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| What is really going trough her head?
Posted: 5/5/2008 1:08:46 PM |
I apologize for the resurrection of this thread but I figured I would post this here. You see, on April 17, 2008 I married the woman I was talking about on the original post. For some reason I was not able to stop thinking about the responses in this thread, and something in the back of m head kept poking at me, telling me I should post the “resolution” of this.
I find it that many people on these forums tend to immediately suggest that you break up/walk away/forget/never forgive/tourture/strangle/shoot... ok, I'm getting carried away here but you get the picture. 90% of the time all you hear is something negative.
Congrats dude. How did you turn this around? | |
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| What is really going trough her head?
Posted: 5/5/2008 1:16:35 PM |
wow you went from creepy to hubby
She never found me creepy. Basically, she was a bit confused about her feelings and wanted to be on the safe side, witch truth is didn't last long. We became a couple about a week after my original post. | |
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| What is really going trough her head?
Posted: 5/5/2008 1:18:29 PM |
I find it that many people on these forums tend to immediately suggest that you break up/walk away/forget/never forgive/tourture/strangle/shoot... ok, I'm getting carried away here but you get the picture. 90% of the time all you hear is something negative.
I have to admit I found this a bit ironic when I read the responses, because I been on the other side of the argument many times before. This was the first time i was being feed what I used to dish out.
Congrats dude. How did you turn this around?
Thanks :) | |
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| What is really going trough her head?
Posted: 5/5/2008 1:27:55 PM | Any opinion I was about to offer went straight out the window when I read that you married her. I love being wrong.
Congrats. Write a book and share your experiences so every other nice guy can learn from your trials and tribulations -- maybe it'll stop the incessant "nice guy" threads. 
Cheers :) | |
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| What is really going trough her head?
Posted: 5/5/2008 1:36:29 PM |
Congrats. Write a book and share your experiences so every other nice guy can learn from your trials and tribulations -- maybe it'll stop the incessant "nice guy" threads.
I would had to lie big time to achieve that, I was not a "nice guy".  | |
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| What is really going trough her head?
Posted: 5/5/2008 4:31:33 PM | | She sounds like she's not interested in taking it further and sees you as a friend only, but she's letting you get a bit too close. This isn't fair on you as it's confusing. It could be that she has little experience in making her boundaries clear or that she just likes the attention. I'd definitely back off though and give her space. If she really wants to be close to you, she will come to you. | |
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| What is really going trough her head?
Posted: 5/11/2008 3:43:36 AM | Just speaking from experience, dear. Creeps who don't understand 'no' are everywhere.
I wouldn't count my eggs, however, since your marriage happened really suddenly. Doesn't that strike you as odd?
Some women would rather being with someone they are 'somewhat' attracted to than being alone.
Just a thought. And, I'm not laughing at you...just hoping that you realize that a woman is never "confused" about whom she loves.
Marriage is basically the union between one person who is in love... to another person who has settled. | |
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