I awoke in the night and slept in the day, only to find the night held me up and tomorrow said goodbye. | |
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Posted: 10/20/2007 4:20:41 PM | Where do people meet other people?
I have heard so many different places but most of the time I end up empty handed.
Then there are the bars and it seems like the same people go there week after week hoping to meet someone.
I think this is great of course the bad thing about it is that it get to be habit forming.
I like this because it gives me so many more options than anything else. | |
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Posted: 10/20/2007 4:32:41 PM | bailame
I don't know WHAT you are talking about. You are a very attractive women... I'm confused | |
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Posted: 10/20/2007 5:45:17 PM | I do online because my work schedule is so hectic, and I hate getting hit on in the bars. You can't even go in with a friend, without someone trying to hook up with you.
I also like the idea that I know something about the person before meeting him. | |
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Posted: 10/21/2007 12:50:35 AM | | I get asked that same question on a daily basis. Is it so hard to believe that someone may not want to settle for just anyone? I want kids and I want to get married , I'm not going to settle for anyone. I want to find the right girl. Maybe I'm too picky, I just want that fire between us to be real and last forever. So don't worry 29 is really young, hell I'm 44. I just hope its not to late for me! | |
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Posted: 10/21/2007 5:20:13 PM | | bailame I don't understand why you feel like you do. You are attractive...... I on the other hand have just found out that due to my age I'm "littering" this site. Yes I'm 53, yea I'm not great looking, yea I'm not what most women want.........BUT I AM NOT A PIECE OF FREAKING GARBAGE EITHER!!!!!!!!! And anyone who thinks a person over 30 is littering this site can Kiss My Old Lily White .....ummmm ...... damn I can't remember.......my memory isn't want it used to be......... well they can kiss something that isn't nice!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 10/25/2007 9:53:49 AM | | I think that online has gotten a lot less taboo and for those of us in the working class, it's very convenient. For instance, I work full time and am going to school so I rarely have time to go out. Now, I'm no supermodel but I think I'm fairly attractive. When I do go to bars or clubs, I really just want to relax and maybe dance a little, not have every Tom,****and Harry trying to approach me with the same thought on their minds. At least with online dating, you can get a feel for the person and decide if you want to proceed. That's my take on it anyway. | |
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Posted: 10/25/2007 10:55:25 AM | | Tosh. Most women who are beautiful know it and there is nothing wrong with that. As a rule many of the more confident attarctive women will have more photos and also look at the number of favourites. Yes beauty is in the eye of the beerholder, sorry beholder but that expression is used for average looking people like me :-) | |
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Posted: 10/25/2007 10:57:15 AM | | Maybe some of it has to do with the area people live in - not much choice? I don't know. Personally I love the forum and chatting with new people. | |
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Posted: 10/27/2007 3:16:04 PM | | Yes i agree looks are the most important thing,it's just basic human nature.MutualPhysical attraction is the foundation of a relationship,that everything else builds on.Someone like myself, who is generally speaking ,unattractive to women,is bound to have a hard time on sites like this.But i am also surprised about the huge numbers of very attractive women on here, i think it's because sites like this suite women much more than men.I think they feel more in control,safer & more comfortable,trying to meet someone online.But for me it's the complete opposite !When i'm on POF i have to do all the leg work myself,contacting women i'm attracted to,but hardly any reply.It feels like i'm constantly being pushed in a direction i don't want to go in.That is to start contacting women who either dont have a photo,or one's that do, but you know you aint gonna fancy them.Twice iv'e given in to that pressure & met up with women as a result, & both times iv'e bitterly regreted it.Never underestimate how important looks are,it's sad(well for people like me anyway) but true. | |
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Posted: 10/27/2007 5:35:09 PM | I know I am not attractive compared to most of the ladies on here. No date yet with anyone. The men who contact me are contacting EVERYBODY else too. I'm just the last resort: I'm getting grandfathers with beer bellies that look like Santa Claus contacting me.
Nothing makes a woman feel more worthless than feeling invisible by men
First you look very attractive, unless there is a huge hump you are hiding
No kidding you are invisible..read your demand list for contact
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex. UNDERSTANDABLE
You must have a picture to contact this user. semi understandable
Must not be looking for Hang Out ?
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail ?
Must not be looking for Other Relationship ?
Must not be looking for Friendship WTF!!!
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter understandable
Must not be looking for Activity Partner WTF!!!
Must not do drugs ok
Must not be married ok
Must not smoke ok
Why not add ...specific height weight, birthday, eye colour, year and model of car, salary, position, 401k value, top 5 songs, first last and middle name, and all applicants will be subject to DNA testing to ensure pure bloodlines, must be prepared for marriage with 48 hours of first date, ring must be 1.3 carat min with vs1 or better rating | |
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Posted: 10/27/2007 5:48:31 PM | I think that alot of people are just plain busy. Once they find that SO to spend time with, they will make that time...as for looking in the real world, sometimes life, jobs, family fills up the time they have.
Maybe they have been dating in the "real world" but haven't found mr/mrs right yet and think that this may be an interesting way to go. :) | |
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Posted: 11/9/2007 12:13:39 PM | hi there im ''communicate'' from miami... i saw ''galguitar'' posting on here... i have never written her although shes listed on my 'favs list'... this lady has an engaging smile... eyes that sing... and an overall endearing persona-- based on her profile and her photos! if you chat with her... pls tell her that '''communicate''' in miami is intrigued... i am right now in vegas working on the oj simpson story... but would enjoy a chat!!
'''communicate''' :) | |
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Posted: 11/9/2007 12:28:29 PM |
Not that I fit into the category you are referring to
You fit perfectly. | |
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clarey
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Joined: 12/30/2006
Msg: 95 | |
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Posted: 12/13/2007 4:39:51 PM | for the record, I think you look great for 44/45 and you go girl!
I think women are more suspicious of attractive women on here than any man will be! We are what we are. Slim, fat, average, beautiful, attractive or plain, but we are all looking for the same thing. Real love, genuine and true. | |
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Posted: 12/13/2007 5:06:26 PM | | I am 54 years old and no longer the looker I was when I was 25. The problem is that most of the men in my age group are married . Its not like back in the day we all were single. | |
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Posted: 12/13/2007 5:18:30 PM | OP, It's not as apparent on POF because of the format.
Go to other sites like match where they have an answer for the income and body type of the man they will date, and you will get part of your answer.
When I was on there as recently as a couple of months ago when I was still looking, many of these women will have as a requirement that their date must have an "Athletic and Toned" body, and have a salary of $100,000 plus just to date them.
The pattern I saw was generally, the better looking a woman appears to perceive herself to be, the more money and better looking a guy who she'll go on a date with has to be.
Even if other than looks, she has no real obvious redeeming qualities. | |
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Posted: 1/29/2008 10:17:24 AM | | xxfoxyred what do you consider old? be glad you are still young and not older and single . being almost 50 and trying to date can be frustrating. sorry to "litter up" the website, seems like younger adults think that when you are older you don't have any desires and feelings I get this attitude from my 23 year old all the time. She thinks I should be content to just exist. it confirms to me again how out of touch with reality our younger generation is . If they are lucky enough they too will old one day including yourself. | |
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Posted: 1/29/2008 10:33:21 AM | | Beauty is in the eye of the beholder truer words have never been spoken I have often seen what I thought were not very attractive women with very nice looking men wondering why? how did she get him? Maybe they saw something I didn't or couldn't see. I posted a picture on this site and have been pleased with my results I receive many very nice emails from men of all ages. I am pretty comfortable with my appearance . I don't like men or women that go on and on about how good they look bragging will surely diminish much of their attractiveness remembering again "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" | |
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Posted: 1/29/2008 4:13:46 PM | For me, its been very hard trying to get back out in the dating world. I have had more 1st dates, than i care to count. And almost no 2nd dates. I seriously dont understand it.
I dont look at a man, for his looks alone, I look at the whole package, per se. His personality, looks, how he talks, etc.. But everyone has to admit, that you do need to be attracted to the one you are with, if you want to spend the rest of your life with them. | |
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