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Posted: 10/30/2007 8:30:21 AM | | to the guy who has a prob with kissing a woman after she has gone down on him... i would bet you dont get many second offers.... i think its it ludicrous that a man would be put off by his own taste....lol | |
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Posted: 10/30/2007 10:05:38 AM | I was married to man I could not stand (abusive, etc.). I REFUSED to even let that THING *near* my mouth, let alone swallow.
I have to have strong feelings for the man to get that intimate with him and then with the strong feelings (hey, let's call it LOVE!), comes the swallowing. If I am in love with the man I want to do what I can to please him. There ya go. | |
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Posted: 10/30/2007 10:23:58 AM | My theory is that if you genuinely want to do something, you'll enjoy it at an emotional and physical level.
Individual reasons for genuinely wanting to do something vary of course...intimacy, attraction, taboo, power exchange, desire, curiousity, anger...the full gamut.
But if you're now enjoying it and didn't previously, it's probably because you now want to enjoy it...
Another neat thing is we can choose how we feel about most anything that isn't completely anti-social; all that's required is to identify and bypass the learned/taught/programmed ways you're "supposed" to feel about a particular thing in favour of the way you "want" to feel. | |
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Posted: 10/30/2007 10:32:41 AM |
i've never had a girl good enough to even get close to swallowing anything do guys actually cum from head or is this just a porn thing
Yeah i can assure you it's a real life thing lol..
Some people don't like it at all some people will do it for their own personal pleasure because they enjoy it in which case i don't think it matters if you like them an awful lot or not.. to me (without sounding too bad) I don't feel any different about swallowing depending on who it is.. if i like it enough to make him actually cum then heck it's going down.. as for people who wont kiss someone after.. have you ever tried it? it might not be as bad as you think. Double standards are out of order though i deffinatly think that if you wont give you shouldnt recieve.. giving without expecting is fine though.. sometimes i'd be just as satisfied if not more by ending sex at a blowjob | |
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Posted: 10/30/2007 12:00:05 PM |
I am however well aware that sex does not equal love.
I'm sure you do. Bur a spectacularly large proportion of the population doesn't understand that really good sex doesn't equal love. | |
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Posted: 10/30/2007 12:08:29 PM | Mamma always said it's RUDE to SPIT! | |
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Posted: 10/30/2007 12:52:59 PM | I think the deeper the level of commitment , love and trust , the more enjoyable the actual act may be however I've found the plain truth is that the semen itself tastes very different depending on smoking, beer drinking and onions !!
I've never found it offensive myself, swallowing is kind of the completion of the whole intimate pleasure, however pineapple juice definately works in adding to the forbidden fruit !! | |
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Posted: 10/30/2007 1:44:42 PM | I don't generally have a problem with it, but then again I usually only have sex, in the context of a committed,
loving relationship. One thing I did discover years ago though, always brush before falling alseep. It can leave
a dreadful after-taste the next day! | |
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Posted: 10/30/2007 11:04:25 PM |
sometimes i'd be just as satisfied if not more by ending sex at a blowjob
We need more women like you here in Australia  | |
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Posted: 10/31/2007 12:28:43 AM | | I would not say it was a newfound joy. And I know it does not translate into deeper feelings for this guy. Actually it was love for him as a person and the "moment"...not the falling in love forever type of love. I suppose we are all different in the way we experience and view sex. So this is just my own view. I didn't say that enjoying swallowing a guy's semen translates into stronger feelings for him. I was saying that feelings for a person can affect if you like or don't like to swallow it. However, good points you made on how one can believe they are more emotionally involved than they really are. I agree, sometimes, you just have to enjoy the sex for sex, and leave it at that. | |
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Posted: 10/31/2007 2:11:31 PM | love to have the women swallowing ill kiss them afterwards no problem | |
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Posted: 10/31/2007 2:20:33 PM | | I know I am REALLY going out on a limb......here goes.........it is always so deep in my throat when he climaxes that I don't even know what it tastes like. I know what it feels like, just not near enough to my taste buds to taste it. | |
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Posted: 10/31/2007 7:22:33 PM | sweet*child
I think I speak for many on POF in expressing how much you are appreciated right now. :) | |
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Posted: 10/31/2007 9:36:36 PM | | its better when you love the person | |
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Posted: 10/31/2007 10:40:18 PM | i usually dont swallow for a guy unless there are some feelings. BUT, i just enjoy giving a great blowjob anyways. lol
if i meet a guy and our sexual personalities match, then i'll definitely swallow for him, whether or not i think anything will come of it. but i rarely find guys who click w/ me like that enough for me to do it, unless there are emotions involved. | |
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Posted: 11/1/2007 2:14:43 AM | absolutely it is alot better if there is intensee emotional attachment. And yes some men do taste a little different.
as for the jealous man who is upset because noone will give him a blow job randomly, "get the hell over it". When you date someone and when you are ultimatly and incredably in love are two different things. | |
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Posted: 11/1/2007 4:51:09 AM | | i agree all men taste slightly different and of course if you have stronger feelings for the man your doing it for it will be more intense and both will enjoy it more - and mostly important i was always told it was rude to spit | |
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Posted: 11/1/2007 4:46:55 PM | after it cums out of me........do with it what ever you wish, i don't need it any more
spit...swallow, i don't care.....so long as i cum | |
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Posted: 11/1/2007 5:19:58 PM | | I've come to the conclusion that pineapple juice or guava nectar gives the best taste results. Its almost a treat for your woman. | |
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Posted: 11/1/2007 6:17:52 PM | I couldn't resist..very apropo...
What's the difference between love and lust?
A spit and a swallow?
Teehee | |
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Posted: 11/1/2007 6:41:31 PM | It's probably both; (either/or) or some combination of the two. I'm available for additional study on the matter. | |
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Posted: 11/1/2007 6:45:15 PM | ^^^^ If you were referring to my post...its a joke..I shouldn't have put the question mark there..bad habit of mine..and men tend to think it's literally a question..oops.. | |
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Posted: 11/2/2007 5:33:35 AM | 100% agree mary ewww that mean men are gross salty an just not somthin im fond out but eh if they like me then ok lol
im not one for doing that whole thing in the first place lol
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Posted: 11/2/2007 5:34:59 AM | | ya agree to lol i still prefer it done to me more then me doing to the guy lol | |
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