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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 5/1/2008 4:51:23 AM | | Personally, first of all, dude needs to put his efforts towards his girlfriend, second, yeah cheating is when you focus you efforts of sexuality, emotions and desire towards someone other then your partner, partners are not luggage and should be treated with respect, third sounds like she needs to find a man that will make her comfortable and satisfied in a healthy relationship as she deserves a good example of what a good man can do for her in a productive relationship environment. The old AT&T slogan "reach out and touch some one" it today has a new meaning to it. Well, how much closer dose it need to get? Morals? New age? We all have values, protect them as we are the future. Good choices and understanding means healthy lifestyle and healthy future! | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 5/1/2008 10:40:37 AM | Hmmmm...Interesting!
If he feels the need to spend his time online having "cybersex" with random chicks than with her, well then something is really wrong in paradise and quite frankly I know I wouldn't put up with that.....Don't know if it's qualify as "cheating" pursae but it's ridiculous.. | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/3/2008 12:19:36 AM | | I have no problem with a guy watching porn or fantasizing about celebrities. However, if they're having webcam sex, to me, that's cheating. To me, you're interacting with somebody else in a sexual way. I wouldn't even tolerate swapping nude pictures through email. You're interacting with a real human being, trying to get them aroused. | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/3/2008 1:18:24 AM | | Just the fact that anyone would question this shows a huge lack of character; of course its cheating; doing ANYTHING with another woman that you wouldn't do with your wife and girlfriend present is wrong. If there is nothing wrong with it have him do it when she is there next time. Good God. | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/3/2008 5:59:24 AM | | My wife and I for the most part would never leave each other. My wife is very hot and good in bed...but we are very comfortable with ourselves sexually, and I don't think that a disease free non-committed fling over the net is cheating...and nether does she...There are times that she or I might not want to be bothered by sex...so we'll quickly say "go and handle your buisness". I've had relationships like these for years with select people and they even admit that it helps put a little spice back in their own relationship. Relax a little people and open your minds a little. I think women who think that the same monotonous missionary styled sex is gonna cut it and make their man happy are sadly mistaken. Live a little! You have to make things exciting...the little and big brain has to be stimulated on different levels constantly. Things like role-playing or envisioning others while making love can make it better for both. No wonder the divorce rate and the "physically" cheating rate is so high in this country. | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/3/2008 7:26:27 AM | A wise response, fridayboo.
If the webcam sex isn't taking away sex and attention in the relationship, then it may not be a big deal. If it really bothers one partner, and they are also sexually active enough to satisfy their partner doing the webcam thing, then it is a problem - but I wouldn't characterize it as cheating. It may signal another problem in the relationship, or perhaps with the one on webcam.
If it bothers you, you've talked about this seriously with your partner (not just complained, but talke), and it continues, that's also a problem. | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/3/2008 10:00:39 AM | I guess everybody has their own definition of cheating, but in my books this is definitely cheating.
This isn't a porn movie or magazine, it's a real live person he/she met online. If one were to view this as "porn" and not cheating, then what's the difference between that and having both of them in the same room and doing the same thing live....just not touching each other. The only difference is the internet link seperating them.
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/3/2008 10:30:37 AM | | no, don't be disturbed by it. men masturbate all the time, websites help that, and it's a natural urge. be glad he's healthy enough to have that sex drive. he's with you and what he's doing online will NOT lead to an actual physical encounter. If he's going to see someone else physically there's nothing you can do to stop it. in fact, it may even calm his "urges" enough to actually reduce the chances of him having a physical affair. | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/3/2008 12:17:35 PM | Just because you dont think its cheating Friday doesnt' mean its not. Relationships are about monogamy; not about getting off like a german shepherd every time you want.
I think your relationship is very strange. What cracks me up is you say no wonder the divorce rate is so high; well the divorce rate is so high because people want to have sex with others. Cheating and money are the main problems. To say we are so uptight and that we should allow cheating is a joke. and if there is nothing wrong with it then why dont you do it in front of your woman.
And no one said they are just wanting to do it in the missionary position; trying to go to the other extreme to justify your behavior is ridiculous.
The STD rate is now 25% in the U.S.; in the African American community its 40%; look at the latest National Institute of Healths studies; Its higher for adults because of more partners; I guess they are just living a little. | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/3/2008 12:28:44 PM | | my point exactly mthomjmark, can't get STD's online. It's safe, any feelings are quickly dissolved, your both relieved and you can get on with your relationship and life. No disrespect mthomjmark, but maybe our sex drives aren't the same. I have an extremely high sex drive but that doesn't give me a reason to refer to you as a Panda or Sloth does it? Your right in noticing that my relationship is not the norm...I wouldn't use strange...but just not the norm. I have done it in front of my WIFE mthomjmark....and it turns her on like crazy. She wouldn't mind doing it as much...but their aren't as many hot guys as their are hot women online willing to explore. | |
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| Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/3/2008 2:05:09 PM | Absolutely! Any form of sex (including masterbation) whereby one is thinking about a member of the opposite sex whom is not either his' girlfriend or wife is cheating imho. I would feel gutted if my other half did that with me and it would also effect my self-esteeme, so I would never do that to my partner either.
Just my opinion though... | |
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