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Posted: 10/24/2007 5:49:27 AM | Apologies for the length of this.. But I am hoping this helps many to find comfort through these ideas and theories.. Of course this is not for everyone. But it explains a lot for me and I hope some will read up and look further into getting help through the understanding of spiritual healing...
Thank you for your response angel_ladyd I was I admit a little surprised to see that you should call spiritual understanding mumbo jumbo.lol.. I can feel your energy and realise that you have a strong spiritual aspect to your thinking. You have a beautiful soul, so please do not worry about this. I do not get upset easily over the diversities of each others own personal spiritual ideas of what we are and what we believe I have also learned the art of not being offended. Which is another great tool that is needed in life's plan if we are to survive the trials of life with our self esteem intact. I understand where you are coming from in your oneness. I have been studying many forms of spirituality including quantum physics.. as science now begins to probe into the law of the universe often attempting to disprove spirituality it at every turn, it ends up actually proving the existence of what is the higher good, source, light or God to some and it is this which science through quantum physics understands also resides in each and every one of us... Quantum physics is the "science" where physics (science) and metaphysics (spirituality) meet.
"Science without religion is lame. Religion without science is blind."
-Albert Einstein
"The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day. Never lose a holy curiosity."
-Albert Einstein
Just like there are Natural Laws that govern nature (such as gravity), and the physical body which is of nature is made up of billions of microbes and atoms cells..There are other Laws which govern all that happens in the universe. From the spiritual to the physical to the mental, everything that happens does so according to this Law. Our thoughts are vibrational waves and patterns, every thought we have is sent out to the universe. Physics pick up these thought patterns and can communicate with the souls of those past present and future.This law is proven time and time again. What you think is what you get. Therefore it is your best interest to think positively. Since what you send out your also receive .. Google the law of attraction..
Healing is all about positive thinking. The moment you consciously think in a positive manner you will feel the return of positivity to your life.
The law of belief is one that brings to me the comfort of knowing that my loved ones are still around. Each persons personal thoughts of what heaven is, needs to have some understanding on how this could be factual. My own thoughts are that we are all here for a reason, and this life is a place of experience and learning. Each of us upon Earth are here to do service. To take back to our place of rest between life experiences the knowledge of this fast moving advancement on earth including the advancement of technology. The spiritual soul itself cannot experience taste smell touch without the experience of being in the physical body... Although the soul can create a hologram of itself in order to be recognised .. The soul itself I believe is merely collective energy of experience and collective positive love energies, all the pluses and goodness of life..The negative resides in darkness therefore meaningless Everything negative is meaningless and unessassary.......The higher volume of love we experience and give the higher frequency the souls energy can vibrate at. Whist in the soul state this is how we communicate.. It is my belief that our soul energy creates its own personal views of heaven through its own experiences whilst on Earth.. In other words we build heaven with our own beliefs, just as we also create what happens in this life through the way that we think.....Those who have experienced near death experiences will all have a very similar experience. Except for the differences of our personal beliefs which we may have been bought up with, each will envision the figure of there own personal religious belief whilst on here on earth... We also envision our loved ones and manifest them as they meet us at the gates of heaven... Each having gone through life review , judging themselves for the pain they may have caused whilst upon earth. My understanding of old and new souls comes from the amount if time we have has life experiences... People who have gone through regression through hypnosis find that much of there own personal unexplainable fears can be found within the subconscious mind during these past life regressions..
the Universe around us is a very orderly place in which nothing occurs by chance. Even though we cannot see the Laws, or hear them, smell them or taste them, they are there. They apply to everything and everyone – nothing is exempt. Whether one is aware of these Laws or not, they still apply - just like the Law of Gravity. Even though one may not be aware of or understand Gravity, it always works. No matter who you are, if you decide to step off the top of a tall building, you will fall at an increasing rate of speed until you reach terminal velocity or until you impact the ground.
So what are these Laws and how do they work? There are literally dozens of Universal Laws that exist, but for ease of understanding, they can be distilled down to a main seven:
1. Law of Control
2. Law of Accident
3. Law of Cause & Effect
4. Law of Belief
5. Law of Expectation
6. Law of Attraction
7. Law of Correspondence
From these seven, everything else flows. The beauty of the Laws is that once one understands and lives in accordance with them, life becomes extremely simple.
Law of Control
The Law of Control simply states that we have high self-esteem and feel good about ourselves to the exact degree that we feel we are in control of our lives. Unfortunately, the majority of the population does not live according to the Law of Control, but rather by its inverse, the Law of Accident. The truth of the matter is that every one of us is in total control of our life, but until one takes the step to determine that they are personally responsible for what happens to them, then they cannot help but live by Accident.
Law of Accident
This Law states that we feel badly about ourselves and have low self-esteem to the degree that we feel events and circumstances control our lives. In other words, we are the victims of whatever else happens around us. If good things happen, then we benefit, but if bad things happen, we play the victim.
Law of Cause & Effect
This Law is also known as the Iron Law of Human Destiny because it is so profound and powerful. Simply stated, the Law of Cause & Effect says that everything happens for a reason. All actions have consequences, as do all in actions. Distilled down to the simplest possible terms, this law states that for every effect in one’s life, there is a specific cause. The law can also be applied in the physical sense through examination of Sir Isaac Newton’s third Law of Motion, which states that “for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.” If, for example, you were to hold your hand over a candle’s flame (the cause) the effect would be that your hand would burn and it would hurt!
The truly wonderful thing about this law is that by definition then, we should be able to manifest that which we truly want (the effect), simply by exerting the same causes that others before us have exerted and been successful.
Law of Belief
The Law of Belief states that whatever you believe with feeling and conviction becomes your reality. It is not until you change your beliefs that you can begin to change your reality and your performance.
You have heard the doubters and the naysayers out there who always proclaim “I’ll believe it when I see it!” In reality, it is the other way around; it is not until you believe it, that you will see it (no matter what “it” is)! Self-limiting beliefs are perhaps the most detrimental of all thoughts, since they absolutely will keep you from the success that you may want, but don’t believe you can attain. There is an old saying that goes ”whether you think you can or you can’t, your right!” This saying is completely congruent with the Law of Belief.
Law of Expectation
Simply stated, the Law of Expectations tells us that whatever one expects, with confidence, becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. When one expects with confidence that good things will happen, they usually will. If, on the other hand, one expects a negative outcome to a situation, then the outcome will usually be negative.
Our expectations play a key role in our own outcomes and they also have a remarkable effect on the people around us. What we expect from those around us determines our attitude toward them more than any other factor. In turn, the people around us tend to reflect our attitudes right back at us - whether the expectations and attitudes are positive or negative, good or bad.
Law of Attraction
The Law of Attraction states that we attract into our lives, that which we focus our thoughts upon. If your thoughts are constantly on positive outcomes and good results, then that is what we will manifest. If, on the other hand, your predominant thoughts are on negative outcomes and poor results, then that is what you will attract. This is based on the fact that the Universe is simply vibrational energy in motion. Emotions, thoughts, feelings and objects – absolutely everything has a vibrational frequency. Since like attracts like, it is only logical that the vibrational frequency of your predominant thoughts will attract results that have a similar vibrational frequency. We know that emotions that are love-based (love, desire, happiness, wonder, joy etc.) have a very high vibrational frequency, whereas emotions that are fear-based (anger, hatred, intolerance, fear, sadness etc.) vibrate at a very low frequency.
Law of Correspondence
“As within, so without” is an old saying that perfectly describes the Law of Correspondence. This simply means that what happens on the outside is merely a reflection of what is happening on the inside. Your outer world is a reflection of your inner world. An individual that is unhappy and living in conflict with themselves, will always exhibit negative behaviors on the outside. Sometimes, one can mask these negative behaviors and thoughts, but the true feelings will eventually reveal themselves. Everything in our lives is a mirror of what is happening within us. If you want to make your outside life better, the only way to accomplish this is to change what is happening on the inside.
In order to live the successful, happy life we all deserve, it is necessary to understand and live by Universal Law. The best way to do this is to first and foremost, take control over your thoughts and to stay in the present moment. Ask yourself constantly; "What am I thinking about right now?" If the answer is something negative, then take the opportunity to change your thoughts. This will start to put you back in control of your life which is the first step to lasting happiness and peace of mind!
I wish eveyone love and luck The future is yours what you believe it will be.
keep believing positivly.
Catherine aka star.xx
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| How does one heal?
Posted: 10/24/2007 9:30:43 PM | | i really don,t know how one heals. but you can email me if you like.and i will be glad to talk to you.and thank you for posting on my post. | |
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Posted: 10/25/2007 8:57:18 AM | Star, your e-mail is locked too.......lol. I have to look to see if mines open to whom ever.
And, reading these posts are bringing alot of tears in my eyes. I'm floored with them and yeah healing is a big thing.
2004 was a very hard year and part o f 2005.
2004:
Feb: I had gall bladder surgery
June: lost my paternal grandmother, heart failure
July: my best friend died at 36 brain tumours on her brain stem, suffered 6 weeks of head pain. She went a week before her next birthday, she had a twin brother. I've known her since 1977. And her death hit me the hardest we were like sisters, who am I to call now who was once that close to me.
August: my marriage collasped
September: adoption process fell through
October: fostering told me to wait 2 years
November: a great aunt went
Dec: I was told I losing my left eye ( but had surgery last year saved it , whewwwww).
2005:
May: niece's ex-bf was in a serious car accident that cost his young life, he was 20.
July: found out mom has ms, she went down hill fast after finding that out.
August: my paternal grandfather took his life ( 1 year and 9 weeks apart after grammie went).
2006: My marriage was officially over in July
2007:
*lost a great uncle in Sept he made a greatful 99.5 years though.
*This past month last weekend I had put a pet down a calico she was in a dog fight broke her leg, I miss that lil brat damn.
* and my brother whom met his gf on here, they were suppose to have a baby they miscarried not too long ago, a first for him though he never had any of his own yet.
This is alot 2005 too much was crashing, bang bang bang bang one month after another, I managed to get through all that beena few years now but when you think back ya think of one important thing that means alot to you....... my best friend I lost meant alot to me we lost contact for a while, that's why I felt right down I crashed for a while. But, I knew I couldn't let it get to me too much I had to move on without her I have to.
Anyhow, havin' a apple pie here and a coffee, anyone want some??? and thanks for your responses, they're all great. | |
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Posted: 10/25/2007 9:01:09 AM | Actually 2004 was a bad year, geez.......... I think I lost mah melons!!!!   | |
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Posted: 10/25/2007 10:42:03 AM | sweetlibrachik....
I am so glad your thread has addressed "hurting" in an area greater than "losing a significant other" through death...divorce..whether physical or emotional...a loss is a loss.....but yes...we are a sum of all our experiences...and they do effect our whole being....
I jokingly refer to myself as being "Rip Van Winkle", for I have put myself on hold for the past 20 yrs or so....although I am crawing back into life...and also proclaim to be "Phoenix Rising"! Over the years, I have been the "Timex watch....takes a lickin' but keeps on tickin' ".....oh, and I also have a namesake,....my name is also JOB......but I do keep on believing..... Another joke...humorous situation to which to compare one's attitude is the following: Two kids were given a job of mucking out the stable. One was griping, shoveling all that s**t, getting dirty, seeing nothing good to come of it, just dirty work. The other one, had a smile, happy, dug fast and furious, with great expectation. When asked "Why? " The second one said, "I know there's a pony in here somewhere!" welll, I'm looking for my pony!!!! Would be wonderful if he were a male,looking for everything that I have to offer and we shared the rest of our life together....but if not.....the stall I'm mucking will get cleaned out!!!
Although over the years, several "incidents" have been endured, I consider myself a SURVIVOR....not a victim...The triple threat that effected my life the most were the
following: 1) Awoke with gun at forehead...(with 3 yr old beside me...as single mom since she was 10 weeks old)after rape, police said "Find you own way to hospital."At hospital, and taking of all samples, was told"Here this is your property(the samples), take it to homicide." Then at homicide, "I'm sorry, we lost your paperwork, after all there were 7 rapes last night and we're trying to get the "Ski-mask" rapist." all of this said..."You are not important!" no support...on my own...
2) one month later....at work, an employee took a pair of scissors, stabbing walls and desks , but no one wanted to get involved and call security, so he came to me, raised hand to stab me, but I escaped...told boss what had just happened with reply of "Oh he didn't mean anything." Police and ADA said, "Are you bleeding? Bruised? then it is only a "Mischievious Conduct" charge...if we find him." He was seen in bld next day....and never charged...but my company would NOT provide legal assistance......"That's your problem." all of this said...you are not important!
3) After transferring back to my home town,(company paid for moving expense this time...before they made me quit on Friday and re-hire on Monday to avoid it) and this was 7 mo later when no 3 occured. It was me(a pedestrian ) and a truck which stopped on top of me...after dragging me with my hair on fire while bouncing on the pavement....oh yeah it was an 18-wheeler pulling a load of pipe for oilfield....it 's right front wheel was on my chest...and I did not pass out! I was furious! How dare he hit me! After only 10 days in hospital (people were praying for me and I healed quickly) but when released...and I was "ok",,,they quit and I felt the energy leave me.
My hormones were ALL screwed up...adrelene exhaustion.....but NO SUPPORT from doctors...family..friends...church....They all had attitude of "You look ok."........
but I wasn't...Many incidents have continued to occur...but I continue to resist..til I just withdrew from life....yep...last divorce and smoked my last cigarette
on the same day in 1987.......Been sleeping it off since then...until awakened a few months ago...but that's a whole other story as to how....
Bottom line is...if you have NO SUPPORT outside of yourself...you still have yourself...and your higher power that keeps you going...Sometimes you just have to "Be still and know that I am God." or..."Calm the storm or calm the child." You can survive...and get up again....and I aged backwards in the last 2 yrs....Look at my picture...taken 10-20-07.....do I look 65?
I have missed out on a lot...while experiencing a lot...now I am going to make up for lost time..."Physician...heal thyself." O.K. now I have regrouped and ready to forge ahead again....Time is only relative....My aunt will be 101 in November...so I expect to have many more "adventures."
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| How does one heal?
Posted: 10/25/2007 11:44:19 AM | You CAN heal on your own... only, its better with someone but, don't confuse help and kindness for affection and read too much into things, that could only make matters worse. :(
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Posted: 10/25/2007 11:54:57 AM | this another thing........ I'm gettin this all off my chest here too........ I opened up and let it all out. WHAT A GREAT FEELING!!!! I feel better now, at least I can now focus on wots next.  | |
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Posted: 10/25/2007 12:03:07 PM | time heals all non-fatal wounds.
the trick is to accellerate time... | |
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Posted: 10/25/2007 12:25:49 PM | sweetlibrachik you are one of the most beautiful beings upon this earth. You have lived so much .. you have a spirit that could bring us all to our knees. You are special beyond belief. and you subconsciously work with the angels...
people can also cosciously work with there angels though you have them always with you on your side...
Everyone has heard angel stories. Angels pull people back from the edges of cliffs and out of the paths of oncoming trains. They warn people to avoid dangerous situations. They guide those facing tough decisions. They comfort, enlighten and heal. Tust me they are always with you just ask for what you want and believe.
love to you special lady
Catherine aka star.xx | |
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Posted: 10/25/2007 12:31:21 PM | | akastar: why thank you, you should be able to e-mail me now. Had to check my settings. | |
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Posted: 10/25/2007 2:21:58 PM | well Sweetbrachik, the power of healing comes from many sources , depending on the individual , some prefers being alone, some prefers the company of others, and some folks have no where to turn hence the bottle, drugs and other indulgences.
There is no one solution to healing, sometimes finding a good friend/family member who is strong enough and you can lean on them during these times, sometimes professional intervention works, but you have to ask you self, if you cant heal alone, why be alone??? seek out that friend/family or professional and stay away from the sauce,drugs etc, but you dont strike me a person who would turn to the bottle. | |
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Posted: 10/25/2007 2:39:46 PM | Mahogany_Rush:
I'm just askin an opinion on how one can heal over so much trauma?
I've already been through councelling right after my separation, I'm way past that now. They told me to call when I'm ready to go back.  | |
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