| I am noticing a trend in women over 30
Posted: 2/6/2008 11:12:27 AM | My limit in dating a man who's younger than me is four-five years.
I also had some emails from much-younger men and some of the things they said made me feel so dirty! 
Seriously though, I could never bring myself to date a young man in his twenties. | |
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| I am noticing a trend in women over 30
Posted: 2/6/2008 1:42:33 PM | If dating younger men works for others, that great. To each thier own.
For me, dating much younger men is a No-no, Nope, Nada, Nein. | |
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| I am noticing a trend in women over 30
Posted: 2/10/2008 12:43:08 AM | | personaly i prefer men who are older than me, maybe im old fasioned but i wouldn't date anyone more than a year or two younger. I like feeling looked after and safe, and i dont feel that with younger men. I also think its got a huge amount to do with the internet, getting a younger guy is so much easier these days than it was 20 years ago ... there are so many dating sites that women have an abundance of young guys to chose from, where as 20 years ago you had to rely on meeting someone from your local area and the gossip it might cause. Now woman dont have the 'neighbourhood watch' gossip as bad lol i remember the estate i grew up on, you couldn't pass wind without someone knowing lol ... i think we all lead much more cellular lives now and feel freer to 'do our own thing'. just my opinion though | |
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| I am noticing a trend in women over 30
Posted: 2/10/2008 1:31:16 AM | I've noticed lots of woman who seem to want much younger men....lots of profiles are kinda 42 yr old seeks men 30-45. I'm fairly fit and active for 41 and do find lots of people quite honestly slow and old at my age, but I personally wouldnt want anyone 10 yrs or so younger than me. I'd like someone lively around my own age  | |
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| I am noticing a trend in women over 30
Posted: 4/3/2008 9:28:27 PM | | Could be because men over 30 are looking to date 20 something year olds? So why can't I as a 48 yr old date someone younger than myself? | |
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| I am noticing a trend in women over 30
Posted: 4/4/2008 11:28:24 AM |
Maybe it is just me but I notice just as many women over 30 who are looking for men 10+ years younger than themselves as women looking for men older than themselves.
Gave this one more thought and toss this scenerio into the salad.
Tons of women put careers first, and wake up at 30, 35 etc wanting a family. By then, all the good guys (like me) are long taken by other more family oriented girls.
Perhaps thats 1 of many reasons older women grab up a good successful guy a few years younger, supply and demand. | |
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| I am noticing a trend in women over 30
Posted: 4/4/2008 1:51:52 PM | my personnal thoughts, men of a certain age, think they're much younger, looks, behavour, attitude, and in their profile they also state, a younger person is mostly required, the same goes for a woman, why go for an old fuddy duddy, when you can have a younger more hip, and reflective of the age you really feel you are, not the age that is real, because once you, anyone turns 30, age becomes irrevalent,
I look at the profiles of men in their 50's or 60's seriously looking for a girl in her 30's, and think, where are they coming from...
then the girls do likewise... no other reason than none of us feel our age, ever, oh hang on, after a 24hr stint with no sleep, perhaps than.. | |
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| I am noticing a trend in women over 30
Posted: 4/5/2008 9:58:00 PM | | Because women now make more money, have better jobs and educations, more equal rights under the law, etc. So, they now can go after the males that they really like, and not those that they need (in the sense of years ago when women were not even allowed to vote, etc). It's going to be very annoying for guys now, lol. The women getting to go after the hot young guys they want! | |
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| I am noticing a trend in women over 30
Posted: 4/6/2008 12:03:00 PM | Sorry, I f.e. am looking for someone older, am not into younger men however much they claim to be mature for their age though...lol:)
I also found out that many men that ARE actually older and want to settle down are rather arrogant and don't think they ought to make an effort. So I can't say really what the right age is...I guess it's a question how you treat someone and how you want to be treated.
For me it's important to have a good standard of communication but since the internet the people are so easily replaced and so nobody really bothers anymore in my eyes.
I always have made an effort when I had a partner and never was one of those women that expected the man to do all the running. That was a mistake since I got taken as a mug, my own fault I know...
I am not sure about the whole dating thingy anymore whatever the age.
I am disillusioned by it all and surprised how badly people can treat each other...am still licking my wounds..lol | |
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| I am noticing a trend in women over 30
Posted: 4/7/2008 6:14:18 PM | | I used to date older guys.... now I find myself being attracted to younger guys. I don't seek them out, that's just how it's been happening. If I meet someone I am attracted to and we get along, for some reason I kind of assume he's "my age". Turns out he is usually 8 yrs younger than me, lol. They're always shocked when they find out my age but I have yet to meet one who cared. | |
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| I am noticing a trend in women over 30
Posted: 4/7/2008 8:42:37 PM |
Yep. I am like a dog. If I can't eat it or screw it I just chew it up, piss on it and walk away. Still haven't mastered the art of licking of myself though.....
Now thats funny!! | |
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| I am noticing a trend in women over 30
Posted: 4/8/2008 4:03:26 PM |
Or go chunky dunking while camping by the lake ..
Ok, I have to ask....what the hell is chunky dunking??
Or maybe I don't want to know.....lol | |
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| I am noticing a trend in women over 30
Posted: 4/8/2008 5:45:42 PM | Personally I prefer to date close to my age (41).
I think part of the reason some older woman look for younger men is purely for fun and/or sex. No strings, no worries.
But, I have also found that a large number of men in my age group are looking for 20 something women, which leaves very little men out there near my age to date. Women may just be deciding that their only option is to start seeking out younger ages if they want to get a date at all. | |
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| I am noticing a trend in women over 30
Posted: 4/8/2008 9:56:07 PM | | IN MY OPINION..JOHNE102.. I PERSONALLY PREFER MEN WHO ARE OLDER THAN MYSELF.. I LOOK FOR MEN WHO CAN LOOK AFTER A WOMAN..I FEEL AS THOUGH A MAN SHOULD.. BUT IF A MAN WHO IS YOUNGER AND IS WILLING TO LOOK AFTER A WOMAN.. I WOULD BE WITH HIM..I THINK.. WHOEVER IS READY.. | |
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| I am noticing a trend in women over 30
Posted: 4/8/2008 10:15:13 PM | | I lived with a women who was 20 years older than me for 9 years. the first couple years were okay but the heads butted soon enough. I always had older women in life not that was mandatory just happen to be. I also found a older women can contribute more to my mind set then a younger one who tends to giggle and be quite annoying. Would I date younger? Sure now that i am older. Either younger or older the women must be desent looking and have a personality. Otherwise age does not make a difference and I am just wasting time. Something that is precious to me. | |
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| I am noticing a trend in women over 30
Posted: 4/9/2008 8:13:50 AM | Awww that's a problem. Aged 31, I like mostly younger girls (like 5 - 10 years younger than myself)
But I see the same trend in girls in their early 20's... they remain teens and date only teens. | |
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