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 Texas_Transplant!

Joined: 7/26/2007
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Posted: 11/2/2007 7:32:38 PM
Spitters are for Quitters!!! One thing I never really did understand, a guy c ums,......its in your mouth, hits every taste bud, you have 2 choices, 1) hold it in your mouth that much longer to run and spit or 2)you swallow quickly. I see as tho (2) is a win win situation, its not in your mouth as long and your guy appreciates you that much more! lol And when your diet is lacking protein, your guy gets to help you out with the "deposit" of protein.
 I did it!!

Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 77
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Posted: 11/2/2007 8:02:37 PM
uh...ya...ummmmm...."GAG"....NEVER MIND...CANT EVEN COMMENT ON THIS ONE!!!:
 NJ Breeze

Joined: 10/30/2007
Msg: 78
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Posted: 11/2/2007 8:07:25 PM
For the record.
I have been told that I tasted good...
by more than 1 women.
 Pfm1011

Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 79
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Posted: 11/2/2007 8:20:40 PM
Nice try on the sales pitch ....
 surfforit

Joined: 1/12/2007
Msg: 80
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Posted: 11/2/2007 8:42:05 PM
I don't see you being sexless!
 smsweendoggy

Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 81
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Posted: 11/2/2007 11:57:33 PM
My nic name is Willy Wonka,,
 tarzier

Joined: 10/19/2007
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Posted: 11/3/2007 12:31:29 AM
^^^^^^ What were you born in the choclate factory, in the fudge packing division
 Bigsxyfem

Joined: 7/18/2007
Msg: 83
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Posted: 11/3/2007 4:07:19 AM
Hi, I have read all the post's on this subject and as a woman who very much enjoys giving oral sex and swallowing, I am somewhat surprised at some of the reactions of the guys on here!! I appreciate that giving oral is not satisfying to all women, but what does make it even more enjoyable is when you know you are satisfying the 'receiver'!!! As for some of the comments like 'gross' and disgusting', hello!!! It's an individual preference of what we do and don't do with people we love or even just fancy the pants off!! And yes, those of you out there taking the moral high ground regarding sex with others that you do not intend to marry somewhat dirty (lol), it happens lol. If these comments make me sound awful then so be it. I LOVE giving oral sex and having him cum in my mouth and swallowing it makes it all worth while, lol. As for 'does it taste better or do enjoy it more with someone you really care about or love?' For me it doesn't make alot of difference as it is something I enjoy regardless. And no, I do not blow random guys either!! lol
 BDRT

Joined: 7/29/2007
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Posted: 11/3/2007 4:31:11 AM
^^^^^ Exactly what she said!!!
 hyperdyne

Joined: 9/15/2007
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Posted: 11/3/2007 8:37:42 AM
I never categorized it as a taste more than an overall pleasure...although Ive been told when I drink a rum-coke my semen is sweet...compared to beer which makes it bitter...be glad to experiment with you sometime...on a purely scientific level of course! Guys don't rate womens essence(cum) rather than concentrating on the amount of wetness we are causing...taste shouldn't even factor into it...if I like you...and you don't taste like old roofing tiles...your gonna run like a river and you should feel the same...but I will say this...after several hours of a face full of your **** I don't expect a sideways glance when it's my turn...remember...REAL women SWALLOW....and we (men) respect and expect that...did it help?
 Beaming

Joined: 3/28/2007
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Posted: 11/3/2007 10:38:50 AM
Both, I think. Having strong feelings for someone makes whatever you do more enjoyable, but it's also true that some guys taste better than others.
 Doouglass

Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 87
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Posted: 11/3/2007 2:27:45 PM
It's definatley more enjoyable when feelings are invovled. Nothing shows a man you care like a stomach full of goo.
 mangos-at-midnite

Joined: 10/18/2007
Msg: 88
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Posted: 11/3/2007 7:51:59 PM
When you really care about someone..yes..you adore everything about them..

I see swallowing as a gift of giving and receiving..some men are so proud that you recieve their gift..that they have left something inside..and some really want to give it to you (pardon the pun) as a gift..I believe that

Then some men want you to becasue they read about it or talked about it and may see it as a "oh she did it like in the film I saw" thing or just thinking htat is how it should be..
some may leave it up to you...or it is not important

I think that when they are going to cum and at that stage they wouldn't really care or notice what you did with their load.

I reserve this interaction for trusted ,loving partners

When someone says " do you swallow?" I say "you first"

Prairie
 Scarlets Secrets

Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 89
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Posted: 11/3/2007 11:30:50 PM
Errrrmmm wierd question....
I don,t tend to go shopping trip over and my mouth ends up on the man in front of me
i'm obviously old fashioned then
As YES prefer to be in some form of relationship before my mouth goes for exercise and swollow ect
I have to have some feelings yes...

 rjpeagles

Joined: 11/30/2005
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Posted: 11/4/2007 12:56:53 AM

Why would you blow a man if there were no feelings involve.

I dated a girl who said she could only perform oral when feelings are involved. But she said her sister was opposite. Her sister would give oral to guys she wasn't really too interested in and think nothing of it, but save intercourse for guys who were special.
 biketrvlr

Joined: 11/18/2006
Msg: 91
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Posted: 11/4/2007 1:05:44 AM

It's an individual preference
well, said.

the concept of gross is purely personal and thats all it is.
 zangie

Joined: 5/30/2007
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Posted: 11/4/2007 4:49:34 AM

I dated a girl who said she could only perform oral when feelings are involved. But she said her sister was opposite. Her sister would give oral to guys she wasn't really too interested in and think nothing of it, but save intercourse for guys who were special.


Exactly..it varies from person to person, neither is "right" or "wrong", just like most issues on POF...personally..I think oral is more personal than intercourse...so, yes, I prefer it's use with men I'm emotionally involved with..
 see_me1st

Joined: 6/24/2007
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Posted: 11/4/2007 6:04:59 AM
I think that not swallowing personally isn't as nice or as much fun--for me anyway--if you are in an intimate reltaionship with a man it is soooooooooo nice tasting him as it is him tasting me--kissing after also is a personal choice but again intimate--yes I know it is personal preference--but I love to continue oral after my man has cum in my mouth and looking for soemthing to spit ruins the moment in my eyes being shinkage has started by then--it is called afterplay--preparing for the rebound now, later or in the am
As for taste--all men taste different--and yes the choices in food and beverage make a difference
 Steels488

Joined: 9/19/2007
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Posted: 11/8/2007 8:07:36 AM
Carole what is the right food to eat to make it taste good.
 Prissymae

Joined: 8/19/2007
Msg: 95
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Posted: 11/8/2007 8:13:59 AM
I wouldn't have to WORRY about swallowing unless I had deep enough feelings to perform the act.

I can get my exercise other ways. I've never considered BJ's a sport.
 textodd11

Joined: 10/27/2006
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Posted: 11/8/2007 9:06:10 AM
I know this is primarily for the ladies but I have to say that for me swallowing is such an emotional turn-on, much more than physical.

I want my partner to want my cum, it is such an incredible feeling. There is something emotionally primordial about her desiring me that is completely satisfied when I feel she wants and covets my cum. I can't explain it but for me it is the most emotionally-attached act in what is for many men, a physical release.

If I feel like a woman really desires my cum and we have an active sex life, I am completely satisfied sexually. Once again, I can't explain it but it probably ties into the OP. In some ways maybe it is tied to the emotionl attachment she feels.
 duckling

Joined: 2/28/2006
Msg: 97
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Posted: 11/8/2007 9:23:27 AM
I agree with the "individual preference" responses. It may just be my opinion, but I think it's easier for us guys to enjoy sex. If you care about the woman you're with, it's always better (for me amyway) to do the things that she really likes in bed. If a woman is comfortable, she always is way more "giving"!
 Yoyanna

Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 98
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Posted: 11/8/2007 9:51:18 AM
It's nasty regardless. Semen is semen.
 Prissymae

Joined: 8/19/2007
Msg: 99
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Posted: 11/8/2007 4:09:49 PM
No - it's not nasty. As others have said it's an act of endearment, pleasure, love, enjoyment. It's not a shake your hand kinda thang. If you love the person you love their taste.
 Yoyanna

Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 100
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Posted: 11/8/2007 4:31:33 PM
It IS nasty. Semen is semen. Whether I love the person or not, it doesn't change the taste or the gross factor. It stays the same. It's my preference and my damn business anyway and I'm allowed to have it. Other people don't tell me how to please a man.

And other posters do not set the standard for what is an act of endearment, pleasure, love and enjoyment--maybe in a weird way it is for them--but it sure as hell ain't for me.
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