| Why are you still SINGLE?
Posted: 4/30/2007 6:22:48 AM | | I just got out of a relationship, I have very high standards and if a guy doesnt meet all of them then I just have to find someone else. Im sure once I want to be in a relationship again I might stop being so picky, but I will still have high standards. | |
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| Why are you still SINGLE?
Posted: 4/30/2007 8:21:03 AM | why am I still single? Probably because I've been focused on other aspects of my life the last few years. When my marriage ended, my son needed lots of my attention and my energy went to him, work and working through some things. It's been a good time to re-evaluate y priorities and to strengthen my bond with my kiddo. He's not as needy now and spending ore time with his dad and so I'm at a point where I am feeling freer to get out on my own more. Should be interesting!  | |
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| Why are you still SINGLE?
Posted: 5/9/2007 1:18:28 PM | Cause I have too much stuff to do around my house..
I haven't found Mr. Right yet ( not sure yet, we shall see)
Because there are too many Mr. Right Now's out there !!! | |
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| Why are you still SINGLE?
Posted: 6/11/2007 8:38:40 PM | I'm still single because I'm really not trying to even date.
I'm open to the possibility of dating and having a boyfriend... but I have a lot I want to do and keep myself busy with... so I've been doing that instead.
I think part of it is an "exploring myself" thing.
No dirty comments from the peanut gallery! | |
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| Why are you still SINGLE?
Posted: 6/12/2007 12:40:57 AM | Why am I still single?
Because the great majority of women want to be lied to.
Most won't admit to themselves but men lie because it works.
I'm single because most of the women I see add negative value to my life. They add problems and costs and give me little in return, that being great, enjoyable sex but no, that's can't happen. | |
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| Why are you still SINGLE?
Posted: 6/12/2007 12:54:08 PM | Because I don't find many men I'm attracted to these days. And when I do, other things like time to see each other get in the way! | |
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a1na2
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Joined: 10/3/2006
Msg: 632 | |
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| Why are you still SINGLE?
Posted: 6/29/2007 3:50:08 PM | Well I find as I get older I get a little more picky, I just dont want repeats of the bs from the past so i tend to weed out the ones I know won't work.. But I did join here so maybe their's hope for me yet..  If it doesnt happen then I,m not going to cry about it..
Plus I couldn't date for a good 6 or 7 years because I was helping out a loved one with some medical problems and then it took me a while after that before I was ready and by then I had forgotten how to date really.. Now that I,ve had a few relationships again I,m ready to go and look again. If I find someone great if not thats okay my life doesn't just revolve around just finding someone.. | |
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| Why are you still SINGLE?
Posted: 6/30/2007 12:48:55 AM | | Because i`m to damn nice i can`t put on a false face. Oh and i hate rap and hip hop. So i guess you can say i am screwed lol. | |
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Garryr
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Joined: 9/16/2006
Msg: 638 | |
| Why are you still SINGLE?
Posted: 6/30/2007 4:16:54 AM | Probably because the women I meet are too scared or resistant to starting a relationship with someone. One panicked when she felt she was falling into a relationship and put a wall up. (Like life is run without some sort of risks, right?) Another is just unsure and works a lot; so do I, but if one wants to make time then they do. Guess it boils down to I haven't found one who is also wanting to not be single. Doesn't mean it has to be marriage or a live in situation, just how about being there for one another? Ahh life - ain't it grand? hahaha All my best to everyone.
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| Why are you still SINGLE?
Posted: 6/30/2007 6:46:55 AM | I choose to be.
Between work, and my children, I don't get out very often, and I'm having a hard time finding a man (unless they have chilren too) that understands that. PLUS....I'm picky as hell!.....LOL | |
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| Why are you still SINGLE?
Posted: 6/30/2007 8:05:46 AM | So the conclusion of this thread is that people are very picky, even though they conciously may not realise it.
All these singles are waiting for that computer system from the film weired science to be made so they can design and make their perfect partner.  | |
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| Why are you still SINGLE?
Posted: 6/30/2007 8:23:49 AM | | Because I'm not a ladies man. Um, or maybe because girls are weird. Uh, or maybe because I'm socially awkward. Beats the everlasting shit out of me. I have no idea why I can't get anyone. Maybe it's cause I'm 19 and girls who are 19 really suck. | |
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| Why are you still SINGLE?
Posted: 6/30/2007 8:39:42 AM | | I'm still single (again) because I haven't found her yet.. but that may be changing as we speak. | |
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| Why are you still SINGLE?
Posted: 6/30/2007 12:38:12 PM | basically, because i'm a slacker.
it requires so little effort to stay in and read on a friday night. when i do feel like going somewhere i prefer to do so alone so that if it gets boring or tiresome, i can just leave. in the past, relationships have drained me energetically and i have no desire to put myself out there again. | |
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Garryr
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Joined: 9/16/2006
Msg: 645 | |
| Why are you still SINGLE?
Posted: 6/30/2007 4:48:14 PM | Come on folks - live a little! :-) Life will pass us all by if we just sit back and watch it. Is it really that bad to find someone you click with and find ways to enjoy each others company? I know, it hurts when it falls apart, but it's not the end of the world ya' know? Stay positive; want to enjoy another's company; and maybe even fall in love.
Life - it's just a speck of time in eternity. | |
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| Why are you still SINGLE?
Posted: 6/30/2007 7:02:05 PM | | Becoz the more you have to offer, the harder it is to find someone. Plus I think too many games are being played by everyone so we are all getting desensitized such that even when a perfect person comes along, we hardly know whether or not they are for real. | |
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| Why are you still SINGLE?
Posted: 7/1/2007 12:35:09 AM | Because the single life is pretty good so far...go with the flow...no rush in going out and finding *someone* to date...
I only date someone who I am completely attracted too and really dig him...I'm not gonna waste my time and go out and date every Tom...Dick...and Harry...just to *date* someone...
If I find someone I really like...then I would...but right now...no one has made me go wow I wanna date him... | |
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| Why are you still SINGLE?
Posted: 7/1/2007 12:52:55 AM | Either I am too picky, uncompromising or the right feller hasn't come along.
I have also been more focused on Mothering/career.
Frankly I am surprised he hasn't just fallen from the sky yet, kerplop!
I am not lonely, but looking forward to a wondeful connection some day!
I can wait..............Meanwhile I am being introspective to grow | |
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| Why are you still SINGLE?
Posted: 7/1/2007 1:03:27 AM | I'm still single because there are too many women and not enough men in Sydney, so most of the blokes are a little bit lazy and the women are getting desparate.
And.... I suppose I expect them to call me and pay me some attention every other day. I tend not to wait around for the phone call and I move on. I am also still single because I am shy and most men are scared to make a move on girls in Sydney because most Sydney singles chicks have had enough of the lazy Sydney men and bark nastily at the poor blokes who have the guts to try. He he. So there's a lot of tension in the singles scene. I am also single, because I'm a bit old fashioned and I don't understand what ever happened to manners and respect. If you don't sleep with the Sydney male, they get bored, and if you do sleep with them, they have no need to impress anymore and they get Lazy. (Or stop calling you altogether because they don't know how to dump a girl, or the cost of a call to your mobile/ cell phone is too expensive)
I am also single because I don't look like Paris Hilton and there is that expectation that you walk around half naked if you want to attract attention. Nar.
I'm single because I have a negative attitude.... hahahahahhahahahahah | |
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Garryr
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Joined: 9/16/2006
Msg: 650 | |
| Why are you still SINGLE?
Posted: 7/1/2007 4:08:07 AM | True Keepitreal, there is no rush to go out and find *someone* to date just for the fact to date. What I thought I was reading on this thread is that *no one* seemed interested in dating or finding *someone* and this is a dating site. Confusing, huh? hahaha
Perhaps the one that makes us go - wow, I wanna date that person - is just around the corner.
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