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 merry0709

Joined: 8/13/2007
Msg: 76
At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 12/12/2007 8:41:53 PM
I started losing the intensity at about 45, but I don`t think it is as much physical
as psychological. I`m kind of fed up with the games and the jerks, getting cynical
about men`s motives, and to be truthful, as I age, am not finding men in my age category that I find attractive. Alot of people with baggage and issues, bad attitudes,
cranky and out of shape. So I`m just not finding the stimulus to "get me going."
I`m definitely in a rut. but this is the first time in my life that I actually fantasize about being held and cuddling, just as much as I do sex. I guess I am wanting companionship and depth as opposed to just sex. I would like a partner, but at this age, it`s so scary
to meet anyone, sometimes you just give up. It`s easier.
 soaringangel86

Joined: 12/2/2007
Msg: 77
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At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 4/28/2008 9:49:31 PM
I think the better answer is at what age to women GET their sex drive. That's something I would like to know.
 jetty65

Joined: 4/3/2008
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At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 4/29/2008 6:17:20 PM
When women lose their sex drive its more likely their partner is not satisfying them emotionally. There isn't an age per say. Woman do have a peak period, starts around 35.
 Mominatrix

Joined: 7/5/2006
Msg: 79
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At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 4/29/2008 6:22:29 PM
It is whatever age the men get really annoying.
 happyrebel

Joined: 11/8/2007
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At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 4/29/2008 7:30:44 PM
At almost 47, I haven't lost mine yet - thank God! I can't foresee that ever happening unless things weren't working out with a hoped for S.O. It would be difficult to be intimate with him if things weren't going well in the rest of the relationship.

HR
 stillsmiling38

Joined: 4/6/2008
Msg: 81
At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 4/29/2008 8:21:27 PM
Mmmm....
I'm guessing right around the time that their Significant Other grows a spare tire, his blood pressure goes through the roof, he acquires type 2 diabetes and he now needs the help of the pharmamceutical industry to keep his motor running in bed. At which point you begin to worry if he'll have a cornonary during the act and fall dead on you subsequently smothering you as well !!! LOL!! Suddenly it's gone!!
sorry couldn't resist
 rrdover

Joined: 12/31/2007
Msg: 82
At what age do females LOSE THEIR sex drive???????
Posted: 4/29/2008 9:11:02 PM
Well i hope lose there sex drive
 American_Iconoclast

Joined: 3/12/2008
Msg: 83
At what age do females LOSE THEIR sex drive???????
Posted: 4/29/2008 9:47:16 PM
The only thing that ever decreased my sex drive was boredom.


It was temporary.
 CanadianBeef

Joined: 1/5/2008
Msg: 84
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At what age do females LOSE THEIR sex drive???????
Posted: 4/29/2008 9:51:50 PM
Women loose their sex drive after menopause...their hormones go on the fritz, they have hot flashes, act weird, become extremely emotional and have all sorts of strange physical symptoms.
 American_Iconoclast

Joined: 3/12/2008
Msg: 85
At what age do females LOSE THEIR sex drive???????
Posted: 4/29/2008 9:54:52 PM
^^Do you know this as a result of your vast experience as a post-menopausal woman?

Actually I have heard the opposite. Apparently without the threat of pregnancy post-menopausal sex becomes more enjoyable.
 CanadianBeef

Joined: 1/5/2008
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Posted: 4/29/2008 9:56:30 PM
^^^ I read a lot...

AND...perhaps more importantly...yes as a matter of fact I was once a woman in another life time.
 fly0nthewall

Joined: 3/18/2008
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At what age do females LOSE THEIR sex drive???????
Posted: 4/29/2008 10:54:44 PM
I don't think it had much to do with age. The only times I've had a dip in my sex drive had more to do with issues with my partner than anything else. If I was feeling disrespected, or neglected, or put down or anything of the sort, that definitely had an effect. In a good relationship? It's never been a problem.

That being said, a friend that has a few years on me (I'm 29) keeps telling me the best is yet to come. I'm actually looking forward to my thirties for many reasons!
 American_Iconoclast

Joined: 3/12/2008
Msg: 88
At what age do females LOSE THEIR sex drive???????
Posted: 4/29/2008 10:55:18 PM
You do sort of look like my mothers Aunt Myrtle.

OT: I think that this is an individual issue, my friend tells me that the post-menopausal sex is great and her husband just nods. He is 12 years younger if that makes any difference.
 CanadianBeef

Joined: 1/5/2008
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Posted: 4/29/2008 11:05:13 PM

don't think it had much to do with age. The only times I've had a dip in my sex drive had more to do with issues with my partner than anything else


Ummm your only 29...your sex drive is just starting...

Menopause usually doesn't occur until your early 50's -- like periods (so I understand) every woman is affected differently. But basically you should try and have as much sex as you can while the getting is good.


You do sort of look like my mothers Aunt Myrtle.


Oddly, I get that a lot...or Chris...I dunno why but everyone thinks my name is Chris. Haha.


think that this is an individual issue, my friend tells me that the post-menopausal sex is great and her husband just nods. He is 12 years younger if that makes any difference.


As I understand, it's like a period, it affects every woman differently. My mom went through menopause in her late 40's and it changed her in not so good ways. My aunty's on the other hand I didn't notice any significant changes except maybe whiskers on the chin.

As for sex drive...you'd have to ask my old man and my uncles cause I lived in a normal household not a polygamist ranch...
 aSydneyMale

Joined: 5/16/2006
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Posted: 4/30/2008 3:08:39 AM
In my ex-wife's case, approximately 2 seconds after I said 'I do'! lol
 debnco

Joined: 10/5/2007
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At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 4/30/2008 3:15:51 AM
Hell I'm 43 and I don't know . I think you get more drive as you get older .
 musicianfriend

Joined: 7/23/2007
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Posted: 5/2/2008 1:19:32 AM
I agree with some o f the women on here. If a man makes her feel loved and sexy...she wont loose her sex drive.

Sex is a mental condition. Stimulate her mentally and BAM!!! There she goes. Its pretty easy Sherlock.
 Marius66

Joined: 12/28/2007
Msg: 93
At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 5/2/2008 1:41:48 AM
I don't think women ever lose their sex drive....they just put it away somewhere and bring it out when they need to..

But, if they keep visiting this site.....they may as well put it in mothballs

Probably too much carp in this pond
 Mercurial2

Joined: 4/4/2008
Msg: 94
At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 5/2/2008 1:59:47 AM
All I know is that now being "a woman of a certain age" and no longer having to be concerned about pregnancy...my sex drive has increased. Now I just have to find the right person and a ltr in which to enjoy it!
 esad

Joined: 4/8/2007
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Posted: 5/2/2008 5:24:47 AM
According to a Scientific Study conducted by The U.S. Department of Redundancy ,
5 maybe 6 minutes* after being asked this question by a mate/date.

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hours after you have asked her this inane questions. They won’t be able to solve your problem, but may write you a prescription for Salt Peter....unless your MD is female, then you can expect YOUR “Salt Peter” to come as a little blue oval shaped pill and be accompanied by a smirk)
 happyrebel

Joined: 11/8/2007
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Posted: 5/2/2008 2:09:41 PM

But, if they keep visiting this site.....they may as well put it in mothballs

Probably too much carp in this pond


mariuss66.....I think its too many barricudas in this pond....that's why its put in mothballls...so we don't get eaten alive

HR
 actualized

Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 97
At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 5/2/2008 7:19:31 PM
i don't think it's age.

i kinda think it's just:

WHEN SHE FEELS LIKE IT!
 raiderfan18

Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 98
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At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 5/2/2008 7:54:41 PM
My last two bfs I couldn't f*** them enough. I wanted it all the time. But now that I'm single, I just control it, don't think about it, if I did I would obsess and get depressed about being single....grrrrr...it is hard NOT to think about it though...
 1_blonde

Joined: 12/5/2007
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Posted: 5/3/2008 7:10:41 AM
Peak, smeak !!! Some of us have the peak all our lives !!! Some of us never seem to loost the "wanting" to or the ability. I personally think it's much better now. But that might have to do with my SO. I've never lost it, by the way. It was just a little dormant with an exhusband that was only wanting himself pleased. The old addage..." It takes two" really does apply. A good lover makes a good lover !!!

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 freneticfolly30

Joined: 4/13/2006
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Posted: 5/3/2008 1:22:08 PM
Never....I'm gonna be the friskiest old lady in the old age home!
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