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 pr0ud p4p4

Joined: 10/20/2007
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Posted: 10/29/2007 11:33:03 AM
I dont i would never ask a women to swallow me or expect her to.
 Cunning_linguist

Joined: 10/19/2007
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Posted: 10/29/2007 11:47:17 AM
Oh dear, for a moment then I thought I'd been catapulted back in time a few hundred years until I realised they didnt have the internet back and and probably still werent even this repressed or judgemental haha

Anyway for, it would or could also apply to the guys as women despite what they might LIKE to think 1) arent tasteless, 2) dont ALL taste the same and 3) dont even taste the same individually ALL the time

Also to the thread poster, the handicap of being male doesnt mean someone might not a) be bisexual, b) might not have heard hundreds if not thousands of women talk about this topic and express a view on it and c) have read about studies and surveys conducted into the question

As for the scathing responses, firstly "LOL", dont ya just love some of the stuff people post on thees places?

Gasp, shock, horror!!!!! SOME women can actually break their pavlovian breain washing and social double standards to the point they can enjoy sex as a mutually pleasureable pastime with someone they "like"

Another news flash, many of the more pious people on topics like this are (if male) merely trying to seem "nice" in order to engratiate themselves to any likely suitors and (if female) will whether they realised it or not have convinced themselves that quite trivial degrees of feelings like merely "liking someone" was actually more so they could scratch an itch and still maintain their self delusion of wholsesomeness by pretending it was "love"

Anyhoo, the topic, each mans semen has a unique taste, sperm however is pretty much tasteless, and a proportion of the taste in semen is a genetic biomarker

Us "mankind" are whether we like it or not a creature bred almost purely to just survive and procreate, as such one of the primary functions of all of our senses and a large part of our subconcious mind is geared up towards finding a suitable breeding partner

Social evolution has clouded that and cognition has influenced, tainted or diverted our more instinctual driving attractors, but pheremones still, when not masked by too much aftershave or perfume etc, or by damaged smell receptors from city living and smoking etc play a huge part in that

They also carry in them markers that mimmic markers in female vaginal secretions, male semen and saliva. So an intune person will, bar someones physiology being out of whack or them having a weird and influential diet will commonly "taste better" to someone who is either physiologically or less so cognitively attracted to someone as we subconciously staple the pheremone marker to the sensation of liking (OI, liking NOT licking ya dirty buggers lol) them

But for people with damaged taste buds due to modern life, those with damaged smell receptors that subconcious influence on how they will percieve someone will taste wont occur, so they will ONLY taste the actual taste of the person itself and will form a judgement based on actual taste alone as well as someone having extremely repressed views, guilts and issues appertaining to sex will also be able to subconciously dislike the taste of almost anyone irrespective of whether they love or merely like them


So, despite me ONLY being a male I hope thats of some interest to you

And if you ever want to do some more research on the topic just whisper in my ear
 AbingdonJR

Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 28
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Posted: 10/29/2007 11:58:41 AM
I agree with you. I go down on my lady all the time and we always kiss afterwards. I spend a lot of time down there because I enjoy it knowing she gets off. She also will kiss me after swallowing me. We don't swap mouthfuls of cum, but it is erotic to kiss afterwards. It is such a turn on when she swallows me! I can always get hard again immdeiately afterwards because she turns me on such much. She also gets off swallowing me and we have the best, hottest, wildest, wettest sex after we swallow each other.
 pr0ud p4p4

Joined: 10/20/2007
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Posted: 10/29/2007 12:01:42 PM
You make it sound like a trip to th buffett.
 pissingmeoff

Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 30
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Posted: 10/29/2007 12:04:13 PM
What I don't get is you don't swallow cause it's gross but yet you expect us guys to shove our tongues up your **** and taste your **** discretions.
Maybe it best not to get a bj and not have to lick ****, lets just have boring missionary sex.
I hate these double standards you do me and screw you, you think all pussy smells and taste good ( well )
 greeneyedokiegirl

Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 31
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Posted: 10/29/2007 12:06:50 PM
I can't speak for any other woman here... but I can live without oral action from my man... it doesn't do a whole lot for me... it's a different strokes for different folks kinda deal!!!
 latteplease

Joined: 9/11/2007
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Posted: 10/29/2007 12:08:08 PM
Personally I don't like the texture of it. So if there is a lot I normally won't swallow. But if it isn't a lot I will. Or if I want to turn him on more, I will. Generally when I know he is about to cum I do move my head to the side and continue to rub him on my face and use my hands. Probably not as good for the guy but so far no one has complained.

I kind of agree with the more feelings though. The more I feel for a man the more I want to please him sexually. So I would make more of an effort to swallow.
 *BADBOY*

Joined: 10/12/2007
Msg: 33
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Posted: 10/29/2007 12:16:46 PM
i cant help with the q.but i'd just like to say i think looking for another is a waste of time online.
 daydreamer2121

Joined: 9/29/2007
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Posted: 10/29/2007 12:44:13 PM
I definetly did not mean that only females should respond to my question.
I've enjoyed reading the responses from both ...thank you :)
 justaNCmale

Joined: 10/10/2007
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Posted: 10/29/2007 2:09:10 PM
Kissing after is not gross, but very enjoyable. Alow my 2 cents on the first part and let me turn the tables, I enjoy between the knees eating a lady and will only do so if there is some attraction, but having said that not all taste similar (time of month, food eaten, etc) they change the taste, so sometimes it's a slow Thanksgiving dinner and other times it's maybe a quick snack. A bit like Pizza, even when it's bad it's pretty good!
JM
 Cunning_linguist

Joined: 10/19/2007
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Posted: 10/29/2007 2:48:40 PM
Jeez, I bet you lot have never wanked into your hand, popped the eau de gonad in yer gob and then lovingly and romantically rainbow kissed a partner then have ya lol

How dull


 tenbears17292

Joined: 6/25/2005
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Posted: 10/29/2007 3:51:51 PM
I don't place much faith on love or finding it anymore ~ guess I better make the best of what might present itself in the future or just remain a recluse and give it up entirely.


verygreeneyes sorry but as pretty as you are I don't see that happening
 Carole789

Joined: 10/6/2007
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Posted: 10/29/2007 3:56:17 PM
I personally have found diet to be a big factor. My ex husband tasted really nasty, and I loved him deeply for 20 plus years, and he was not my first or last. Some men just eat the wrong food to be asking you to do that.
 dontmakecookies

Joined: 11/1/2006
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Posted: 10/29/2007 5:56:29 PM
Cunning, you're long post above sends her just down the road she's on, and it's an emotinally dangerous one for some people. Her OP and followup response suggested she thought that she might feel that way because she was more in love with him than others before. Why reinforce this thinking (its implicit in what you said, if not explicit)? There are many other reasons she could like it as well.

I'm not saying that you're wrong, but to spend that long explaining it when it could, and more likely is, her typical female libido shift in late 20s or that this guy just particularly tastes good to her... its best to read emotional connections into emotional connections and not the enjoyment of swallowing.

People should take from the thread though, that even if they don't like a particular practice with one partner they may like it with others. Remaining open is a good thing.
 Cunning_linguist

Joined: 10/19/2007
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Posted: 10/29/2007 6:09:10 PM
Well this is about the topic isnt it? Not her as an individual

the question expressed asked for other peoples experiences, views and knowledge on the topic, and NOT for them to specifically analyse her sexual and emotional status or to only talk about the topic in relationship to HER

So I think I answered the question being asked in the way it was being sought

She also could be teetering on the brink of suicide and a view she didnt like could tip her over, or could be about to order a wedding dress online if a reinforcing view is expressed

But I dont worry about those possibilities anymore than the ones you've expressed

I read a question and if I can be bothered I post what I think, simple as that

What people do with that or how they react to it afterwards isnt my concern, problem or any degree of influencing factor prior to posting

What I think is just that, and "as is" really is the only way worth bothering with
 lotsofjuce

Joined: 10/20/2007
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Posted: 10/29/2007 9:30:48 PM
well let me tell you and this goes for woman too taste does vary depanding on your diet if your a drinker or a smoker it also makes a big difernce and this is not just me talking medical studys show that your habits influend your body fluids just like your blood or urin for drug testing, so yes a man's cum just like a womans will cange upon his or her diet and also health in generel, the ripper the fruit the sweetter tha juice, guys if you want your woman to enjoy it more stop bad habits for a week and eat more fruit and see the results, same for the women no guy likes a stinky cuchy.
 lotsofjuce

Joined: 10/20/2007
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Posted: 10/29/2007 9:42:48 PM
I'm proud of you wish more woman were like you and keep on eating good foods like frits your man will apreciate more and you will anjoy it more to.
 causeiwant2

Joined: 4/28/2007
Msg: 43
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Posted: 10/29/2007 10:35:02 PM
Sex as a whole is more enjoyable when there are feelings involved. You know each other trust one another and therefor the entire experience is WAY more enjoyable! Now swallowing is something that completely turns me on, it's kind of a trip. It is true that some men taste different than others and diet does apparently play a role in that taste, but honestly do you roll it around in your mouth, no you just swallow. Jeepers the way some people carry on you think that it was a freaking bug infested sour milk shake. It's just cum! .... Go brush your teeth afterward are you kidding? His turn to go down now!! Men note.. if you want a woman to go down, personal hygiene is a must seriously soap and water!
 livvy h

Joined: 4/12/2007
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Posted: 10/30/2007 12:57:04 AM
what it tastes like depends on his diet, some are good, others not so good, however.. personally if Im giving head Im swallowing, Im a lady..and a lady never spits lol. actually I just have a hangup about spitting in general.
 vegastout

Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 45
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Posted: 10/30/2007 12:59:01 AM
alright, i thougt you looked like a swallower. good stuff
 kevbear

Joined: 6/20/2007
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Posted: 10/30/2007 1:58:50 AM
i went out with a woman who said "all i want in the morning when i wake up is a protein shake" and told me she could not understand why women did not swallow. and yes your diet will matter.
 SlyKnight

Joined: 1/21/2007
Msg: 47
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Posted: 10/30/2007 2:04:43 AM


i went out with a woman who said "all i want in the morning when i wake up is a protein shake" and told me she could not understand why women did not swallow.


Name and phone number please
 Matiaz

Joined: 10/19/2007
Msg: 48
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Posted: 10/30/2007 2:31:58 AM
I belive that when woman loves swallowing is not the problem. But on the other side she can always spitt it out. Taste cannot be worse than exotic food - for instance oistre (les huitres) or some Viatnameese soup.

But I would be glad if women would explan me their experiences becouse I don't have many. Is ther a women who likes it?
 Redseadiver

Joined: 10/27/2007
Msg: 49
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Posted: 10/30/2007 3:58:41 AM
Personally I enjoy swallowing. It doesn't matter if it is with a guy that I have been dating for years, or someone that I just randomly suck... Ok that sounds bad but in my younger days... I like it because I'm damn good at it.

Anyhow, it giving oral is much more enjoyable when you can tell the guy is enjoying it. For instance, he moans, breathes heavier, plays with your hair, pulls your hair back, his thighs start shaking, etc. I know that the body automatically changes before a climax, but guys, if you are liking what we are doing then SHOW IT! The only time I spit is if I accidentally inhale at the same time he's cumming.

Guys, avoid tuna.
 daydreamer2121

Joined: 9/29/2007
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Posted: 10/30/2007 7:54:39 AM
I appreciate the mild concern for my emotional well being in some of the responses
I am however well aware that sex does not equal love.
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