| just got a slap in the face...
Posted: 12/30/2007 1:08:07 PM | | put your life back in order....... pack your stuff, check your credit cards, and finances, get your car keys back etc. Operate for now on, as solo.... like , by yourself.!! She has moved on, to a new boyfriend. | |
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| just got a slap in the face...
Posted: 12/30/2007 1:22:08 PM | Take a read through the feelings of the girls that this has happend to. THATS how you are supposed to feel.
Welcome to real equality pal.
The girls get cheated on and dumped. Well well well. So do the guys.
The girls feel like thier hearts have been torn out. So do the guys.
The stupid myth, of the philandering swinging batchelor, who brushes off the breakup witin a week, and is chasing frresh potang by the next wekend is a myth concocted by cheating women to try to pretend that thier cheating was harmless. | |
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| just got a slap in the face...
Posted: 12/30/2007 1:32:27 PM | Welcome to reality. It's not the best way to find out that women are cold, calculating, decietful and selfish but at least you know the truth now. Women want everything they can get, and if you can't provide it all they will happily to do whatever it takes, wether it means two timing you, dumping you, or hiring a hitman. Why do you think women are always the ones who want marriage? They get a free house and a car, they
get to have kids (their primary function), and they get to quit their job and stay at home watcing soap operas. And when they get tired of you, they can just divorce you and take half of your stuff. Count yourself lucky you never married her.
Good luck for your new future without the ****! | |
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| just got a slap in the face...
Posted: 12/30/2007 1:56:12 PM | I'm sorry you're hurting. If a truth or a lie is told, either way it's gonna hurt.
Write down what you have learnt from this experience and collect some wisdom from it.
The most difficult part is to wait for time to heal you. The other is not to learn from it.
If from the beginning you can see that a potential mate is not into you as much as you are
into them, that should start you to thinking. Take care and be strong. | |
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| just got a slap in the face...
Posted: 12/30/2007 7:19:33 PM | You are supposed to feel everything you are feeling...hurt, betrayed. But, honestly people rarely break up with people because they are busy. If you really like/love someone you make the time. Sorry you didn't know this was coming. It hurts when someone you like no longer wants to see you and starts seeing someone new. I truly don't know of anything worse. Well, there are things that are worse...but, I know that is the worse thing that happened to me. Give yourself permission to grieve and don't stalk her at facebook.
If it helps...you should know this. People tend to think that when they are dumped for someone else, that the other relationship must be perfect. That somehow now, that person has found the perfect mate, and will go on to live happily everafter. Well, that just doesn't happen...the same issues that plagued your relationship will be repeated if that person did not learn anything prior. Not only that...there will be a whole other set of new issues. I know this from experience and from someone else who's wife once cheated on him and went on to a new relationship only to get dumped herself.
Anyways, the thing to do is not to kick yourself over this. Don't feel like they are so happy and you are left in the cold. This relationship didn't work .... maybe your next one will. Take care of yourself. Do things that make you happy. It just wasn't meant to be. | |
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| just got a slap in the face...
Posted: 12/30/2007 7:30:04 PM | | OP.. if it's been 6 years and you are at a point of only seeing each other once in 2 weeks (busy or not).. it's already NOT a functioning relationship in my view. Jut my opinion, in 6 years people either make a lot more time for each other, or go their separate ways...We are a bunch of strangers here going by what you say, and we can only speculate.. maybe just maybe she didn't feel that a relationship was progressing or was viable over the 6 years , and she moved on. | |
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| just got a slap in the face...
Posted: 5/17/2008 1:30:22 AM | I hear all the responses from other POF users towards your unhappy experience recently.
But just maybe you were becoming boring to your ex friend maybe......
Like on this website plenty of more fish out there. | |
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| just got a slap in the face...
Posted: 5/17/2008 2:08:19 AM | 6 years is a long time to be with someone and then told lies to ,it would be much kinder if she told you the truth , that she wanted to move on, it stops hurting after a while , lots of lovely lonly girls/women out there looking for a decent bloke , good luck morvan  | |
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| just got a slap in the face...
Posted: 5/17/2008 2:11:42 AM | | Hey, Buddha, not all people lie. That, in itself, is a fallacy. I have never lied to my significant other, nor do I ever intend to, so please donot lump everyone into one category like that. | |
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| just got a slap in the face...
Posted: 5/17/2008 3:47:54 AM | | If she developed this friendship behind your back and while still dating you than perhaps she is untrustworthy ( this is a form of cheating) . What was she telling you while she was seeing him?.. Get the picture. I know the loss hurts, but everything happens for a reason. | |
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