| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 10/28/2007 7:49:55 PM | I agree..............leave this girl alone. What if a man took and 18 year old girl home........no one would complain then would they and it happens all the time. Seems to be okay for guys and not girls.....................people should stop with the double standards......
Anyhow my main reason for commenting is that YES VIRGINIA!!! There are lots of players on POF..................stay away from them for your own good. Like guys who claim to only want one woman and guys who spout off about their lady being the most important thing in their lives...............POPPYCOCK I say!!! I encountered one such player on POF earlier this year and what a heartache and headache that turned out to be. Claimed to be a "one woman man"...........farthest thing from the truth I have heard in some time. He turned out to be a player of the worst kind............(and he was back on here recently too)........watch out for guys stating these things above and Taurus to boot!!! (All I can say safely). He turned out to be the biggest cheater and liar there is.............claimed to care about me and I was his g/f , BUT yet screwed around behind my back constantly and I found out about 4 months into the relationship. Then he completely lied about it evern when caught. Unreal!!! He also borrowed money from me 2 weeks after we started seeing each other (thank goodness he paid it back though at my insistence). He could not pay his bills, constantly borrowed money from people and organizations out there............not a responsible standup person at all!! He goes on every site possible including the sex sites to try to pick up people mainly to have sex with. Even when he has a g/f, he still goes on MSN or other chat and constantly talks to other women about sex and tries to get them to be with him and on web cam sites. Typical player............one woman not good enough.....has to have many............liar and cheater and he will still do it to the poor unsuspecting one he met on POF recently after I dumped him. So please ladies, watch out for Players of all kinds.........and watch out for a certain Taurus one on here in case he returns again on POF.........very smooth talker and claims to want a woman too who only wants one man...watch out for him!!!Good luck to you all. | |
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 10/28/2007 7:56:58 PM | Why you carry cash so much? What going happen? If he ties you up and rape you. Think about. You dont know him very well. Did you get the picture from POF? Did the Police check finger print on the door knob? Next time, thing right first, please be very careful. I hope police will find it.
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 10/28/2007 8:20:47 PM | leave this girl alone. What if a man took and 18 year old girl home........no one would complain then would they and it happens all the time. For all of the people defending her: it's not as much about her taking the 18 year old guy home.
It's about her complaining about the types of men she is chosing to meet.
Her opening post whined:
cant seem to find any balance here any regular men here hwo want a normal gurl I was trying to point out earlier in the thread, that since she's specifically looking for sexual encounters with young men, maybe she shouldn't complain that she's not meeting nice normal guys.
Maybe if she was specifically looking for a stable guy, close to her age, who's hoping to find a serious relationship: then maybe she would be justified in being disappointed about not meeting nice stable guys.
But if she choses to seek out younger partners, just for sexual encounters: I don't think she should be totally shocked, nor should she complain, that she's not finding stable, sincere men.
If a guy, her age, took an 18 year old girl home, maybe no one would complain. ??
But if a guy her age, went on the internet, specifically intending to meet 18 year old girls for no-strings-attached sex; and then complained that all doesn't meet normal stable women: I'd tell him to shut the fuck up and quit complaining
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 10/28/2007 8:45:39 PM | | I think she should have at least put description of the jerk,name and screen name so no one else falls victim to the jerk she's bound to know his name if and besides that if you had read like i did she must have been somwhere in public because she said he stole it when she went to the ladies room i just hope she doesn't classify all of us because she used poor judgement on her partgood luck with your fishing | |
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 10/28/2007 9:05:30 PM |
I think she should have at least put description of the jerk,name and screen name
Read the forum rules...posting his screen name could get her account deleted.
and besides that if you had read like i did she must have been somwhere in public because she said he stole it when she went to the ladies room
And if you had read it like the rest of us did, you'd have seen that she said HER door was open when she got back. I think it's much more likely that she lives in a house with a restroom in it than that she has her own private door at any public place. | |
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 10/28/2007 9:24:25 PM | Well OP, I think you're not meeting quality men because you're not putting enough thought into picking them. Even with an 'intimate encounter', you need to learn a bit about the other person before you let them know where you live or even go to their home. That's fine if you don't want to learn. Grab a motel room next time. It will be waaaay less expensive than $500. - You do really need to turn this kid in to the 5-O. There's a good chance this wasn't the first time he's done this and there are already reports filed and looking for him. Don't be embarrassed girl - Go Get Your $$$!
And just think. When you let someone into your home like that - you never know - they could be 'casing' the place to comeback later (or just bash in your skull and take it all now...). Learn to use some caution! | |
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 10/28/2007 10:08:27 PM | | OK after trying to decipher what you typed here, and in your profile I have given up trying to really understand what you are trying to do here. The gist of what you are saying is that even though you are married, doing drugs, and have kids, you are looking for a "normal" guy to have a relationship with and are upset that the 18 year old boys rob you after you invite them to your house for casual/anonymous sex? As a normal guy, I've got to tell you that I wouldn't *bleep* you with a stolen *bleep*. The kind of people you are going to attract with that profile are not going to be what you say you are looking for. You can change that though, but it will take work, and what appears to be education, and rehab. Good Luck. | |
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 10/28/2007 10:33:26 PM | TDH, even if *you* were talking to a woman on here, and sight unseen invited her to your place, and left $500 floating around somewhere in the open... went to the bathroom and walked back out to find her gone along with the $500 - *yes* I would be saying you were pretty stupid (to be leaving $500 out in front of a total stranger you invited over). And yes, I'd probably say it was your own damn fault.
I could care less if she wants to 'play' with 18y/o's (and they probably aren't complaining), at least they are consenting adults. But, I don't know a lot of 18y/o's to whom $500 doesn't "seem" like a "lot" of money too... leaving that floating around the hands of a total stranger you invited into your own house, yeah... kinda naive and stupid. | |
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 10/28/2007 10:48:34 PM | | Jeez, you people who are judging the OP are pretty damn cold. She just got stolen from, and you're treating her like she's the criminal. 18 year old boys are not all that innocent themselves, so don't shake your finger at her like she's a child molester either. Sure, there are ways to be more careful in internet "dating", but ease up a little people, and try a little compassion for a change, you might just like it. | |
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 10/28/2007 10:53:59 PM | LOL omg yeah it would be stand back if it was a 30 old guy and an 18 year old girl. I can already hear the machettes being pulled out by the wimmins.
LOL
Ok lessons learned:
#1: don't have a big wad of cash kicking around the house
#2: always handcuff the guy BEFORE you go to the bathroom.
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 10/28/2007 11:03:26 PM | If it was a 30 yr old man looking for an 18 yr old girl - it'd still be their own business - if he'd post a profile looking for I.E., and the girl wants to 'hook up', then c'est la vie - not my cup of tea, but they would both be of legal consenting age. No harm, no foul. The same is true for OP's situation - both are of legal age.
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 10/28/2007 11:40:39 PM | | First of all I would just like to say thank god you are okay. I know and understand how devasting it can be to walk back into a room and find 500 missing , but what would have happened if it was your life he took instead. I know we all make dicisions in life that sometimes leave us wondering why the hell did I just do that , I've been there to , I don't live in a glass house so I won't cast stones at you for bringing a stranger into your home. Next time you wanna meet someone , meet them with a friend first , hey breaking the ice with a drink never hurt no one and its in a public place. No harm done to anyone , then if by chance you decide to take things further , suggest going halves on a hotel room. Sweetheart , we are all human when it comes to intimate encounters , just be care ful about how you do it. Material things can be replaced , you can't .... | |
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 10/29/2007 5:05:08 AM | | What I get out of this is, you were looking to get fu**ed, and you did, in more ways than one. If thats all your looking for then get a hotel room, don't use your real name and keep your cash at home. I'm sorry, but I have no sympathy for this kind of behavior. You got what you asked for. | |
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 10/29/2007 5:56:37 AM | | I for one dont care about what type of intimate encounter, but for goodness sakes don't bring him to your home. Yes he did rob, her but he very well could have raped or murdered her. If you want to just get your freak, go to a hotel. Not a motel a hotel with security and camera's, even better make sure he pays for it so his credit card is on file with the hotel. | |
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 10/29/2007 6:43:36 AM |  I think it's funny how many people here know the proper way to have intimate encounter. I have learned so much from reading this. If I ever decide thats what I want I'll have a better idea of how to go about it now!!!!!!!!
Get a hotel/motel room, use a fake name, leave all my money, credit cards and personal information at home. I guess this makes sense though, an empty wallet should hold a lot more condoms!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 10/29/2007 8:30:25 AM | I hope the Op learns from this experience and is more cautious in the future. The Op needs to make sure that history does not repeat itself. Whom the Op chooses to sleep with is without a doubt her own business(No matter the age, as long as it's legal). But the Op also needs to remember that with intimate encounters, The getting to know a person phase is gone, so there need to be more caution used when meeting someone.
Make sure you know exactly who you're meeting.
Take his phone number and let him know you will be given it to a friend.
Meet in a public place first, make sure he shown you some ID, let him know that you will also be given this information to a friend, as a way of protecting yourself.
Unlike others in this thread, i will not be kicking you while you're down. I am sure you feel bad enough about letting yourself get into that situation. Just remember Op that eventhough the situation was bad, it could have been worst.... Learn from it and the 500 dollars you lost will be money well spent.  | |
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 10/29/2007 9:09:00 AM | | I love it when I read that someone has something bad happen to them and they are sooo surprised. They take no responsibility in the situation.It is always the other person to blame. The OP states that she has no luck with pof this time. Maybe in the future she will think out her plans with a guy. I have made plenty of dating mistakes in the past. I learned from all of them and will not let history repeat itself. | |
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 10/29/2007 11:08:00 AM | | Luck on here loll I've never meant more phony's in my life and bull shiter's the site is ok as far as the forums go but other wise no I've seen more players here than any place and still have them sending me messages I just play along because I know the real deal with anyone off here you sure do haft to be careful I wouldn't trust 80 percent of the people on this site one would be better off finding true love at the local walmart loll. | |
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 10/29/2007 4:12:30 PM | Well maybe if you want more normal "MEN", then start changing your profile up. You say you want intimate encounter, but yet at the same time you complain on your profile about the treatment you get from guys. If you want to date, then put dating instead of intimate encounter.
Also at the same time, maybe start dating older men instead of little boys. What could you possibly get from an 18 year old? They're immature, and clearly still troubled.
Also, you're asking for trouble to invite him over to your house, and have cash all over your house. Unless you don't have a bank account, I don't think you should be carrying $500 cash. It's very dangerous.... Especially when a stranger is coming over to your house. :|
Edit: No I don't feel sorry nor I sympathize for you... | |
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 11/30/2007 4:50:06 AM | ok thanks for the advice i didnt recieve. judge me as u wish. if this is all u can see from "my lesson learned " and i choose to share with you my "cautions of stupidity" on oops help???? sorry to try raise awareness here.
to all the people that are genuine . yes ive been taught. and this is just one of lifes curves in learning the hard way. to make me acknowledge the obvious... i think i need to begin seeing everyone as a potential threat to me instead of a potentially nice person.... great im sure ll get far in life being so negative. really it wasnt the 500 it was my thought on the fact that i see good in ppl when i shldcare at all this sux..... but thnx for all the bs you have said and ill never visit this site again. this is truly the only thing i learnt. **** pof and **** you for not having compation for a stand up single parent trying to provide via student loan. i will never thik of pof as a plc to be thankful only bs and bs and bs thnx
bye
yours taken from as so she shld be
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 11/30/2007 10:27:03 AM | | Dear OP.. what kind of responses were you looking for?? This is not a sugar coated world. If you can't take the comments then don't write.. Hey maybe there is some truth to it and you don't want to hear it. This has nothing to do with you being negative . It has to do with common sense. If you wish to exit stage left.. then please do so. | |
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| no luck with pof this time pof guy stole 500 bucks and ran away
Posted: 12/2/2007 7:35:43 AM | just wanted to say thank you to the ppl who where seeing where i was coming from when posting this warning to other fishy. yes in lack of preparing myself for any potential danger towards a pof encouter i will be sure all belongings are bolted down and today will be getting house insurane seriously come on. reading into my ad of some kid um well he is a concenting adult as welll we had talked for over a yr online. so assuming and judging the obvious i see here yet gives me reason to believe that most ppl here who do post threads are not mind stimulating but rathe harsh and rude ive been on this site since 2003 i have had many experiances here and i think my insight was worth while to anyone, i had put the cash behinds my make up box so it was out of the eyes of most who dont snoop but not that i want to be a friendly reminder . i wil not have someone over as yes my son coukld have been hurt or you never know right but even if i do date here you are saying there is a age category i must fit to now as welll bs...so i will not date to far up or down the spectrum. 2 were suggested. that do not have an intimate encouter because then i deserve it.
this thread in my eyes was a total waste of space. well my son and i are ok and thats wat matter so thnx to who did understand and to those who dont well its not worth my integrity to say sorry
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