| Is there a certain age...?
Posted: 3/25/2008 8:15:36 PM |
Is there a certain age where men start to want women for more than sex? At what point do they start appreciating a woman for her personality and strengths and not just her body? I seriously doubt that there is a man (or at least heterosexual man) who doesn't want more than just sex from his partner. There are situations when a couple really just doesn't have a good match. Interests are different, life goals are different... the long term potential just isn't there. However, men are unlikely to date a woman at all if they're not attracted, so sex is still something "worth salvaging" from the relationship.
And do men find a woman who says what she wants a turn off?? Not at all... but if you're finding that every guy you try to build a relationship with walks away from you because of this, it's because you haven't learned how to say what you want without coming across like Broadzilla. Recap: If a couple of guys walk on you, it's probably them. If every guy walks away on you, it's you. | |
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| Is there a certain age...?
Posted: 3/25/2008 8:50:21 PM |
I seriously doubt that there is a man (or at least heterosexual man) who doesn't want more than just sex from his partner.
Dahlin', you know that we usually agree, but this time around I will have to disagree...
Just read through the forums, there are plenty of guys who have no problem saying
that getting laid is the "first and foremost", or that "women do not add anything to my life apart from sex".
I am not saying that ALL the guys think that way. I don't even think that majority thinks that way.
But, unfortunately SOME do... Gotta say that those make me feel real sad,
I cannot help but wonder why would one be so bitter to think in such a way.
I don't think that this is so much related to age factor, although it is safe to assume that
some people mature with age (not all ), perhpas more about experiences that we have,
or the ways in which we think about the opposite gender... do we respect another person or not...
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| Is there a certain age...?
Posted: 3/25/2008 10:28:39 PM |
Just read through the forums, there are plenty of guys who have no problem saying that getting laid is the "first and foremost",
Hmm....you could see it that way but what he meant was that he would never go after a girl first and foremost because of her personality. Why stay in a sexual relationship with someone whose personality you do not connect with? Why even get to that point?
Just getting laid has nothing to do with it. | |
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| Is there a certain age...?
Posted: 8/25/2008 5:17:52 PM |
Is there a certain age where men start to want women for more than sex? At what point do they start appreciating a woman for her personality and strengths and not just her body?
I've always appreciated women for more than just sex. Unfortunately, lots of women who say that really mean they want to be appreciated for those things in lieu of sex and don't necessarily have them to offer.
And do men find a woman who says what she wants a turn off??
I'll say it would be a turn on. However, I'm speculating. To me your question is hypothetical because I haven't really found any women who will say what they really want. | |
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| Is there a certain age...?
Posted: 8/26/2008 9:57:58 AM | It all depends on the age at which onset of impotence begins for each individual man. If a guy can't get it up, his libido drops, he can't perform, so he starts looking for other activities to participate in with his partner. Hence the reason men over 45 tend to look for things like 'personality'. Sex isn't important if you can't perform. This is also why many older women love older guys - because they're not always begging for sex (an activity most women care little about).
As of late, I've noticed my c0ck has been rather wobbly and floppy, but I think it's because I've been overusing it. But at some point it will just be that way chronically. I will give up on sex from that day forward. | |
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