| Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person?
Posted: 10/25/2007 7:29:11 AM | Didnt you know Claire? On places like this self delusion is the new black lol
When someone has an itch they can magically transform even the faintest hint of sufference into "true love" whether or not they have even met the person yet lol
Once the itch has been scratched tho, they then suddently find the flaws that were blatantly obvious beforehand, but had to be ignored till the itch was scratched and then end it feigning heartbreak and claiming they were decieved, lied to or played to maintain their delusionary self image of "wholesomeness"
On the brightside tho, its a giggle to watch 
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| Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person?
Posted: 10/25/2007 7:48:22 AM | I could probably do a fair job of it but if your heart isn't into it & you don't really care if your partner is needing to be peeled off the ceiling then no it's not going to be as good for them.
Same would go for me.
Another thing - I ain't into sport f*cking so if I don't care it just ain't happening. | |
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| Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person?
Posted: 10/25/2007 8:43:19 AM | | I feel its a knowledge thing more for women than for men. I know that it was great for my wife when she received it from me from the start over 10 years ago, but there have been many little nuances and changes that have made it even better for her, Now on to her for me...definitely its more of a learning curve..she was very inexperienced and had been married before and also dated a lot of other guys but her technique had never been commented upon..leading to a pretty lame experience for me in comparison to what you expect. Of course I know (not from experience..LOL) that it is harder to stomach doing a man because of the finish as well as the gag reflex..not to mention I bet there are some real winners in the personal hygiene dept...so once she and I bonded and talked a few sessions through...well now she is one of the best and I would be proud to compare her to anyone....if your woman really loves you and wants to please you...or vice versa to the men...then you need to talk and explain what's up and what would make you get more up.... | |
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aza111
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Joined: 10/8/2007
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| Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person?
Posted: 10/25/2007 11:22:49 AM | Good one claire2282. Some people just babble on and should start their own forum since they do not understand the question. The question is not about advise to those who think it is.
Also for all of those who post comments regarding being confused on love, and lust. I am not confused over the difference between the two. I really feel for all of you that are confused.
It blows my mind how many men do not understand the question on this forum! | |
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| Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person?
Posted: 10/25/2007 11:37:22 AM | | Ok, well let me make it a little clearer for the ones who are not getting it yet. For me, oral sex is not for someone i just met! There is no question of doing it half heartedly, when i do it it means i like that person a great deal and so i put my all into it, because pleasing them pleases me! As for sex generally, no i do not have to love the person because for me making love is part of falling in love and i cannot love someone if i do not know them inside and out....and yes, this includes their bedside manner i'm afraid! Oral sex is much more intimate than regular sex and i do not want to run around performing it on people i only "like", but i will have sex with them because to me that is just another bodily function and not nearly as intimate. | |
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| Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person?
Posted: 10/25/2007 2:15:23 PM | | Oral sex, humm. Definitly not with anybody, only after some feelings of intimacy are developed does the thought enter my thoughts. It takes a lot for me to go down on someone, I have this hesitation about it so would have to feel good about the women to go there. | |
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aza111
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Joined: 10/8/2007
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| Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person?
Posted: 10/25/2007 10:55:42 PM | clair2282. I agree with you. I was not being sarcastic if I came across that way , sorry.
Anyway, your post...very well put. Oral sex is more intimate than regular sex I agree. I have to be in love too. Liking someone does not cut it for me either. Why would anyone go around performing oral sex on people they just like? Their mouths must be soar or they do not like allot of people lol!
I have high morals. Sex is meant to bring people closer and deeper in love, not to waste and give away like yesterdays left overs. | |
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| Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person?
Posted: 12/9/2007 7:14:04 PM | | yeah completely I have only done it a couple times to a couple different guys... and I dont really like receiving it especially from someone that I dont love, cuse it just feels weird to me. if i dont really like the person my tongue is not going anywhere close to them no matter how drunk i am lol | |
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| Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person?
Posted: 12/13/2007 5:28:20 PM | | I definitely spend a lot more time on being creative and making it exciting when I am truly in love. You have to care strongly for someone to put that much thought and imagination into making it great.I've only ever deepthroated one man and he is my greatest love. It's been a long time since I did that to someone I just 'liked' and I've not put the effort into it as with someone I 'love'. | |
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