| men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 3/23/2008 12:09:36 PM | | The extent of me being "open minded" only goes to the point of "Either I'll agree with it, or I won't". | |
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| men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 3/27/2008 4:18:32 PM | I think most often it means they are seeking someone who is truly open to seriously considering engaging in behavior that may be unconventional, unorthodox, or otherwise out of the "norm." That can be sexual or non- ... but the "more fun" guys mean it in a sexual manner.  | |
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| men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 3/27/2008 4:28:49 PM | | Since I am a closed minded, nagging, pecan-busting, prudish shrew, I am pretty sure they don't mean me, so I just pass over those profiles. | |
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| men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 3/27/2008 5:50:23 PM | | really? my experiences have not been good being open minded. sometimes I say too much and am willing to do too much? is that possible? life is good, but it's short. | |
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| men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 4/3/2008 9:17:58 PM | | ha ha very few times have I found "open minded" to mean anything less than them wanting sex in as many creative ways and with as many people involved as possible haha. | |
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| men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 4/4/2008 10:29:26 AM | i don't think that there are many people open minded enough to want to know what i would mean .. if i said i wanted an open minded woman.. you will just have to trust me that it would be a woman who would like to experiment with the sort of sex that you would be shocked by | |
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| men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 4/16/2008 2:37:17 PM | I'd just like to say that "open minded" women are all around ...
Men just seem to want that (open mindedness) from "HI" blah blah blah....
Meanwhile women who are classified as such ... still have comfort zone and their own boundaries ...
one would be surprised how conversations can take off and two can get to know one another even if the opening email isn't about SEX ....
Some of you really need to learn how to socialize...otherwise you just sound like a jailbird locked up for past 30 yrs. with granted parole the next day....  | |
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| men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 4/16/2008 2:45:14 PM | | It means mostly, that he wants a woman who is "open minded" about what he wants, threesomes with two women, so on. But it seldom goes both ways (grin). | |
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| men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 4/16/2008 2:54:58 PM | Well if open minded means sex, then he had better last more than two minutes!!!!!!!!!!!
And please don't tell me you're no good at it if you intend to keep me.
And if I don't want sex right away then respect it!!
Now, that's open minded. | |
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| men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 4/16/2008 3:26:52 PM | Men want women who are "open minded" and women want men who are "confident"
I just want a woman that will remain faithful and honest. | |
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| men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 5/30/2008 6:06:34 AM |
I've been reading on a lot of men's profiles lately that at they are interested in "open minded" women. Just WHAT does that mean???
To me it means someone who doesn't get all whacked out over the thought of other consenting adults doing something that they disapprove. Be it other religions, sexual orientations, political views, whatever. Having a opinion is fine, trying to force it upon everyone else is annoying. A 'open-mind' to me is a live and let live attitude. If it doesn't affect you in any meaningful way, MYOB.
A willingness to try new things helps, and not necessarily of a sexual nature. | |
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| men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 5/30/2008 6:19:21 AM | | every time i have ever heard it it meant nothing good. usually some kind of weird sex thing. If they want open minded im out of there. I dont even want to know what they mean by it. | |
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| men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 5/30/2008 6:36:33 AM | | open minded means sexually open yes, to be comfortable in your own skin, willing to enjoy the moment(s) werever you may be, not someone who wants the same, lights off, only on fri deals. someone not afraid to try new things. it also means she is willing to go parasailing or get in a hot air balloon. someone not closed minded about life and willing to go different places, try different foods..to me that word not only covers sex but many, many more possibilities | |
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| men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 5/30/2008 6:45:47 AM | | oldsoul speaks the truth on this one..it has soo many meanings, why place restrictions on yourself, come on, lighten up and live life | |
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| men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 5/30/2008 6:58:13 AM | Im laughing so hard I have tears running down my face ... This forum is TOO FUNNY to be just a forum .. it should be on a comedy stand up thing ... The dentist is FUNNY and well the forum is a crack uP... I was worried that open minded ment the dog gets his do too in bed if you know what I mean ... LOL ... Maybe I was wrong ... Thanks you guys are great ... | |
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| men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 5/30/2008 8:04:04 AM | Wow, this has been a very educational read! 
I must have led a sheltered life, 'cause I always thought "open minded" meant:
a) NOT a Republican
b) NOT a fundamentalist Christian
and now I see it's all about sex! | |
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| men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 5/30/2008 8:26:02 AM | | Sometimes, guys are just sick of the conservatism. Nothing worse than finding a great girl only to find out that she is completely unadventurous in the sack. I'm a freak, and I don't want to fall in love with someone who isn't, so it helps to know where your comfort level is as far as sexuality. Without getting too graphic, there are lots of things that I like and some I don't, but I like open mindedness, and that could mean a whole range of things. If you have 2 positions you like to do it in and won't even consider a third because you "weren't raised that way" or you're "not a slut like that" then as far as I'm concerned, goodbye. Too much life to live to limit myself like that. Those are the girls who get married and then wonder in 10 years why their husband won't touch them. He's bored to ****ing death! As a man, I was built that way, and I won't apologize for genetics or DNA, and I need someone who's on my level. So yea, I wanna know kinda early (not upon first meeting but u get my drift) how open minded you are, and if that makes me a chauvanist pig, eh, maybe you're just a little uptight. | |
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| men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 5/30/2008 1:00:16 PM | | You'd have to ask each person who puts it in their profile, having an open mine, I'd say it means different things to different people. My definition is that is means you don't jump to conclusions and assume before you know the facts/you are willing to look at other sides before you make a decision. | |
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| men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 5/30/2008 6:08:53 PM | To me, someone who is open minded, is someone who is willing to try new things.
It doesn't matter what the new thing is, but that they are willing to try it and it's that effort that make men happy. | |
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| men want an open minded woman...
Posted: 5/30/2008 7:43:17 PM |
It doesn't matter what the new thing is, but that they are willing to try it and it's that effort that make men happy.
That's my problem then...I'm too old for there to be many "new things" left...rofl...
I think I said this before...open minded to me personally just means not set in ones ways and willing to listen to other points of view... | |
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