| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 6/30/2008 10:45:40 PM |
Some men, like BODYGUARD, or Tom Lankis and his "students", will always be searching for a new conquest...I wont even go into why that is...another thread... I believe you are referring to that idiot, Tom Leykis. When it comes to dating gurus, personally I think David DeAngelo is the only one who knows what he's talking about. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 7/1/2008 12:10:14 PM | I have realized, thats just how men are on this website, Always looking for something better...... Its like an addiction, to come home or wake up , log in and see who their latest interested hopefulls are , and if shes better looking, its almost a given , your going on the 'backburner' .
This is why my profile says " not fishing"..... | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 7/1/2008 12:32:59 PM | I'm not a serial dater, so if I'm dating someone who I want to be in a relationship I don't continue looking. I know if I want to see someone again after the first date. If there is more connection on the second date, I stop looking for the potential for a relationship. I'd like to go exclusive after two weeks of seeing someone.
It seems that people just want to get the "bigger and better prize". It could be right in front of them, but for one reason or another they are never satisfied. As a result, it becomes like the "kid in a candy store" syndrome
Agreed, everyone on these forums is guilty of this, they keep saying they don't want to settle for anything but the best. So they date and date and date. Finding many potential great people, yet they choose to keep dating for the next best thing. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 7/1/2008 12:43:33 PM | | He's a player pure and simple, by giving you his number means nothing to him and you are most probably in a long line of women who has his number. Ignore him delete his number and even take him off your fav's list if he's on there, do yourself a favour and move on just like he is doing its just a shame he has to use women to flatter his male ego so go on put a dent in it lol | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 7/1/2008 4:27:57 PM | I guess he was a GREAT LIAR and now I see how stupid I was to have trusted and believed him.
^^^ aw, bama, you weren't stupid. you trusted him. don't beat yourself up over it. move on and learn something from it (but try not to become cynical). best wishes. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 7/1/2008 9:42:18 PM | | When I was in my last relationship I didnt go out and look for anyone, I didnt need to because I loved her with all my heart. And even now Iv tried to meet other women, but I just cant do anything else but talk to them about her. So yeah we do stop looking for women. Well some of us. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 7/2/2008 3:12:06 PM |
I have realized, thats just how men are on this website, Always looking for something better...... Its like an addiction, to come home or wake up , log in and see who their latest interested hopefulls are , and if shes better looking, its almost a given , your going on the 'backburner' .
C'mon now "missexyprincess"....'trick' women do that on here just as much as the 'trick' men do. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 7/2/2008 3:21:54 PM | | Kloppers right, but for some its not the fact of looking for something better, its more of a selfesteem boost. Because when theyre on here theyve put there self out there. And let everyone see them and just about everything about them. So not everyones out to find something better on here. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 7/2/2008 3:54:41 PM | As my LTR-Mate.....
If you'd like to look over my shoulder...while I write to _FRIENDS_ on POF . .
Go right ahead..!!
....or....have I found the wrong partner...???
Just because I'm a member, here.....doesn't mean that I'm Actively looking for Another Relationship...!!! | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 7/3/2008 6:04:32 AM | Cowboy thats only because it is way too soon for you. What are you doing on this site already if you have been in a relationship for a year? If you loved her half as much as you claim, you wouldnt be here looking in less than a week. Relationships take time to heal. WAY MORE than a week or two, Love!
Some relationships , depending on personality and commitment, and etc..(so many factors) because some people really have a hard time,...but some take months to heal, but no matter what...if you just got out of a relationship of a YEAR, it is NORMAL for you to be hurting after a week or two! Dont rush into a new relationship so soon, Love, because you will only damage NOT ONLY YOURSELF, but the new partner. :)
Im not trying to come down on you hard, just trying to give you some words of wisdom and save you some more heartache ! | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 7/3/2008 6:21:48 AM | I stopped looking, for a woman I eventually married. I travel a lot, and met people who wanted a one night stand, but I mentioned my wife and child, and that was the end of the conversation. I can swear on a stack of Bibles that I never faltered once. Not that I didn't entertain the thought at times, but never went past thinking about it. I was Jimmy Carter as opposed to Bill Clinton.
This same women left me for a guy she met at the gym.
Perhaps the question is, 'Do PEOPLE ever stop looking for another?' | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 7/3/2008 6:59:12 AM | I think its funny how the man gets all the CRAP. Women do this too. There are plenty of women who just want to "PLAY THE FIELD", especially if they gotten married young and missed thier 20's or early 30's.
OP, it's called dateing. Sometimes you have to date a few people to see who you have chemistry, a better connection with, who you can talk with on the level you want and so on. One or 2 dates doesn't mean you have found the perfect person.
As for him being online can be like some said, he made some friends, reads the forums, or maybe he is still looking. And why are you logged in?
Maybe you aren't for him. Maybe he likes you but isn't sure. Just because you got along great doesn't make it that you are "THE ONE". Date more and see what happens. If you are the one for him he will stop going online when its time. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 7/7/2008 6:38:18 AM | I have friends on POF, and Singlesnet. Do I have to give them up because I am in a relationship? Hmm, let me re-think tha drama that comes with a relationship? OK, how about we base our relationship on....trust?  | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 7/7/2008 1:25:55 PM | Hi,
I've never posted on these forums before...
My opinion is that men and women are as bad as one another, and when you find the right person, he may or may not look. We were born to breed so it is natural to take a peek at attractive opposite sex, but if you don't like the person your with, checking out other women maybe he's not for you? In my opinion if your very 'into' someone and you've had the 'exclusive bf/gf' talk then you or him shouldn't need to look on dating websites... theres such things as instant messengers, emailing, phone etc. Main thing is if you dont trust one another then there isn't any point. No trust = bad/no relationship. It's early days, but if you want to know the truth, ask him and also follow your gut instinct... it's normally right well mine is anyway lol.
Good luck,
Louise x | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 9/2/2008 9:57:05 AM | I have seen this time and time again. Don't know, I suppose some men can never be satisfied. And I have found they are like a kid in a candy store on pof, so many women to choose from, they can't decide so they jerk you around. I was stood up just recently, he probably found someone else. On pof. Whatever, I am glad to be rid of him, nice to know how he is. Anyway, I will keep looking untill I find the right one, someone who is happy with me, and doesn't feel the need to keep looking for the holy grail. Good luck | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 9/2/2008 10:35:30 AM | I just hate these comments about "ALL", and "NEVER", on and on, as if each and every person on here, both men and women, are just one way, looking for just one thing, and never will stop or change......
There are as many types of men and women on here, as there will be in most social settings, work settings, and other settings where people will meet and greet.
Maybe if more would concentrate on themselves and what they are doing, offering, and acting, and less on what they want others to do, offer, and act towards them, and for them, that we would not have such selfish acts of immaturity, and lack of self confidence.
There are some of both genders that will always look for more, think that they deserve more, want more, and will not enjoy what is, and what they offer, but constantly seek that next potential offering that maybe will meet ALL their needs.
Most of us on here, and in the real world, are not like that, and really do want to find some that we can relax with and enjoy, and if meant to be more will happen, and if not, we have met someone that helps us along this journey called life, and sees the larger picture of who and what we are, and not just what we demand of others.
Just my opinion......   | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 9/2/2008 11:37:25 AM | | No. Do you imagine that " I love you " also means " I have no interest in ever seeking sexual pleasure with another human being" ? It sounds as if you are very insecure , which can be a real turnoff. And how do you know he's on PoF ? Just snooping through his computer history and emails ? THAT'S certainly attractive. There are forums on PoF, right? Perhaps he's on those. Some profiles state the person is seeking friends and/or activity partners. Or maybe he wants some more lovers. If you are the most loving person you can be and that's not enough for him, so be it. Let him go when you have evidence of infidelity -if you have a prior commitment to mutual fidelity and exclusivity. ( By the way: -Do you ? Or do you merely assume a great deal when dating ?) Someone with self-esteem would sever involvement with a liar, it seems to me, but you don't give us evidence to support your assertion that he is lying. Which makes you sound like a paranoiac, and THAT'S HOTT ! You sound as if you are infatuated and addicted, not loving. If you loved him, you'd want his happiness, whatever that entailed. And if you loved yourself, you'd end "relationships" with people who are not trustworthy. Except occasionally at the Thanksgiving dinner table. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 9/2/2008 11:48:09 AM | | one date or ten dates its called the your ok till something better comes along syndrome, men and women both do it, the only way a relationship will ever work is get off the computer point blank and the sad things is one of the two usualy dont. | |
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| Do men ever stop looking for another woman?
Posted: 9/2/2008 12:33:03 PM | sum1gud "u should NOT trust them until they prove the are trustworthy" ???
WTF?? no wonder relationships are so damn difficult to get started and they don't last very long... our society is starting with the notion of "guilty until proven innocent"!
This is the dumbest thing I've ever heard! Obviously a lot of the people who are on here are still bittier about their previous relationships... Why should the next person pay for the last persons mistakes? You people are like the damaged cans in the supermarket.. You can see the damage but you give them a chance because whats inside may be good, but they end up giving you indigestion anyhow!
Get over yourself and move on. Not everyone is on here to see how big of a harem they can build.. | |
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