| he's just a sex partner..is that wrong?
Posted: 12/14/2007 3:51:58 PM | | I just have to say this to you Irish Girl. I would love to find a women like you for you are doing something that so many in here can not do. And that is being honest and up front. | |
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| he's just a sex partner..is that wrong?
Posted: 12/14/2007 4:07:48 PM | | people pay attention CLOSELY me and michael are no longer having a fling thing..have not in a minute....I will eventually move on and find someone new. | |
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| he's just a sex partner..is that wrong?
Posted: 12/15/2007 5:49:01 AM | | its only wrong if you keep doing it after you find your soul mate, or why do you tell the guys your interested in about your sex partner at all...hmmmm | |
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| he's just a sex partner..is that wrong?
Posted: 12/16/2007 2:00:26 PM | OP,...why worry about what others think of your situation,...if it works for you why are you broadcasting to others about this man if you are looking for a SERIOUS relationship???????....
What happens in your sex life is your buisness, but my advice would be that you keep that information to yourself. | |
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| he's just a sex partner..is that wrong?
Posted: 12/16/2007 2:15:12 PM | | I think if you would just settle for a vibrator while you are still looking, you would have more luck finding someone. While I am sure there are a few men in the country that would be ok with your so-called FB, you are reducing your pool of prospects by at least 99.9%. | |
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| he's just a sex partner..is that wrong?
Posted: 12/16/2007 2:15:15 PM | I AM A SINGLE MALE FROM ROANOKE VA I DON'T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND OR WIFE OR ANYTHING I WISH I WAS LUCKY ENOUGH TO HAVE A SEX ONLY PARTNER ESPECIALLY ONE AS GORGEOUS AS YOU.. | |
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| he's just a sex partner..is that wrong?
Posted: 12/16/2007 2:16:10 PM | Why does OP even share that private info with the men she meets? I have heard many men expressing that they don't want to date anyone who already has a "bed buddy" etc.
On another note, JMO of course, but you may *state* that you are looking for a serious relationship, but you are not. Believe it or not, but even having a bed buddy is a subconscious distraction from that stated goal. I have seen it many times. World is your mirror... | |
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| he's just a sex partner..is that wrong?
Posted: 12/29/2007 12:37:22 PM | I so have replaced michael, and found my little redneck.....but honestly, I miss michael, so maybe its time to get rid of tennesee and go running back to my buddy mike....I am kidding, I am very happy and not going to ruin this one...but guess what..he knows all about him, and they have even hung out at the same place...ughhh white lake is to small. | |
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| he's just a sex partner..is that wrong?
Posted: 12/29/2007 12:45:45 PM | The best analogy that I can come up with is...
You're eating at Burger King and looking at a menu for a 5 star restaraunt that you're planning on going to, someday, but you've still got another 20 coupons in your purse for a free whopper (if you're not careful it has cheese, LOL).
Think about it... Why would a man want to get involved with you on a serious level when your treating something as important as sex as fast food? Sex isn't the be-all and end-all of most relationships, but it IS pretty danged important. If you're serious about finding someone that wants you for you, then lose the booty call...
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| he's just a sex partner..is that wrong?
Posted: 12/29/2007 5:33:50 PM | It's not wrong if you both agree to it and can live with it being over at some point in time. Just be sure because it works both ways and sometimes guys get in too deep whether they meant to or not just like we do.
Seen it happen. Had it happen to me in my last relationship. And what does a girl say? It's not like her friends are full of advice on how to 'escape' which IMO a guy's friends usually are.
It lasted almost three years and was monogamous but it was based on him saying he just wanted sex. We ended up spending time doing other things too - right from the start - but I told him repeatedly that I could not say yes to his request that I promise to spend the rest of my life with him.
It just wasn't going to happen! | |
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| he's just a sex partner..is that wrong?
Posted: 12/29/2007 5:43:43 PM | | man that situation sucks. does he know hes just a f*ck buddy?? I liked this girl once. who said i love you sometimes during. turned out i was just her f*ck buddy. That hurts so bad. still does. | |
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| he's just a sex partner..is that wrong?
Posted: 12/29/2007 5:44:25 PM | | We are all adults here. If the two of you respect each other, enjoy having sex with each other and are practicing safe sex... I don't see anything wrong with it. I rather be with someone who is upfront about just wanting sex than someone who tells you they love you to just get down your pants! and NO he is not your boyfriend.... having SEX with someone doesn't make them your boyfriend... it takes alot more than that! Listen... we all have needs and there is nothing wrong in fulfilling them until the right person comes along. Good luck to the both of you!! | |
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| he's just a sex partner..is that wrong?
Posted: 12/29/2007 5:55:04 PM |
but it seems like most of the men I talk to say...well if your sleeping with him, then he is your boyfriend..NO he is not!!!!!
So don't talk to other men about it. Until you are in a dating situation that is becoming serious, what you do with your spare time is nobody's business but your own,provided you aren't breaking any significant laws or wrecking somebody else's marriage. ( and don't be stupid about it...protect sexual health, both yours and other people's)
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| he's just a sex partner..is that wrong?
Posted: 12/29/2007 6:09:32 PM | Sounds good, OP. If you're comfortable with it, I don't see why others should have a problem. I have been in "Michael's" position, too, and I'm sure he has no complaints.  | |
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| he's just a sex partner..is that wrong?
Posted: 1/19/2008 7:15:05 PM | So, you make it sound like you found a guy for you, and dropped your FB.
But your listed on your profile as single.
Is that to find a new FB, and try to hang onto the BF as well? | |
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| he's just a sex partner..is that wrong?
Posted: 1/19/2008 7:32:22 PM | | Ok lets be honest first what can a guy give you that you can't get through some other mechanical means? This means reasonably that you get something nonsexual from sexual contact. Then we have the question is it wrong for two people to tell each other their worth exists only in what is between their legs and not between their ears. You are accepting him telling you that very thing every time you sleep with him. I'm just a hunk of meat use me like a gym sock. You are doing the same thing. It undermines your worth and his. You are saying my price is pleasure and not 20 dollars. | |
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| he's just a sex partner..is that wrong?
Posted: 1/19/2008 7:56:57 PM | hmmmm~ 7 pages and what can I ~ little old me add? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~``
At one point in my life ~ from midnight on, I had women circling the block looking for a parking spot. ` ` Rod Stewarts "Hot Legs" is the best way to sum it up.
And what did I achieve in these crazy years ? ~~ just alot of memories and "maybe" to understand what a good women is all about.
and it's not about ~~ "that"
So~ I'd not say, you are wrong, I'd not say that you are wasting time ~~~~~~~~~`
I'd say ~~the fact ~~~~ that your are asking the question implies ~ that it's not satisfying anymore. ~~~ thats where I found myself ~ I never had to leave the house, My "dancecard" was full ~~ so why was I so lonely?
Personal growth ~ starts at your core ~ if there is a void in your being ~ others can never fill it!
all the drugs ~ parties~ booze ~ money and sex ~ will never fill the emptiness ~ the hole~ you feel like a shadow. ~
there is "something" that you"know" is missing.
I'd never dismiss anyone that treated me well ~~and to this day I've many friend, some ~Ive not seen in years ~ but I know I'd be welcome.
I don't do that anymore ~ I grew past it ~ "as you will " in your own sweet time
Move on ~ focus inward ~ best of luck ~ dar | |
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| he's just a sex partner..is that wrong?
Posted: 1/19/2008 8:10:24 PM | OP why are you asking? The only person who can answer the question is you.
Is it wrong for you? It would be wrong for me to get with someone who did that as I would feel the person didn't value their sexuality and had become desensitised to the ability to bond. But only you can decide what's right for you. | |
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| he's just a sex partner..is that wrong?
Posted: 1/19/2008 8:15:14 PM | I wouldn't want to become involved with a woman who had one or more FWBs
there would be no way that id be able to trust you around any of your male friends
EXSPECALY THE ONE YOU ARE SLEEPIN WITH | |
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