| ever date an on going arguement.
Posted: 10/20/2007 3:20:58 AM |
I won't stand for being corrected. It's better when I am kneeling.
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| ever date an on going arguement.
Posted: 10/20/2007 10:34:53 AM | Agreed Pamperpooch41 ... Much more amusing and entertaining than any soap opera or tv show could ever possibly be ...  | |
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| ever date an on going arguement.
Posted: 10/21/2007 10:31:38 AM | | Yes. I have gone out with a guy like that. A very negative guy. I think he was just insecure and had a chip on his shoulder . He seemed to turn everything I said around and manipulate my words to make them sound bad or that I was discussing HIM when I could have been talking about a tree or something. He had no trouble throwing out what I consider "back-handed compliments" to me either. I can't stand that type of thing. It's sad because I thought he was a pretty nice guy and he was a lot of the time, but when those insecurities began to come out or the chip on his shoulder about life got in the way, Whoa Nelly...Watch Out...You're about to get slammed and hard. Very sad to live life that way. It's way too short. | |
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| ever date an on going arguement.
Posted: 10/21/2007 10:42:34 AM | | Ever think it was the incessant third person 'belly' references that drove her to the brink and had a hand at turning on the ever popular auto correct feature? | |
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| ever date an on going arguement.
Posted: 10/21/2007 10:44:28 AM | yep can lead to some interesting times.I just love to tweak those types of personalites.
Get serious about one nope. to much energy | |
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| ever date an on going arguement.
Posted: 11/1/2007 10:00:57 PM | | My ex positivly strived on conflict! I used to say the second worst thing you could do to her is to tell her she is wrong. The absolute worst thing would be to prove it to her! | |
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Joined: 10/19/2007
Msg: 57 | |
| ever date an on going arguement.
Posted: 11/1/2007 10:25:41 PM | Yeah I did twice and one lasted 4 years, unfortunately. Was enough for 'other' outside forces to get involved and keeping us from killing each other. *joke* Obviously though childish bickering and arguing over absolutely everything is grounds for total cut off.  | |
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| ever date an on going arguement.
Posted: 11/1/2007 10:48:53 PM | I am wondering how people can have such ugliness and hatred for themselves that they would make such a veiled attempt at chastising one another on a public forum, inside of a dating site.
More more more medications are needed for these two, WHOEVER THE F THEY ARE.
Where are the moderators when you REALLY need them??????? | |
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| ever date an on going arguement.
Posted: 11/2/2007 2:05:10 AM | | Dated one that was already on thin ice. He always made it public for the first time he would disagree with me in public. I wam not about to argue with him in front of strangers over, the thing I saw in the sky at a Bed and breakfast and ruin everyone's breakfast. But he made it known that my eyes "played tricks on me" and I THINK I saw it", etc. Even after I proved to him that it was planet Mars, he continued. Then I noticed this about other things. No benefit of the doubt whatsoever. What a dork. Someone like that will never be in your corner. Would not make a good relationship, that's for sure! | |
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nmwjmw
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Joined: 6/23/2007
Msg: 60 | |
| ever date an on going arguement.
Posted: 11/18/2007 11:22:38 AM | | ok so, I figured out what sort of person this is by having a class with him..... yuck. It doesnt matter what you say he has a counter... He brags as well. If you tell him he is annoying it would turn into one of his strengths?????? ummmm yeah....Have fun at John Hopkins University... better get through math 60 first though pal...... seriously he said he was accepted and he is currently enrolled in math 60. I asked him why... he said it was because he wanted to have a firm grip on the concepts so he is taking it as an audit. reasonable enough. | |
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Posted: 11/18/2007 11:44:24 AM | I had an even better one! She felt that if she was calm and worded everything just right she could insult me and put me down... Tried to make it sound like it's a tone that makes something an insult, not what was said!
One time she stated that my energy that day was very positive, and why was that? I told her it was because I had walked with God in my heart all day, and that he filled me with what he felt I needed... Her reply was, you should stop fooling yourself......
I just said your right! You should leave....
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| ever date an on going arguement.
Posted: 11/18/2007 2:47:56 PM | Not a living thesaurus, but a man who always corrected me, even when I was sharing MY (emphasis only) memories of a trip we took. I told a friend about seeing ferries that were taller than a 5 storey apartment building, he'd say, "Nah. They were as tall as a 4 storey building."
If I said something cost $20, he would say, "No it didn't. It was $19.97."
If I said that we went west on I 94, he'd say, "No. We went east."
He was not only annoying, but lasted much longer with me than he would have if he were in my life now.
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Posted: 11/18/2007 4:06:47 PM | I dated someone that always had to win. He would say "Where do you want to go? I`ll
take you wherever you want. then I would tell him and he would say, No I would rather go here. and that is where we would go. " He wold always go to the same bakery
to get sweet rolls and eat them in front of me, ( I love them and can`t eat them because of a wheat allergy) Then I would suggest maybe next time we go somewhere where I could get something too. Well, he would go right back to the same place again and ask me what I wanted, knowing full well I couldn`t eat any of it, and then go without eating and watch him again. He did this several times. He argued every little detail and was bound determined to have a conflict about everything and win.. He kept doing that same thing until I asked him not to ever talk to me again. He wouldn`t do that either. He e-mailed again. Then I told him that if he didn`t leave me alone I would
take legal action. that, he didn`t argue with. Gee wonder why he has problems with women? | |
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nmwjmw
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Joined: 6/23/2007
Msg: 64 | |
| ever date an on going arguement.
Posted: 11/19/2007 9:21:06 PM | so sorry merry0709 some people are just plan inconsiderate and selfish... Good reason to say byeeeeeeeee | |
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Posted: 11/19/2007 9:54:52 PM | | I was dating some one a few years back,Who tried to make me decide between my Dauhter, and and herself ? Let's just say there was 'nt much of a conversation after that. | |
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| ever date an on going arguement.
Posted: 8/13/2008 11:24:37 PM | Thank God ,I have not dated a person like that ,but I have a co worker who does that and it is tiring and dragging me down, so I don't talk to her anymore,just good morning and bye. | |
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Joined: 7/19/2008
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| ever date an on going arguement.
Posted: 8/14/2008 12:05:44 AM | | I dated a guy who fought with me all the time over the little things. One night we had a screaming match over (of all things) the Underground Railroad. He swore the name came because the trails took people through "flat" terrain with mountains on either side so they were literally "under the ground of the mountains". I have a history degree and he said I must not have learned anything in school if I didn't know that simple fact. We literally almost broke up over that fight...mainly because I couldn't believe I was dating such an idiot lol. | |
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Posted: 8/14/2008 12:13:04 AM | LAMO..I WOULD BE MESSING UP ON PURPOSE JUST TO **** WITH HER...LMAO..OBVIOUSLY THERE IS NO LOVE LOST..LOL | |
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Posted: 8/14/2008 3:51:07 AM | I dated a man a few years ago who would say more better instead of better or best. At first I would correct him, but soon realized that that phrase, along with so many others, was such an ingrained part of his speech he would never change.
I ran into him at the mall the other day, and he said that he liked his new job "more better" than the old one. Grooooaaaaannnnnnn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  | |
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Posted: 8/14/2008 5:23:16 AM | | I have been in the company of this kind of person and it's a red flag as to their obnoxious need to try to control others. If someone begins challenging me early on, I give 'em the heave-ho. | |
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| ever date an on going arguement.
Posted: 5/30/2009 4:52:18 AM |
OMG! This reminds of a guy I dated. He had to dissect everything I said and turn it around against me. He was brilliant at it. He never forgot anything I ever said either.
This reminds me of the husband of 20 years I have. He never forgets anything I told him, he has it all classified to use it against me anytime. He remembers boyfriends and events I even forgot - or maybe he made up.
Funny thing......he doesn't remember what he did yesterday!!! He has an acute case of selective memory. | |
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