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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 10/31/2007 8:18:01 AM | | Yes its cheating! I have been chating to a guy who admits in his profile that he has found the woman of his dreams, yet he was talking about the fact that he spends a fair bit of time travelling around and meets women from here, told me sometimes his partners comes along, yeah rite, then after some more chat where he is asking about my sexual preferences etc he asks me if I like toys or caming, when i say yes i do like toys and will cometimes cam depending on the circumstances he replies with his email address and askes if I would like to cam with him sometime, given I have already made it clear that I was dubious about his being faithful by meeting other women from here in the first instance I have to admit that I was appalled by his suggestion, if his partner is 'the woman of his dreams' wtf is he doing wanting to play on cam with me, he got a suitably worded reply and I've told him not to contact me again. I know my profile is long but I feel another 'don't bother me if' addition is in need. | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 11/1/2007 9:52:28 AM | Further to my posting I want to retract what I said about the one particular guy I made reference to, it was a huge mis-understnading on my part, for which I am very sorry.
But I still beleive that is a guy/girl has webcam sex when they have a partner then its cheating, its such an intimate act in its own right that it counts. | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 11/4/2007 6:58:23 AM | RKB thats for pointing your viewpoint out there so explictly... "If I didn't find out I wouldn't be hurt"
I know I will not be contacting you ever...along with alot of other women.. I don't expect a man to be perfect, but some respect for his partner is a nice attractive feature. | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 11/4/2007 7:56:19 PM | Would you consider it cheating if your S/O was doing this 5 feet in front of a real person even if they never touched each other?.....
Anything you do with another person to get "OFF" or get your sexual high with someone other than your S/O is "cheating" because cheating means being dishonest, it doesn't actually mean 'having sex'.....a woman or man having an intimate dinner and holding hands with someone else is cheating on their S/O
the only test to this question is "would you care if they caught you?" and ya just answered your own question... LOL
Except, as others have said, I will agree that as long as the S/O is fine with it in any reality, than no, it's not cheating because you're not being deceptive... | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 12/3/2007 9:15:14 AM | | Absolutely it would be. What is cheating? Very simple. Cheating is any time you involve yourself with someone in a way that you wouldnt if your partner is there. There are some people who are crazy enough to do it even if their partner is there. Any time you "are with" someone while in ar elationship, thats cheating, and pornography functions the same as cheating. Yes webcam cheating happens too. Emotional affairs is infidelity | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 12/3/2007 9:21:29 AM | as i've said a couple (of hundred) times before.. i think that cheating is doing anything that you wouldn't want your partner to know about... it is being underhand/lying/deceptive/hiding something.. it is cheating..
now, if the partner was happy with you camming with someone else... or if they cammed with you with someone else... or at least *knew* about it, then it's not cheating, imo..
would you want them to cam with another without your knowledge? how would you feel? is it okay if it's just watching eachother disrobe/masturbate? what if there's talking together too? what if it involves phone sex at the same time? sending eachother personal items thru the mail? professing love for the other person? would all that be okay with you, if he/she did it without your knowledge? would you feel betrayed? | |
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Posted: 12/30/2007 1:39:27 AM | | My friends husband is doing this to her right now and she just found out today. He showed her his profile that says "sorry ladies im taken". He says he just talks to males/females all over the world. He bought the webcam without her knowing and she's quite upset over it...Also, she said that it was new in a bag on the fridge the other day and when she asked about it, he got upset and said she was nosy....Apparently, he never even told her that he was gonna buy it...i think that he's scum. She is not sure what to think and is making excuses up for him...what a loser. | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 1/1/2008 8:43:48 PM | ^^^
Hmmm. I'm not sure if i'd call using porn cheating...however, it seems it's gone a step further than that, in that you are exchanging messages with a person, who potentially could become a permanent fixture and a third person in the relationship...and that is the difference between interaction on a website and jerking off to a DVD...there's no interaction with a DVD and therefore, no real threat!!!! | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 1/1/2008 9:32:04 PM | Not if he told me so relatively early on in the relationship. Don't want to meet and the coffee shop, shake hands, and hear "Hi. I whack off online. You must be [name]".
But it's just porn to a lot of guys and if they have a willing participant it wouldn't bother me even if we were exclusive. Dates, yes. Meeting her folks, yeah.
OMG -- I'm never going to get to sleep at this rate. As soon as I typed that a song started playing on the radio ("I guess that's why they call it the blues" is part of the lyrics). Except "time on my hands" was sung in perfect harmony with my last keystroke. ROTFLMFAO | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 1/1/2008 10:30:41 PM | If your SO found out about your camming, and she/he contacted your camming partner and they both ended up having webcam sex.. (without you) would that be double cheating? Or, if you had sex with your SO and your webcam partner found out.. would she/he feel you cheated... ah my, it's all so confusing this thing called love | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 1/13/2008 6:37:13 PM | I guess if two people set up their own rules on what is cheating it's one thing.. and has been stated over and over....
but to compare it to porn is not in the same league in my opinion.... cybersex often entails getting to know the person on some level on the other side of the screen and making dates to be online at the same time and often as long as both parties are willing they will continue for months... I would imagine lurking at odd hours of the day or night when the girlfriend isn't home is deception, and once you've spent a hour or two with someone online how much energy do you have left? I find it creepy to have virtual threesomes to be honest and it doesn't sound like much of the type relationship I would want with a man...
for those men who do this while single and then get a girlfriend how easy is it to stay off the net with strangers? Is it compulsive? There are many men out there looking for this type of action online and you have to wonder how many are in relationships? | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 1/13/2008 11:26:46 PM | | Listen to Marc. he's dead on right!!! I should know....my last ex started there and went on to the physical, from what I gather. Not good, unless it's something they do together, but if he does it "in addition to" his gf....in the context of needing something 'more' than her....heck yeah it's cheatin'! What she's upset about it that when he does this, it's like a huge banner saying, sorry hon, ya just don't QUITE do it for me. I'd be upset too, were I in her shoes. | |
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