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 kellywi46

Joined: 9/27/2007
Msg: 101
He doesn't see me as his girlfriend, don't know what to do now
Posted: 2/4/2008 6:04:02 PM
Hi there girlfriend,
This behaver in guys is so hurtful no matter how much we try protect ourselves .I had a bf like that for a while I liked him so much we were together about 3 months only because I played his games. I never called him I keep my distance he had all the space he needed until I started feeling like a doormat and questing his feeling for me. He dumped me and I am glad he did because there are a lot of nice guys out there that would love to be my bf and I deserve to be treated better.
Good luck sweetie
 djrichpowers

Joined: 9/12/2005
Msg: 102
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He doesn't see me as his girlfriend, don't know what to do now
Posted: 2/4/2008 6:13:35 PM
ouch this dude is playing you pretty hard. he's probably got women he's seeing in the places he's going. doesn't sound good.
 OutMind

Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 103
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He doesn't see me as his girlfriend, don't know what to do now
Posted: 2/4/2008 7:05:42 PM
laugingwhatever says


You choose, take the control back and make him eat out of your hands, because right now you ARE BEING played.


Cool. I love this line. It gives us guys more amo to dump you. Or to say, well, she dump me. So tell all the girls. Go, do.
 Normalchic

Joined: 11/29/2007
Msg: 104
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He doesn't see me as his girlfriend, don't know what to do now
Posted: 2/4/2008 7:18:54 PM
Hey Little Fish-

I'll bet he's married or has something going on the side....obviously!...does he really go to work at 9pm or is that his curfew with the wife or live in to come home for dinner....sorry girlfriend...this guy is playing you. Doesn't call except to schedule?...what does that tell you except he wants to play when he gets time off for good behavior. Maybe he can squeeze you in.....And if he can't include you in his entertaining with friends and guests, he obviously has nothing there for you except one thing. He says he misses you because that's what you want to hear...right? Sorry to be so hard on you but open your eyes. And even if he's not married, why do you do everything on his schedule?...do you not have a life of your own? Get with the program girl and find someone who shares more than sex with you...
And as far as stopping by his place....not a good move unless you want to make things worse, if he wanted you there he would have invited you....just be unavailable next time he calls....make your own schedule and stick to it....it doesn't have to be all or nothing....just start doing it your way and live your own life, not life on his schedule....men like independent women....
 Yoyanna1

Joined: 1/7/2008
Msg: 105
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He doesn't see me as his girlfriend, don't know what to do now
Posted: 2/4/2008 7:35:59 PM
Hmmm..it's obvious that you're easy because it's only been 5 dates and you've already slept with the guy. Here's some advice: stop giving it up too soon then maybe you'll get a man to respect you.
 NorseViking869

Joined: 3/23/2006
Msg: 106
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He doesn't see me as his girlfriend, don't know what to do now
Posted: 2/4/2008 7:42:22 PM
Dump his sorry a$$. He is no good for you if he cant see how wonderful you are.
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