| | yes or no? Friends with benefits!Page 4 of 44 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41) | ^Fair enough.
I just call it what it is.
A person I sometimes hang out with and f*ck now n then. I don't care to know much about them and don;t care if they know anything much about me. Am I her friend? Sure..probably to the same degree that I am "friends with my local pizza delivery guy or beer store attendant that I see now n then.
(accept that her and I have sex)
I wish you well Moist. Good luck in school and your career. :) | |
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moist
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Msg: 78 | |
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Posted: 5/17/2005 10:30:13 AM | Wow scorn people that hide behind cat pics
What did my boobs do to you??
Glad to see you can stay on topic!
OT:FWP aint for everyone and some people must have been screwed over by their husband and his FWp | |
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Posted: 5/17/2005 10:32:07 AM | | No I don't.....I suppose it being a good thing or not depends on the people involved....it's not what I want at this point in my life......but that's just me and others are entitled to do what makes them comfy. | |
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Posted: 5/17/2005 10:37:05 AM |
OT:FWP aint for everyone and some people must have been screwed over by their husband and his FWp
That sure makes you look better.
So you do not respect the vows of marriage either then?
um..what DO you respect, if I may ask? | |
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Posted: 5/17/2005 10:43:49 AM | | Not for me, I need to care for the gal. I think it cheapens the thing. And I have lots of female friends that probably would have "benefits" sex. To me there is a spiritual connection "and the two shall become one". This may sound old fashioned, but I believe its true | |
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moist
| | Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 83 | |
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Posted: 5/17/2005 10:46:39 AM | Wow Frosty you reading way to much into what I say.
I was defending myself agains the scorn women.
Never said cheating was cool...so maybe you should buy some glasses so you can see what I type | |
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Posted: 5/17/2005 10:51:25 AM |
OT:FWP aint for everyone and some people must have been screwed over by their husband and his FWp
That is what you typed. YOu equated fwb with cheating in a marriage. See; I do not know what a fwb is, so I am only going by what you show me. ;)
My mistake.
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Posted: 5/17/2005 10:53:20 AM | Wow! What a controversy! Thanks everyone for your opinions! There's no right or wrong answers here....It all depends on the individual! | |
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moist
| | Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 88 | |
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moist
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Msg: 90 | |
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Posted: 5/17/2005 10:58:46 AM | ^^ oops.
Nice Persian cat by the way!
hmmm funny the conclusion I could draw from that
You can draw a conclusion from that!!??
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Posted: 5/17/2005 11:00:40 AM | might be for reasons you can not understand.
but you are welcome to keep guessing... only shows more of
what your about.. please continue. The men are wanting to know | |
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moist
| | Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 93 | |
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Posted: 5/17/2005 11:01:47 AM | Funny how you can judge my pic, yet when the table turns...you get all high and mighty
FWP works for me, so get off my back | |
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Posted: 5/17/2005 11:02:48 AM | Thanks frost...
a friend gave it to me.
Told he is worth over 1,000 dollars some blue rarity...
hmmm
must be I have some hidden value or friends who think I'm worth such a valuable gift...
who knows? | |
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moist
| | Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 95 | |
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Posted: 5/17/2005 11:04:19 AM | 1)FWB IS a relationship!
2)FWB USUALLY doesn't work.....1 or both admittedly or not are negatively affected,there are consequences to having "non emotional sex" that are OFTEN unnoticed obsiticles to future relationships.
3)There are some circumstances in which a FWB could work...but very very rare
4)at the end of the day,after ending a FWB relationship it becomes just another type of relationship that failed.
5)Having a series of FWB should be a HUGE RED FLAG to ANYONE wanting more as should being in a series of anykind of dysfunction
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Posted: 5/17/2005 11:11:02 AM | | I have a male friend (actually one of my best friends) and has had "benefits" sex. He was never any happier. I said well why do it?..his reply "tired of w**nking meself.. Almost seems no different than needing to take a d.ump | |
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moist
| | Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 98 | |
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Posted: 5/17/2005 11:13:40 AM | No doubt that not everyone can pull this off.
I have had a bad experiance with a man that got to needy and clingy.
Currenty its great..he is a great guy...we just dont want to call it more than it is...its just awsome sex with a great friend. And if we are both comfortable and happy with that, thats all that matters. | |
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Posted: 5/17/2005 11:16:17 AM | @ harry
well of course most men would like this situation !!!
its kinda like they almost have a relationship... and they are getting laid
without having to give anything of themselves.
Very shallow, could work for some short term, if they have no objections to the possible cionsequences.
To each their own. People will generally make choices based on their integrity and appraisal of their own worth. Kinda of a self esteem thing...
we all make our choiuces and have to lay in the beds we make for ourselves.
got to run to the store. later | |
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moist
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Msg: 100 | |
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