| yes or no? Friends with benefits!
Posted: 9/16/2009 1:32:55 PM | If shes has boots and corsets sure why not
bah humbug most of these pretenders I mean why even bother me eh..where was I, oh, yes
can people, even in Scotland live upto wicked utopia...methinks a f o f f erm i mean 100% failure
psst, not not u oi u still here?, have come close
meaningless ffs OP us blokes get that from our hands
and woewoemen get that f rom saturn 5 as i said earlier
amen wicked
yes so sure OP its all about bad sex, now i am busy washing my hair all week so best thee crawl off and find as desperado | |
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| yes or no? Friends with benefits!
Posted: 9/17/2009 9:05:42 AM | | In that situation NOW lol..... we were together for two years then he decides he doesnt want a commitment......so we still have sex......neither of us has went out with anyone else.....But as a woman it is hard for me because I still have the emotional attachment.... so yes it has its ups and its downs......if u do it then you have to be able to take it for what it is......nothing more nothing less | |
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d1mac
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Joined: 10/14/2008
Msg: 978 | |
| yes or no? Friends with benefits!
Posted: 9/17/2009 9:15:25 AM | | I respect that, my ex had many before we met, and I admit it bothered me a little. Like, she gave herself completely physically to so many guys, and it was no big deal to her. I [my own insecurity] felt not too special. Oh well, not to judge, to each their own. | |
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| yes or no? Friends with benefits!
Posted: 9/17/2009 9:17:29 AM | Absolutely no! I have to agree with YamIhere. Removing sex from my life made me feel alot freer and no more guy drama.
I am also not a wh*re so no f buddies for me. | |
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| yes or no? Friends with benefits!
Posted: 9/17/2009 9:35:04 AM | | friends with benefits only works if you are not emotionally and mentally attracted to your f--k buddy. less hassles, less drama, just the fun and relaxation you seek. but there is always a good possibility to develop a connection with someone you share body fluids regularly. what would you do if the other person doesnt reciprocate? if you can handle it, then go with whatever floats your boat. if you cannot, then dont even bother venturing into that. unless you want hassles and drama. | |
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| yes or no? Friends with benefits!
Posted: 9/19/2009 7:27:12 PM | | Friends with benefits are a wonderful thing if you both have boundries and agree with what is going to happen. I have had them and they work for me but it really depends on the person. | |
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| yes or no? Friends with benefits!
Posted: 9/19/2009 7:31:45 PM | That never did turn my head. "Friends w Benfets". I think if I'm gonna give any part of me to any man , it's NOT gonna be for the fun and excitement of "while it last". I need more substance than that.
So I would have to politely say....no
but that's just me. | |
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| yes or no? Friends with benefits!
Posted: 9/20/2009 7:06:18 PM | Friends with benifits are great! now most ladies won't like that statement, but it is possible to just use sex as a way to relax and turn down the stress level a wee bit!
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Sannia
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Joined: 9/11/2009
Msg: 988 | |
| yes or no? Friends with benefits!
Posted: 9/20/2009 7:08:37 PM | I would say Yes, as long as both parties are pretty damn sure that is what they really need and want. Otherwise, it's more trouble than benefit. | |
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| yes or no? Friends with benefits!
Posted: 9/20/2009 9:16:16 PM | | My feeling on this topic is neutral. Sometimes it works and other times it doesn't (depending on if I let my guard down or not). | |
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| yes or no? Friends with benefits!
Posted: 9/20/2009 11:57:28 PM | | Also, I'd like to add that having friends with benefits can be like having multiple sex partners, the ride might come to a crash, but it's always fun on the way down. | |
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| yes or no? Friends with benefits!
Posted: 10/24/2009 11:20:37 PM | As long as you make it clear with each other.
Now when you have to date someone you have to change unless you both like drama....not good. | |
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| yes or no? Friends with benefits!
Posted: 10/25/2009 12:05:36 AM | | In my situation, FWB has worked. It was a case of a relationship that didn't work out simply because we both wanted different things. A fwb connection was made a few years later and it's been a safe place to turn every so often when life seems to be getting too frustrating. If either is seeing someone else, we totally respect that. But when both are unattached, why not???? | |
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| yes or no? Friends with benefits!
Posted: 10/25/2009 12:50:48 AM | | YES, Perfectly reasonable agreement if neither party is otherwise attached and SOOOOO much fun! I've had a FWB for 3 yrs, we're having a blast. Although we've done a crappy job at staying unemotional, but that's another thread, LOL! | |
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| yes or no? Friends with benefits!
Posted: 10/25/2009 12:54:12 AM | WW { Whatever works }
Some people have that kind of work lifestyle where it consumes the quality time given to relationship - look at people working in cities in the financial district! 9+ hours typically!
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| yes or no? Friends with benefits!
Posted: 10/25/2009 7:14:05 AM | | Friends with benefits? Hell yeah! Sure beats the romance, mind games and all the wasted money spent to get to the sex. | |
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| yes or no? Friends with benefits!
Posted: 10/25/2009 7:59:29 AM | it works with certain people...i had one that we always had fun but we both knew if we ever tried to date-we'd end up hating each other...but the sex was great-we had good communication about it....
then u have ones that try and make a relationship out of it even when u've discussed what u want...it can be messy at times and feelings have been hurt/devestated.... | |
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| yes or no? Friends with benefits!
Posted: 10/25/2009 9:42:21 AM |
ust wondering how many of you have friends with benefits? Is it a good thing or not? No strings attached...just meaningless sex! I think it has it's benefits! A good stress reliver I may add! No. I felt like I was just friends when I was dating some people. But they didn't feel the same. It just made me worried. | |
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