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aza111
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| Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person?
Posted: 10/21/2007 8:46:47 PM | She most likely cares if you got a BJ from her. If it is less than wonderful she most likely does not love you.
There is a big difference in liking and loving someone. You can care for someone you like you just may not be that into him.
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aza111
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Joined: 10/8/2007
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aza111
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Joined: 10/8/2007
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| Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person?
Posted: 10/22/2007 2:34:46 PM | pentree69
My lips what to be there for man I love 's ****24/7. If I like a man he does not get !
No the difference is if you are loved you get it, if you are liked you do not, that is for many of us.
Never swallow or spit does not matter how much love there is that is too much to ask. If giving a bj anytime he or I feel like it (among other activities) is not enough well sorry
Again, yes for the man I love! | |
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| Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person?
Posted: 10/22/2007 4:43:41 PM | | Yes. You've got to like/love the person. And you would want her to like/love everything you do. In this case it's showing how much you like/love her that you'll gladly give her pleasure to her hearts content. And of course you have to be good at it or at least learn the way that gets her to completion. | |
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| Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person?
Posted: 10/22/2007 5:09:42 PM | YES, YES, YES. I'm not into doing ANYTHING with someone unless I've developed real feelings for them.
I find that WAY too many people will have intercourse and/or oral with just about ANYONE they go on a date with. This blows my mind. Why in the world would you do such an intimate act - give of yourself so completely - with someone you don't even know and couldn't possibly care about?
So naturally this brings me to kissing, which I hold in just as high regard as sex (sometimes more).
Do you find it odd that I don't want to kiss you, a total stranger on a first date? Keep on questioning then, because unless I feel a VERY strong connection and believe that we will be sharing a bond of some sort...I have no intention of kissing you.
The pleasure of kissing someone is something that is earned - by both of us. | |
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| Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person?
Posted: 10/22/2007 5:36:01 PM | My own experience is that great oral sex does NOT depend on how much you like/love someone.
My experience is that great oral sex / someone giving me oral sex, depends more on the woman's own comfort with the whole act of oral sex. Some of the women even when they said that they loved me, were adamant that they would not do it, but that was for them more an issue of not being comfortable themselves with the "mechanics" as well as not having experienced the process before. When I gently brought or guided them through the "process" it was mutually satisfying for both of us. It could also be that they felt that since I was comfortable and gave them great oral sex, why not reciprocate. Yeah, yeah, yeah - I know God's gifted tongue to women ----  
I have recieved great oral sex from someone who wasn't in love with me at the beginning, yeah - the third date - but man oh man the kissing - lip to lip on the 2nd date was mindblowing! - thank god that turned into a long term relationship! | |
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| Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person?
Posted: 10/22/2007 7:07:12 PM | | I think this carries much merrit. I know when I really fall for a woman and develop strong feelings, i go the extra mile to please her in this way and truthfully I enjoy it much more. I had never thought about a womans side of it, but i guess it is probably the same. I have to say I also enjoy her more if she is shaved, and if she wishes for the same, well hell, do it for her. | |
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| Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person?
Posted: 10/22/2007 7:51:47 PM | I can't even comment on this as bad as I want to because the repercussion would be so great and the hate mail as well,, but I gotta say one thing,,, IF your going to do it... DO IT THE BEST YOU CAN or don't bother. If I decide that I'm going to give the male that is with me oral sex, you can bet your bottom that I like him alot and I'm into him big time, and he's leaving with the memory of that experience burned in his brain.
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| Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person?
Posted: 10/23/2007 1:49:01 AM | The whole making love thing is an intimate thing and that's what it is. So when I get naked I do whatever I can to please my partner. If I didn't love the person I was with I wouldn't be there in the first place.
The difference is making love and casual sex, I don't do the latter it's as empty as masturbation. | |
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| Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person?
Posted: 10/23/2007 2:16:06 AM | | There is oral sex...and then there is 'great' oral sex. Great oral sex and love go together..somehow...to each his and her own explanation of it. All I can say is...'great' oral sex has 'great' memories' of something much more...before, during, and after. Mmmm.. | |
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aza111
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Joined: 10/8/2007
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