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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 6/30/2008 10:41:30 AM | nope an never,,
as long as the wind will continue to blow an they can still "rise" to the occasion or atleast pop a little blue pill to make it rise.. men will never stop sniffing for an searching for a new piece of ass, even when they have the most wonderful an attractive woman at home waiting for them..at the most that would only slow them down,but it surely wont put a stop to them hunting for some booty...
so as they say if you can't "beat em join em" women can do it to,, why should we sit an wait on a man hand an foot an be faithful or care about him an his needs,,while he goes out an chases booty all the time,women can go out an have fun to an be players..why not..
for once make them sit by the phone or at home alone an wait for us to call or come by make them wait,tell them sweet lies an make promises that we know we will never keep, take the cash an run..hey 2 can play this game. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 6/30/2008 10:52:08 AM | Far too much pessimism ladies.
Men take themselves off the market all the time and stay off the market.
I've found that people in GREAT relationships dissappear into their own world.
Thus you aren't running into them and dating them because they're spoken for. That's the relationship many of us want.
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 6/30/2008 10:56:42 AM | Do men stop looking AT other women? absoulutly not!..there would be something wrong with them if they did. If they say they do................They are liars!
Do men stop looking FOR other women?...I believe they do when they find THEIR right woman. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 6/30/2008 11:03:47 AM | The question should be "Do PEOPLE ever stop looking for another?" The men aren't the only ones "guilty" of this.............
In my experience with the online dating; most don't (operative word MOST). It seems that people just want to get the "bigger and better prize". It could be right in front of them, but for one reason or another they are never satisfied. As a result, it becomes like the "kid in a candy store" syndrome.
I also believe that there are A LOT of people that have been "burnt" by their past relationships and have great difficulties committing or even knowing when a good thing is present. Almost like we find fault where it does not exist.
After one date, it is a rarity that someone will ask to be in a relationship with you. It takes a little more time than one date to figure out if this person could possibly possess the qualities that another desires. At least, that is what I believe. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 6/30/2008 12:24:20 PM | Thank you "Obsidian"....Yes, the good men do that!
I've read about too many females that just don't seem to know how to be honest, communicate, or date properly on here thus so much pessimism or too much  so why would a good man stop the eyes or wondering around? | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 6/30/2008 12:46:52 PM | men never stop looking for women, I mean really so they give or get a phone number
they continue getting more numbers so they can pick the best woman. Why settle.
Keep talking to all the women until one of them puts out and then even then they keep
wanting more phone numbers so the can continue doing the same damn thing
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 6/30/2008 1:57:09 PM | I can understand your concern as I find myself in the same situation. I've been seeing someone since February and changed my profile to not single/not looking after a few months and started telling people if contacted that I was seeing someone. I never gave much thought to him being on as I was as well and we continued messaging here. Then, my computer was down for a 10 day period and when I got it up and running again, I saw he had made an ever so slight change in his profile...not really anything different than what had been there but a change none the less.
Needless to say, this sent me into crazy mode for a few days before I finally asked him about it and even then, I still had another week of crazy mode. Now I know that much of my issue on the whole situation stems from past experiences and it's not fair for me to make him shoulder the trunk other people have filled. In all honesty, he might be talking to other people I really don't know but he's given me know reason to believe I can't trust him in this or any other area. If someone contacts me, I'll message them back...I'm very up front on my situation with them.
Will I ask him to delete and/or change his profile? Today, I say no because if and when he does, I want it to be his choice not mine. I would like to think though, that at some point we will decide together to leave the pond. In the meantime, I'll continue browsing the forums and TRUST! | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 6/30/2008 7:09:51 PM | I think it's so hard for the men of this type to settle for just one woman for a few different reasons. They are so used to clicking and seeing something new, so they get programmed that way. They are sooooo scared that if they are just with one woman, they will end up without her and be alone, so they keep looking for backups. They have no consequences for their actions; women accept it, so there is no incentive for them to do anything different.
So if you are a woman, and you accept being so-called "friend-zoned" even though he messaged you but then tells you oh he's dating someone, if he ever quits dating his someone and wants to date you, do you say no, I know how you date? Or do you date him because he's a good potential match? Do you bother to keep in contact with all these guys who want to create harems in email and in person too? Just to be included in his harem?? | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 6/30/2008 7:30:24 PM | | I believe they stop looking when they find the right woman. They could be very attracted to you but do not regard you as the right woman (at least not yet). A man will say he wants a relationship with you on the first date when he really wants "relations". There's a difference. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 6/30/2008 7:33:36 PM | | I think with as many options as there on the internet it would be foolish to believe that any man stops looking or doesn't keep his options open and I am sure women do this too. I know from experience, I have been very foolish. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 6/30/2008 7:48:53 PM |
I believe they stop looking when they find the right woman. They could be very attracted to you but do not regard you as the right woman (at least not yet). A man will say he wants a relationship with you on the first date when he really wants "relations". There's a difference.
Yes..I don't get the pessimism here. If your man is totally into you he's not going to be looking at other women. If he's ok with
being with her but she's not the final destination he's waiting for the next train.
Too many people are willing to accept half baked love.
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 6/30/2008 7:51:49 PM | Well
Yes it feels like its if they are playing games doesnt it? Some are and others of course are not. I say this becasue in the real world of dating, especially on this type of site or thing...when you meet or talk to someone its wide open...you really dont know who any one is or who they will become in your life....time will tell...
In the true sense of the word "Dating" is that people are single and open to date anyone or as many people as they feel they would like to date and this is healthy. Its almost like viewing it as being a free agent like a basketballro or hockey player etc...with no contract...sex well have sex with as many to...which is still healthy but thats specifically dating.....
On the other hand , if they have specifically stated they would like to be "exclusive" with you but continue with the POF thing and have an active profile...well thats a different story altogether and they are a player...run like hell from those...and if they use some excuse like they have friends they can simply use the telephone . If they are that honest, serious and genuine about the relationship(exclusive) they would in my humble opinion remove their profile since they have met a compatable match...that has feelings....
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 6/30/2008 7:52:32 PM | Well
Yes it feels like its if they are playing games doesnt it? Some are and others of course are not. I say this becasue in the real world of dating, especially on this type of site or thing...when you meet or talk to someone its wide open...you really dont know who any one is or who they will become in your life....time will tell...
In the true sense of the word "Dating" is that people are single and open to date anyone or as many people as they feel they would like to date and this is healthy. Its almost like viewing it as being a free agent like a basketballro or hockey player etc...with no contract...sex well have sex with as many to...which is still healthy but thats specifically dating.....
On the other hand , if they have specifically stated they would like to be "exclusive" with you but continue with the POF thing and have an active profile...well thats a different story altogether and they are a player...run like hell from those...and if they use some excuse like they have friends they can simply use the telephone . If they are that honest, serious and genuine about the relationship(exclusive) they would in my humble opinion remove their profile since they have met a compatable match...that has feelings....
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 6/30/2008 8:05:20 PM | hellofagal, you wrote:
"men are promiscuous..period.....Only men spread diseases.."
YIKES, talk about sweeping generalizations!!!
I know women who've done both...
Let's be honest, men are human...the type of man varies WIDELY, just as the type of woman can vary WIDELY! There are, like in statistics, extreme outliers, on both sides of the curve.....men who are extremely promiscuous sex addicts and on the other side, men who are the opposite...
In between these two extreme outlier groups, are the majority of men's sexual behavior...
Some men, like BODYGUARD, or Tom Lankis and his "students", will always be searching for a new conquest...I wont even go into why that is...another thread...
Others, just as previous people pointed out, just know when they've found the right woman...they just stop chasing...their priorities change...sort of like when a man becomes a father for the first time.....he usually matures in ways he never knew were possible.....
Sorry this happened to you, Bamagirl....but keep your chin up...love awaits you, doll!!
Peace, Blessings,
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 6/30/2008 10:45:40 PM |
Some men, like BODYGUARD, or Tom Lankis and his "students", will always be searching for a new conquest...I wont even go into why that is...another thread... I believe you are referring to that idiot, Tom Leykis. When it comes to dating gurus, personally I think David DeAngelo is the only one who knows what he's talking about. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 7/1/2008 12:10:14 PM | I have realized, thats just how men are on this website, Always looking for something better...... Its like an addiction, to come home or wake up , log in and see who their latest interested hopefulls are , and if shes better looking, its almost a given , your going on the 'backburner' .
This is why my profile says " not fishing"..... | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 7/1/2008 12:32:59 PM | I'm not a serial dater, so if I'm dating someone who I want to be in a relationship I don't continue looking. I know if I want to see someone again after the first date. If there is more connection on the second date, I stop looking for the potential for a relationship. I'd like to go exclusive after two weeks of seeing someone.
It seems that people just want to get the "bigger and better prize". It could be right in front of them, but for one reason or another they are never satisfied. As a result, it becomes like the "kid in a candy store" syndrome
Agreed, everyone on these forums is guilty of this, they keep saying they don't want to settle for anything but the best. So they date and date and date. Finding many potential great people, yet they choose to keep dating for the next best thing. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 7/1/2008 12:43:33 PM | | He's a player pure and simple, by giving you his number means nothing to him and you are most probably in a long line of women who has his number. Ignore him delete his number and even take him off your fav's list if he's on there, do yourself a favour and move on just like he is doing its just a shame he has to use women to flatter his male ego so go on put a dent in it lol | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 7/1/2008 4:27:57 PM | I guess he was a GREAT LIAR and now I see how stupid I was to have trusted and believed him.
^^^ aw, bama, you weren't stupid. you trusted him. don't beat yourself up over it. move on and learn something from it (but try not to become cynical). best wishes. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 7/1/2008 9:42:18 PM | | When I was in my last relationship I didnt go out and look for anyone, I didnt need to because I loved her with all my heart. And even now Iv tried to meet other women, but I just cant do anything else but talk to them about her. So yeah we do stop looking for women. Well some of us. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 7/2/2008 3:12:06 PM |
I have realized, thats just how men are on this website, Always looking for something better...... Its like an addiction, to come home or wake up , log in and see who their latest interested hopefulls are , and if shes better looking, its almost a given , your going on the 'backburner' .
C'mon now "missexyprincess"....'trick' women do that on here just as much as the 'trick' men do. | |
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