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 Author Thread: Questions about circumcision: Is it too late for a 12 year old to be circumcised?
 colorblindstar

Joined: 8/9/2007
Msg: 26
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Posted: 10/21/2007 4:48:17 PM
The majority of men who are HIV positive have been infected through the penis

There is conclusive epidemiological evidence to show that uncircumcised men are at a much greater risk of becoming infected with HIV than circumcised men

The inner surface of the foreskin contains Langerhans' cells with HIV receptors; these cells are likely to be the primary point of viral entry into the penis of an uncircumcised man

Male circumcision should be seriously considered as an additional means of preventing HIV in all countries with a high prevalence of infection

The development of HIV receptor blockers, which could be applied to the penis or vagina before intercourse, might provide a new form of HIV prevention

The above information was just taken from the British Medical Journal (a reputable academic journal). This was knowledge in 2000.
 colorblindstar

Joined: 8/9/2007
Msg: 27
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Posted: 10/21/2007 4:51:43 PM
"...in all countries with a high prevalence of infection. "

I think perhaps the countries being referred to are those where folklore regarding HIV/AIDS is still considered more reliable than science.
 whitetigeress

Joined: 6/28/2007
Msg: 28
Questions about circumcision: Is it too late for a 12 year old to be circumcised?
Posted: 10/22/2007 7:00:19 AM
upon reading OP's post.. im more concerned with the "kids" who are teasing him

how is it they know he is uncut? and why are they teasing him? most be more to this story

both my boys are uncut and i don't hear/see anyone teasing them so I'm a bit confused about OP's son's situation

i would personally set aside the issue of circumsion and deal with the teasing
 cartmansfriend

Joined: 8/5/2007
Msg: 29
Questions about circumcision: Is it too late for a 12 year old to be circumcised?
Posted: 10/22/2007 8:20:59 AM
Well, I have seen young boys and 100 yr old men get this procedure done ( yes , 100 he lived to 105 ). Its very painful and embarrassing for the boys .He will need reg. check ups post surgery to safe guard against post - op complications and since the majorilty of nurses are female . .......
A little teasing is no biggy..... Of course I agree with the other posts you really should consult a Dr.
my two cents
good luck !!!
 valleyjavastop

Joined: 6/4/2007
Msg: 30
Questions about circumcision: Is it too late for a 12 year old to be circumcised?
Posted: 10/22/2007 9:50:05 AM
my god women ,,he is 12 ,,let it be .
you are to late ...that would hurt hurt like hell.

boys do not tease about that stuff ,boys do not check each other out like that ?they all look the same hard,,they are only concerned with the size .and its mostly all talk ...if someone has been teasing him and he is showing someone ...he might be getting molested? I would investigate the who is teasing thing ...seriously lady ..as noted by whitetigeress above i would personally set aside the issue of circumsion and deal with the teasing and by who ..
 Cwgrlboots

Joined: 7/2/2006
Msg: 31
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Posted: 10/22/2007 1:01:18 PM
12 years old is too young for a child to make such a serious and permanent decision about surgery, IMO.

Many pediatricians are recommending against circumcision.

My thinking is why cut on somebody unless there is a solid medical reason to do so? Good hygiene and preventive practices with sexual partners can take care of some of the concerns that people use to justify this surgery.

Many of my son's friends are not circumcised - around here it seems to be 50/50, with religious practices accounting for those who are.

~Boots~
 valleyjavastop

Joined: 6/4/2007
Msg: 32
Questions about circumcision: Is it too late for a 12 year old to be circumcised?
Posted: 10/22/2007 1:15:18 PM
I don't begrudge your lack of intelligence. Maybe your family tree doesn't branch, maybe you were dropped as a child, maybe you ate paint chips that contained lead... I don't know the reason you're mentally stunted. I do know that not everyone can be of above average intelligence, and those below the median (e.g. you) are no less worthy of respect because of it.

It's your hypocrisy and belligerence that make you such an inviting target for ridicule.

fantastic ,,thats good
 57LEBOWSKI

Joined: 3/2/2006
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Posted: 10/22/2007 1:21:21 PM
Would you consider female circumcision to be non-barbaric if it was performed in a medical procedure, sterilized instruments, and all that? any carving up of a human body-male OR female is BARBARIC. , and as far as no adverse long term effects. perhaps you should consider the mental side of it,,,i love my son and would never consider inflicting the physical and emotional pain that chopping up his penis would do to him...as far as preventing diseases, perhaps you've heard of condoms..or washing?
 57LEBOWSKI

Joined: 3/2/2006
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Posted: 10/22/2007 1:33:24 PM
do the majority of women who are hiv positive become infected through their vaginas?
if so, would this justify surgically removing parts of said vaginas, or does your barbaric approach to the problem just applie to men? perhaps we should just mutilate everyone in countries with a high prevalence of infection.
 Cascadian

Joined: 8/19/2007
Msg: 35
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Posted: 10/22/2007 2:31:03 PM
Funny thing is that I dont feel ridicule at all. You feeble attempt is honourable but you havent managed to hurt my feelings so your attempts are in vain.
Next.
 57LEBOWSKI

Joined: 3/2/2006
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Posted: 10/22/2007 3:43:35 PM
how long before we see a circumcision on Jackass?maybe thats the reason behind this 12 yr old boys desire?to be famous on you tube? i got teased once or twice growing up, in my teens, but as i pointed out to the f-tards teasing me, i had an extra 1/2 in. of penis that they didnt have, and in male statistics, 1/2 an in. is a lot.
 Pucks

Joined: 10/14/2006
Msg: 37
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Posted: 10/22/2007 3:52:13 PM
My balls hurt just from reading this crap about circumcision.

What a disgusting procedure.

As for those HIV remarks, please, all that is needed is wraping your pinto up.
Getting cut isnt going to matter if your dont protect the penis anyway.

You'll get a green gumbie if you go bare back.
 Fiveteneh

Joined: 8/23/2006
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Posted: 10/22/2007 4:42:01 PM
Pucks,
I agree that circumcision isn't the best way to avoid HIV. I stated that it DOES reduce the risk of infection, and that the World Health Organization is now recommending circumcision as a method of slowing the spread of HIV. Wrapping your pinto is essential, but even that doesn't completely eliminate the risk (Trojan's slogan is "Reduce the Risk").

Lebowski, if any carving of the human body is barbaric, then appendectomies are barbaric. Lumpectomies and mastectomies are also barbaric. Delivering a baby by C-section is barbaric. And so it is with any surgery. Yet, in some cases these procedures are necessary to save lives. Should we condemn them?

If you use the term barbaric to describe any carving of the human body, you end up with hundreds of barbarous acts in our hospitals every day. Barbarism becomes the norm, and the word loses any descriptive value.

My objection to the original statement was that the hyperbole went too far; likening all Jews to barbarians is a bit extreme.

As for the long term mental health effects of circumcision... how many circumsized men do you know that remember anything about their circumcision? True, they may subconsciously remember the pain, just as they might subconsciously remember the pain of their head being squished by contractions during labour. How would you know which pain, if any, is at the root of the mental health problem?
 57LEBOWSKI

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Posted: 10/22/2007 4:45:44 PM
to get back to the point,, i was distracted by fiveteno's attack on cascadian,,,,please, please, petite2760,,,do every thing you can to dissuade your son from having this surgical procedure,,,explain the severe pain he will go through to end up with a smaller penis---many men will willingly go through painful experiences for cosmetic effect,,,but few men desire a smaller, less sensitive penis,,,,,,knowledge about hygiene and safe sex practises cover any disease issues,,,without amputation of a body part...
to be blunt,,at 12 yrs old he has already discovered masturbation,,,or soon will...believe me..i was that age,as every man was,,,,he's going to have his hands full for the next 20-50 yrs...., please do not let him mutilate himself,,,he WILL thank you, in the long run.be firm..cosmetic surgery is the LAST answer.
 not spongebob square pant

Joined: 12/22/2005
Msg: 40
Questions about circumcision: Is it too late for a 12 year old to be circumcised?
Posted: 10/22/2007 4:54:58 PM
Let the child get a little older then let it be there decision and theres alone after consultations with drs...no one has the right to make that decision this late in the game, except the one that has to live with their decision.

 Pantherrrrr642001

Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 41
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Posted: 10/22/2007 9:01:01 PM
Ok everyone.... lets stay ON TOPIC and not bash other posters or this thread will be closed,.....sooooooo that means "NEVER argue with an idiot they will simply drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience"

BTW once again I will state,........it's penises or penes NOT peni.!!!
 Cascadian

Joined: 8/19/2007
Msg: 42
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Posted: 10/22/2007 9:09:35 PM
Hey we men will decide what we call our own d1cks. Not you.
Stick to your own genatalia.
Anyway you dont even have that right it would be penis'
not penises
Is English your second language? I liked it when the other guy asked that.
 * mb728 *

Joined: 7/13/2007
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Posted: 10/23/2007 12:38:45 AM
just some more up to datefacts to consider for OP

In March 2007 the World Health Organization and UNAIDS recognized male circumcision as an effective intervention for HIV prevention, but warned that male circumcision only provides partial protection and should not replace other interventions to prevent the heterosexual transmission of HIV.[14] Circumcision may also be used to treat inflammation of the glans and penile cancer.[15][16] Using circumcision to treat phimosis (see section below) is debated in medical literature.[17][18]


HPV (Human Papilloma Virus)
Despite the development of an HPV vaccine, some researchers argue that routine neonatal male circumcision is an acceptable way to lower the risk of cervical cancer in their future female sexual partners.
 TravellerSEB

Joined: 6/14/2007
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Posted: 10/23/2007 7:00:20 AM

explain the severe pain he will go through to end up with a smaller penis


Holy misinformation, Batman!! Smaller penis? Where on earth are you getting that from? If you mean a millimetre or two shorter, perhaps there might be some truth to that.


but few men desire a smaller, less sensitive penis


Actually I know many who want a less sensitive penis - it means they can last longer. I've even heard them argue that's a good reason to get circumcised. All those in favour were chopped as infants, presumably, can't imagine they'd be willing to do it as adults although who knows...

Anyway, if the kid has made it to the age of 12 with his foreskin he might as well wait another 6 years till he's old enough to decide for himself.
 valleyjavastop

Joined: 6/4/2007
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Posted: 10/23/2007 1:40:18 PM

Actually I know many who want a less sensitive penis - it means they can last longer. I've even heard them argue that's a good reason to get circumcised.



,,thats what I would call a true co dependent .
 petite2760

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Posted: 10/24/2007 6:40:37 PM
Common people, stop bickering . I need opinions here.

As to the questions why my son is being teased, in Grade 4, sex education was being introduced at their school. I don't think anyone has seen his organ nor has he been molested. He must have discussed it with some kids at school.

What he is blaming me for, is why wasn't he circumcised when he was a baby. He knows it will hurt excruciatingly now as he is older if surgery is done.

I have taught my son personal hygiene on uncircumcised penis. This is also part of the reason as to why he disliked not being circumcised.

As to the sexual intercourse part of it, I have been told by a couple of friends that they prefer circumcised one. Personally, I have no experience on this.

People, let's try not to insult one another here PLEASE... Thank you for all the comments and if I can get more input that'll be greatly appreciated.
 57LEBOWSKI

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Posted: 10/24/2007 7:56:52 PM
sorry about straying from your question.....personally(only my opinion), i think he should wait a few years,,he may not accept that he is too young to make an irreversible descision like this, but he is .there are plenty of arguements for each side, but once its gone, it's gone
as far as the sexual intercourse part, theres as many opinions as there are cut/uncut men in this world....good luck with your situation.
 fishhere

Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 48
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Posted: 10/25/2007 12:37:34 PM
It's totally not too late. It's by choice these days. If he really wants it done - good for him (hygiene sake). That’s my opinion :D
 Pucks

Joined: 10/14/2006
Msg: 49
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Posted: 10/25/2007 12:43:27 PM
"good for him (hygiene sake)"..

source please?

that is a myth to use circumcision because of hygiene reasons.
you just clean the penis just like any other part of the body.

omg the ignorance is a shame.
 fishhere

Joined: 10/15/2007
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Posted: 10/25/2007 4:46:58 PM
why won't you read this.. help broaden your mind... http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/menshealth/facts/circumcision.htm

if you dont' want to do it.. don't do it, no one is making you!
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