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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 3/12/2009 1:26:27 PM | Some courts are agreeing that it is cheating and granting divorces because of it.
As far as I'm concerned, if it isn't physical, it isn't cheating. But, that's my opinion. The idea of using it as foreplay is kinda cool!
hmmm...wonder if that would make me a freak? Naww......no worse that looking at naughty pictures together and taking things from there. | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 3/18/2009 9:05:51 PM | Men think it's not cheating, women do. HELLLLLOOOO, it's cheating. It may not be physical but it's entering into a sexual act with another person. Emotional cheating is just as bad.
Basically, with the exception of a few sick minded individuals, men aren't getting what they need at home so instead of actually screwing around, they turn to the internet. Well heck, with all of the cyber sluts out there today, who can blame them, no? 
YES, hands down(or on) it's cheating. | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 4/20/2009 5:53:18 PM | yes it is.
1.. Relationships are based on *mutual* respect, trust, friendship, open honesty.
do not confuse that with love either..
2.. Love is many forms - but love comes from everything that you find u desire in a person, from aura-personality traits too abilities or dreams etc.. the unique parts.
3.. Psyical attraction .. obvious
4.. passionate love i think comes from the adding of all three put together. [not meaning u cant have passionate sex without all 3].
why did i say all this? well, friendship.. the minimal basis of any relationship needs and has all of number 1.
a relationship must have 1 before u can have 2.
if you are using a webcam for sexual enjoyment and fullfillment and she/ he doesnt know then u are:
lying about it [no trust, no honesty. thus no respect] so how are you being a friend?? thus how can you claim to love her/him... i mean really love them? also.. think.. if she.he finds out.. they will a] wonder if u wanna meet them, b] are you getting more from them than ur partner, c] what are they doing your partner cant that u need to lie about it.. ?
ask yourself how you would feel?
also.. if its so big a thing... wonder this: have u asked if he she minds.. maybe they would like to do it also.. or bothe of you together.. or even how about videoing each other, or going on cam, spice ur relationship up yourselves... then u wont be cheating...
you never know she may like it..
amazing how many people.. men as i have read mostly, but women too but for diff reasons... go on net, or with people at work etc.. to fulfill fantasies they have or to try something fun n exciting... with someone they dont know, because they havent got the balls to tell thier partner they want to do it... that i think is dumb... risk ur marrage to try something, ur partnet may have even tryed and liked... if they dont like it, ask if they can think of something... compromise.. etc.. she / he may be shocked at worse or just.. ok with it.. but its the *open honesty* thay will be happy about.. think about that.
[by the way.... cheating isnt meaning just adultery.. cheating is lying to get what u want.. ie cheating at cards, cheating the bank, cheating ur partner by having a secret affair or liason, cheating by going on cam for sex ]
i could go on forever.. but i will cut short now.. to say this...
If you had to ask this question: you must think its wrong.. so you already know the answer... i also wonder.. do the ladies, guys on the cam u show all too or chat sex with also know u have a partner?? coz if not ur lying too them too !!
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 4/20/2009 7:17:46 PM | | As with many things on the internet society hasn't caught up with the do's and don'ts legally or otherwise. I too would feel that it's cheating because of the fact that it is up close and personal between two adults. What is to stop them from taking it one step further to physical. Just spend enough time weblive with someone before one or the other says "let's meet"... yeah in my book it leaves a door wide open and it's not something I want to deal with as "ok" if I am in a relationship. | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 4/27/2009 2:26:22 AM | | Yes, my opinion is...it is a big deal. If me boyfriend did this...it would all be over instantly. Not just for the physical act but for the emotional too. Sex in any way shape of form should be between two people who are in love with eachother. I can respect that this isnt for everyone but it should atleast be agreed upon before hand... | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 4/27/2009 7:22:23 AM | Its really pretty simple - cheating implies DECEPTION. If you are in a committed monogomous relationship, and you're hiding something like this, then yes, its cheating. If you tell your SO "Hey, I'm gonna go have some cam sex with Suzie, be back later..." and she says back "OK, have fun!"... then its not cheating.
Web cam, cyber sex etc is connecting interactively with another person. Its not like a porn vid, and its sharing an intimate part of your life (your sexuality) with someone who is not your SO. And, since this seems to be more of a guy thing, turn it around - how would guys feel if their woman we cybersexing and webcamming with other guys? Most likely you'd be pretty pissed. | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 4/27/2009 7:54:46 AM | If you are interacting with another person, then I'd say it's cheating. However, I think there are shades of grey here too. Web-cam sex is not as bad as real-sex, IMO. If there's no interaction, then I don't think it's cheating - masturbation to a mental fantasy or to a picture or even a porn video would not be - you're not interacting with anyone but yourself.
Ultimately, it depends on the couple and what they agree on. | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 4/27/2009 10:02:47 AM | It's cheating, plain and simple. If you are in a loving intimate relationship, why the need to look for outside sources?
You can not compare playboy to interactive cyber sex. You don't have a prayer of meeting one of the playboy models to have physical sex with them. How many men have actually met and had intimate relations with someone off the net? Very easy to do. Many marriages and relationships have broken up for this very reason.
For me, it would be a real concern that he is not satisfied in the relationship and it would only be a matter of time before he looked elsewhere. | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 4/27/2009 2:06:34 PM |
If you are interacting with another person, then I'd say it's cheating. However, I think there are shades of grey here too. Web-cam sex is not as bad as real-sex, IMO. If there's no interaction, then I don't think it's cheating - masturbation to a mental fantasy or to a picture or even a porn video would not be - you're not interacting with anyone but yourself.
Dayyymm!! I split hairs for a living, but this /\ is real skill!!! 
OP, your "friend" can either puff out her chest cuz she's married to a porn star, or throw a flag and argue about it. Either way, there's probably not alot she can do to modify that behavior- it either corrects itself with time, or . . . . not.
If my partner was working the crowd, either "virtually" or otherwise, I'd take a step back, let her have that stage, and probably fade into the curtains. Buh-bye! But with a smile. | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 5/8/2009 4:54:29 AM | YES. Much as I hate to say it, it is cheating. There's really no way around it. I know the temptation has been there for me and I can think of times in my life when I indulged while being involved with someone. I never felt good about it. Someone said earlier something about having to "hide it" makes it cheating. Unfortunately, as I see it, they are right. I think we also have to go back to the very concept of the GOLDEN RULE, that is "do unto others as ye would have them do unto you". Ask yourself "would I mind if my partner/lover/wife/gf/so did it behind my back?". If you can answer that then you will have answered the question for yourself. As always, there are grey areas as someone has mentioned and the answer to this is subjective, but to "thine own self be true". Bottom line, its cheating.  | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 5/8/2009 6:49:45 AM | Cheating is the act of lying to a partner or spouse. You can cheat by eating meat if you are vegetarian (bad example), cheat on your spouse by being emotionally connected to someone else in a romantic way, or sleeping around.
The arguement cyber is not cheating... its cheating if the spouse or partner doesn't know. | |
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